Bear said it correctly (as usual
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for a lot of people here, the visuals are the main drive to their excitement. The fast and furious... Fortunately there are a lot of people that take the time to get to know their prospective partner first, getting a glance of their wishes, desires and favorable actions in a room. If the connection is made, the views more or less overlapping and a sense of excitement arises from the conversation, the experience in the room bears a lot more meaning and intensity. Instead of a run through the poses, aimed more at your own pleasure and being attentive to the other. because however you look at it, the best lovers are the ones that feed the desire and extinguish the need of the other, beforeor at the same time endulging in their own excitement.
The pose you suggest lady_kalina, is a very intimate one, a lot of body contact, skin on skin, faces close together for whispering, moaning or other outings of lust. Suggests knowing your partner well before engaging in such a close contact pose. At least, that's my opinion. Counter arguements are encouraged...lol