that way when I start my AChat session, I start it with those kisses. 
That is so sweet
In answer to your question, here is what I do:
I log in
Put myself on "busy for all"
Take care of any Relationships"
Take care of "Messages"... both receiving and sending
Change clothing (but only if I'm on a 3 day subscription)
Check to see if any friends are on
Take myself off "busy for all"
Deny multiple cold invites
Fend off all the "hi bb"
Go through the search