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« #165 : May 23, 2013, 01:57:15 PM »
What turn me off :

- "turning around the pot" when she doesn't say (not exactly) what she want, without the body language i am lost :o,
- asking for A$ unless it is for a roleplay,
- slang overuse, because i cannot understand,
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« #166 : May 30, 2013, 12:22:40 PM »
Quote from: Momma_andrea on May 10, 2013, 02:36:11 PM
Quote from: Momma_andrea on January 12, 2013, 09:09:12 AM
OK, I got something new to bitch about.
"I like your age."  , "It's good you are mature."   blah blah and blah.  Yeah, I'm so glad I got your fucking approval.
Hey, mention my age again because, honey, that's REALLY working for ya. 

Yes I know, seems harsh but I'm so fucking tired of it.

GGRRRRRR, STILL!

Oh yeah... I hear you with that one... it's always'  "oh good you are mature"

My answer usually is:  "You couldn't have turned me OFF faster with a switch."
And... being called "Mommy" right off the bat is instant ignore.  I no longer want to know what that person wants.
I got this one the other evening:

Him:  Do u (I'm not even worth a full word) like younger guys?
Me:  No... I prefer MEN.

silence

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« #167 : May 30, 2013, 01:05:45 PM »
Nice reply mooncalf

A gentleman never asks a lady her age and would never say anything if they know it

There are still some of us out there mooncalf
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« #168 : May 30, 2013, 01:12:10 PM »
Oh, for sure  ....  

The  M words   -   Mom,  Milf ,  Mature ...     Real men don't  use them in their proper patter

Women's equivalent answer.. ...   "  Yes, Little Dick " .....       Now  maybe they will  understand ?

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« #169 : May 30, 2013, 01:36:04 PM »
I feel the same about that.

Just this week i was at a college for work and some guy ask one of the lady's from the collage staff how old she was in the middle of the hallway with lots of people around. A thru gentleman, never asks a lady her age, and certainly not in public.


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« #170 : May 30, 2013, 02:38:46 PM »
Good answer mooncalf. Funny is if you say any age and if they ask "really?" you say "no".

For those, like me, having their age in profile it's also funny to be asked "how old are you?"
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« #171 : May 30, 2013, 03:43:57 PM »
Quote from: Brandybee on May 30, 2013, 01:12:10 PM


The  M words   -   Mom,  Milf ,  Mature ...     Real men don't  use them in their proper patter



I do.





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« #172 : May 30, 2013, 07:23:21 PM »
Rolling my eyes... ::)      muttering   affectionately of course   " Asshole"      sting twitching ...    ;D  ;D  ;D

Munching on  lots of cheese onion before I take my turn after  Moon calf   :-*

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« #173 : May 31, 2013, 04:51:08 AM »
Quote from: Covems on May 30, 2013, 03:43:57 PM
Quote from: Brandybee on May 30, 2013, 01:12:10 PM


The  M words   -   Mom,  Milf ,  Mature ...     Real men don't  use them in their proper patter



I do.


Yes you do...


Asshole


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« #174 : November 09, 2013, 03:22:42 AM »
*digging out this old topic*

Hi togeather,

well for me there are some big turnoffs in chat e.g.:

-  suddenly leaving for room while chatting with me wiithout any word: I mean, come on, would be okay if she just writes:
"will be in room  now" or something like that
- needing too long time to write. For me this means she is chatting with other(s) . Of course I know that there are much more M online than F. Maybe it's just me but it's simply a question of manner.
- asking/begging for dollars 
- stopping to answer just in the middle of the chat

However: achat is fun most of the time

Greetings

Oli
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« #175 : November 16, 2013, 10:52:12 AM »
Quote from: OliU on November 09, 2013, 03:22:42 AM
*digging out this old topic*

Hi togeather,

well for me there are some big turnoffs in chat e.g.:

-  suddenly leaving for room while chatting with me wiithout any word: I mean, come on, would be okay if she just writes:
"will be in room  now" or something like that
- needing too long time to write. For me this means she is chatting with other(s) . Of course I know that there are much more M online than F. Maybe it's just me but it's simply a question of manner.
- asking/begging for dollars 
- stopping to answer just in the middle of the chat

However: achat is fun most of the time

Greetings

Oli

Hi Welcome to the Forum and this topic.
- I can agree with the suddenly leaving being rude personally I let the other people I am talking to know not everyone does that and it can be annoying. (Usually I only talk to people that are on the forums)
- To be fair you cant get angry with this one usually when it comes to chatting there is several people messaging at once and some just cant take a hint being more patient in that regard probably would be more beneficial to you. Remember in a room we cant talk with anyone else and it could be that a friend has hopped on that they wanted to talk to before you were talking to them. Plus getting impatient with someone and displaying that to them just doesn't go overly well in your favour.
- Cant agree more with that ... I for one will not ask for any form of payment at all the idea is mutual fun not exploitation.
- I am unclear what you mean here so I am gonna assume you mean while in the room. Thats something thats normal if your asking questions. If out of the room thats just normal for responses stopping to answer is just something that occurs.
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« #176 : November 19, 2013, 01:58:17 PM »
Quote from: OliU on November 09, 2013, 03:22:42 AM
*digging out this old topic*

Hi togeather,

well for me there are some big turnoffs in chat e.g.:

-  suddenly leaving for room while chatting with me wiithout any word: I mean, come on, would be okay if she just writes:
"will be in room  now" or something like that
- needing too long time to write. For me this means she is chatting with other(s) . Of course I know that there are much more M online than F. Maybe it's just me but it's simply a question of manner.
- asking/begging for dollars 
- stopping to answer just in the middle of the chat

However: achat is fun most of the time

Greetings

Oli


Hi Oli,

Just picking up on  your second point here.

Players do chat to several people at once and perhaps  if you presume that they are chatting with others, you would not be so offended.
Even if you have arranged a date or have a priority lover or spouse, it is always polite to ask  if they are ready before sending the invite, so they can finish their chat.
This has worked very well with Jayc and I. We have been a couple here for nearly 2 years now, and we both chat to others when we are in the "Lobby" as you might in RL
When we room, that is of course, our private time together.
Hope this helps.  Enjoy your game.

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« #177 : November 20, 2013, 03:15:35 PM »
So let me get this straight, I should say hello to everyone and respond to every little "hi" that comes my way, BUT at the same time don't chat with others while I am chatting to you.

RIGHT  ::)

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« #178 : November 20, 2013, 03:29:32 PM »

Fraid so Momma... us girls have it easy!


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« #179 : November 21, 2013, 08:04:40 AM »


Quote from: Momma_andrea on November 20, 2013, 03:15:35 PM
So let me get this straight, I should say hello to everyone and respond to every little "hi" that comes my way, BUT at the same time don't chat with others while I am chatting to you.


Yes!!  Exactly!!

I know it's a difficult thing to be able to do that, but you ladies are always bragging about how well you can multi-task!  So here's your chance to prove how well you can do it. 

Answer every little "hi" or (Pafe's favorite) "kiss bb" that comes your way, while still maintaining a chat with ... well ... everyone!!  Oh... and don't forget to get yourself all prettied up and please, please, don't burn the dinner.






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