Well big difference from corporal punishment as a youth and the implementation of such under consenting adults in erotic play. I prefer to use it as an extension of the sense of touch, even in my the extreme use of bondage forms. To employ such play here takes a pretty vivid imagination on behalf of the receiver to be effective, but the extreme sensations form the hard slap on skin or implement to the touch of lips and tongue gliding across stinging flesh is fairly dramatic.That's where the spanking pose falls short, it doesn't quite provide for the capacity of extremes,, the throat choke on it needs to be independent of the other hand. I should be able to hold my playmate, and apply punishment OR sensual touch to her. The power of the bound form is their hopelessness to the givers discretion. PAIN or pleasureThat said, the erotic use of rope tying can fairly varied, and quite individualistic. I have grown to appreciate Kinbaku as an art form...
Quote from: Bear on December 15, 2011, 10:02:55 AMWell big difference from corporal punishment as a youth and the implementation of such under consenting adults in erotic play. I prefer to use it as an extension of the sense of touch, even in my the extreme use of bondage forms. To employ such play here takes a pretty vivid imagination on behalf of the receiver to be effective, but the extreme sensations form the hard slap on skin or implement to the touch of lips and tongue gliding across stinging flesh is fairly dramatic.That's where the spanking pose falls short, it doesn't quite provide for the capacity of extremes,, the throat choke on it needs to be independent of the other hand. I should be able to hold my playmate, and apply punishment OR sensual touch to her. The power of the bound form is their hopelessness to the givers discretion. PAIN or pleasureThat said, the erotic use of rope tying can fairly varied, and quite individualistic. I have grown to appreciate Kinbaku as an art form...Bear, I love what you say. I've not had any experience of bondage yet and I've certainly never heard of "Kinbaku" whatever that is.......If you were to promise not to show Newgurl the spreader bar I'd let you show me
ooooooooo well if you folks are going to bring the spreader bars out why not the rest of the toys just make sure you invite me too sometime
Well I have given her plenty of ideas to work with,... you two should be busy for quite awhile. notice the rope work grasshopper?
Quote from: Bear on December 15, 2011, 07:19:00 PMWell I have given her plenty of ideas to work with,... you two should be busy for quite awhile. notice the rope work grasshopper?couldn't miss it Bear. "when you can take the tail from my ass" I couldn't find your picture on your link , but I did find out that you like riding crops. Did I tell you about riding crops and my rl bf? Well you'll have to ask me to find out! and if my wife flirts with you again you have my permission to use one on her, especially as she doesn't do sub!