Very True Janine. "Obligated" is not my best choice of words. As you said, since we pay we should be able to spend out time as we see fit. What my point is, It would be in our best interests to show free users the benefits of becomeing Prem users. However there will always be some users, free or prem that will abuse the invite and will not talk at all.
Quote from: NewGurl on December 22, 2011, 04:44:10 PMVery True Janine. "Obligated" is not my best choice of words. As you said, since we pay we should be able to spend out time as we see fit. What my point is, It would be in our best interests to show free users the benefits of becomeing Prem users. However there will always be some users, free or prem that will abuse the invite and will not talk at all.Thats where my point comes through being subjective ... you never know till you are with them if they are going to be that kind and alot of the time (in my experience) it has not been worth it.
for me personally, i have found that most free users are very rude, send the most cold invites, and seriously lack respect.now, that being said. i have met a few freebies on here that have become friends. if someone knows how to carry on a conversation, show respect, ect. i enjoy chatting with new people. i do agree however that achat should limit the amnt of time a user can remain free. the irritation from cold invites and just plain nasty freebies is ridiculous. and i also know from exp that prem users are for fact more polite and respectful. none of this is important for me as far as rooming with someone. if the chemistry/attraction isnt present, ill be damned if im cybering with any of em. period. to me if i did, i might as well be whoring, as i pay my own way and could care less about a friggin gift.