I agree with Bear, going into a group setup with the right attitude is important. Also keep in mind that a MFM is all about the girl not you. I normally find what helps is talking to the other guy, break the ice ... you know "where you from" ect. Then I step back for awhile, letting him know that I am not in competition with him. After awhile everyone is relaxed and having a good time.
Oh just a tip for the guys, don't rush through the poses. Take your time ... again its about her now you
@ deelishuz1 - You should go visit him, with two BIG man loving thugs ... what goes around comes around.
@ bear - Thanks for sharing that "wtf moment", just brightened up my day a bit