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Hi again,

I  have met MSL and what he says is true.

As readers of this forum will know, I am a hot little flirt and into being spanked & dominated, but I hate and campaign against the scenario outlined by MSL where the "other person" be it male or female treats their partner "like a piece of shit and a fucking whore"

Of course there are players who feel like this. I can usualy spot them long before we ever get to rooming and I'll never ever play with them although I may give them a piece of my mind!

What I do with my partners is consensual and if I allow myself to be dominated it is because I allow it and because I trust the person doing it to respect me.
I am friends with a couple of subs on here who delight in being abused in different ways, one will do really painful  or degrading things to themselves in rl, the other loves being "pimped out" on here by their Mistress. Neither of them would puit up with the sort of very real dangerous abuse described by MSL and above.

Unfortunately Trekmanalpha is unable to distinguish between consensual domination and very real abuse and feels that all people who like to be spanked or dominated must like to be treated as worthless whores, which actually puts him in the same category as the assholes who do think and act like that.
I have been friends with Trekmanalpha for months, but since the issue with Sharon, he has become very blinkered and introverted and I am very sad to say that we are no longer friends and he was quite unkind to me with what he said.
I regret this very much, but I have never changed in the time we have known each other and I would, for him, leave aside my perversions to give him the loving he says he craves.

Apologies for the length of the post, I'm doing my dissertation atm and I'm getting used to writing for ever!
xx
Blue

Kitten, as i had noticed talking whit Eve sometimes, it is a little hard for her to express clearly her toughs, probably for her bad experience. I can tell you she is really nice and she have a big heart, so, please, have a little patience whit her, you all.....

Eve, who had read all your old post, know how was your real experience in the past and how they hurt you, so i can understand you are not looking for pictures or contacts on Skype ... MSN ... find a mate for real live ...you need time to win against your past, the ugly think happend to you and i hope, as i had say to you, you can find someone who will help you in doing this. i see you like a little scarried girl who can't trust the peoples around her.....but please, remember not all the peoples are mad in this world! take care, my little friend!


MSL, Blue.......yes, we have lot of different peoples here, like in RL: very good peoples and others absolutily mad, but that's how the life is and all we can do is to recognize the mad one and take some measures to avoid them. of course here on aChat is more easy, but there is allways a way to take them away even in real life.....talking about this, Kitten, i'm sorry for what happend to you and i'm glad now you feel a little safe whit the AVO (hope i remember it well!) on him.

i consider all of you like wonderful peoples and i'm glad for the efford everyone show for the others......here on this forum we have a really nice community and i hope this can be moved into achat too!

Thank you all for being part of this family!

A little note:

i had meet Eve yesterday night, and she is really sorry for the impression she had give to Kitten. She wan to replay and apologize, but seems like her accounts are blocked here at the moment. she will do it when have solved this tecnical problem.

I know I received a message from Eve (on another of her avatars). I accepted her apology from my perspective like i said in here I may have just misinterpreted what she said. (happens sometimes)

Wow, way to bash me Blue. I'm not bashing you or what you like... just saying that taking it too far is far enough. But whatever.
Also, it wasn't an issue with Sharon, it was Shannon, and that's done and over with.

And those of you who obviously and completely disagree that mistreatment of woman and young girls, yes, I said girls, (I've run into quite a few who are under 18 here, and BRAG about it, and a lot of guys who LOVE to be with young players - I know, I know, the Achat policies and such... but for all you know, I could be a freaking 8 year old... its far too easy to fake the login data, and create an account, and NOBODY checks until it's reported...) Those of you who LOVE the under age players, or even those who CLAIM to be young, that's my issue. It's pedophilia, even if it's on a GAME, and not in real life.

So, for all those who hate me for bringing this up, Good Bye. I'm done here. Nothing here for me anyway, its not fun anymore. I wish you all well.

I know I received a message from Eve (on another of her avatars). I accepted her apology from my perspective like i said in here I may have just misinterpreted what she said. (happens sometimes)

glad to read it, Kitten......that's a good news! 


Trek, no one here had said will love the under age and no one had said will hate you. having different opinion is a normal thing and everyon had to accept others opinion, even if different from our personal one. of course, that doesn't mean you have to agree whit it, but respect it, yes! most here agree whit you, it's so clear, but at the same time we look at all the point who normally come out in a relationship and, to make it work here or in real, yopu havo to know your partner desire and fantasies and, of course, if you have different opinion a good talk about them is really necessary.

Reading your last words, i can presume you wan to leave the forum......and this is sad......hope you don't gonna do it!

Trek, i'm glad you are here again whit us and you had clarify better your point of you.  I agree to most of the think you had write, on others, well, soon or later i'll gonna find it out......i hope!

Sometimes I just need a good slap to the face, or maybe someone to punch me hard enough for me to wake up... :/

Yes sometimes everyone does. The important thing is to learn from our mistakes and everyone I am sure is willing to help people learn.

I am proud of you treky.

For a sec there I thought you called me "Zekkie... as in Zek... grand nagus of the Ferengi alliance... )

It fills my heart with joy that  this site and the lovely people on here  have boosted your confidence and  put a spring back in your step...
Sure,you'll come across idiots every now and then but  on the whole,  we got a great bunch of people on here..... And  it's just great....

It's great we have good guys on here too , especially  when you have just dealt with  a complete knob & need to put things back in perspective...

Trek, if I may be as bold to say ....  It's lovely that you are a generous man .... But  you will be taken advantage of..... Especially by unscrupulous people on here...   Set yourself  a creed.... I will not gift unless ....    Just a thought ..  It's your game my friend....

Covems,  it's about time you had a go on JD's Bull  down at the Bar&Grill ,  there's a skull full of Brandy punch if you can stay on 30 seconds.. 

It fills my heart with joy that  this site and the lovely people on here  have boosted your confidence and  put a spring back in your step...
Sure,you'll come across idiots every now and then but  on the whole,  we got a great bunch of people on here..... And  it's just great....

It's great we have good guys on here too , especially  when you have just dealt with  a complete knob & need to put things back in perspective...

Trek, if I may be as bold to say ....  It's lovely that you are a generous man .... But  you will be taken advantage of..... Especially by unscrupulous people on here...   Set yourself  a creed.... I will not gift unless ....    Just a thought ..  It's your game my friend....

Covems,  it's about time you had a go on JD's Bull  down at the Bar&Grill ,  there's a skull full of Brandy punch if you can stay on 30 seconds.. 

You might want to re-read my post. I already said, I wont gift unless I want to.

Love & hug, then, so ......  You going on the bull too ?   

What bull?