Is it just me or is it just that people in this community are too stuck-up? I got curious about 6 hours ago and signed up, got premium and all that and tried chatting people up. Out of 10 people I messaged, only 2 bothered to respond. Even though I'm a legitimate newbie and have no idea what the heck is going on, most of the people who even responded to me laughed at me and sneered, "Nice try," before ignoring me. :/Quote from: lucian87 on January 06, 2014, 08:34:59 AMI've been trying for the past couple hours with breaks in between without any success, and I'm thinking of quitting already. There ought to be some system that penalizes people for ignoring messages (-A$10) unless they're legitimately busy. Trying to keep an open mind about AChat here, but it's difficult to remain interested at this point.Hi lucian87, Strong words for someone who’s only tried out the game for 6 hours and then a further 2. I tried it out for 10 weeks before I joined up and it took me 4 weeks to figure out how to get the Santa hat off and the glasses LMAO. And let me tell you, I met my fair share of Cookie Monsters.3 1/2 years later, I still do. Go check out some of the Worst chat Ups Topic to see what some have to put up with.There are several reasons why people don’t respond. Don’t take it personal. They could be in several conversations at once. There are more guys here than girls so there is competition out there whether you like it or not. Check out the guys profiles and make sure yours is up there to catch attention. Some may even be away from keyboard, at work , or here in forum.Some may not like your approach. So try something different. A romantic type message can work or at least be an ice breaker. Don’t expect to room. Some like to chat first to see if there is any chemistry and some are in long term Achat relationships and choose to room with their spouse or special lover only. Some may play but give priority to their special lover first if they are on line at the same time or it may even be an arranged date. There are people from all over the world here. Some don’t speak good English, some not at all. People’s humour is different and “Nice Try” may seem offensive to you but to the other person, it may have been an opener to start a conversation, you could try answering … “I thought so too, took me an age to think of it. I’m new, any pointers to improve it?” and if they answer, the start is a good one. If not leave it awhile and try elsewhere. They may be in chat. Then after a reasonable time. “I take it you are busy, thank you for replying. Have fun and a great evening”The thing is, don’t presume, they are ignoring you, presume they are busy. A bad attitude won’t make you attractive to girls on here. Most are here to enjoy themselves and someone who moans can soon be replaced with a more pleasant conversation. You can’t fine someone for not talking to you, it’s a bit like stamping your foot in a tantrum. Best thing to do is try, try, and try again. Don’t give up but be pleasant and don’t judge people.This game is what you make it. Give it a chance.You did the right thing joining the forum village. The residents here are the best in the world and are not stuck up at all. That is quite a sweeping statement you made there and you could offend people. You could even get a virtual punch in the nose. Try introducing yourself in the below topic. You will no doubt meet more of us and may make new friends. Forum Homepage / Organisations & Events / Introduce yourself http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/board,22.0.htmlGood Luck and I hope your efforts are rewarded in kind. oh yeah, Quote from: lucian87 on January 06, 2014, 09:02:10 AMAs a veteran of Second Life, the options in AChat are appallingly limited. It also appears that lots of women don't put in a smidgin of effort into making their avatars look like they weren't run over by an 18-wheeler truck and put back together by a child with cerebral palsy using super-glue. It's a bit difficult to compliment on anything in their anatomy that stands out when limited effort has been put in by the women.That's rude, When in Rome ... and all that. You are getting a virtual punch in the nose.
I've been trying for the past couple hours with breaks in between without any success, and I'm thinking of quitting already. There ought to be some system that penalizes people for ignoring messages (-A$10) unless they're legitimately busy. Trying to keep an open mind about AChat here, but it's difficult to remain interested at this point.
As a veteran of Second Life, the options in AChat are appallingly limited. It also appears that lots of women don't put in a smidgin of effort into making their avatars look like they weren't run over by an 18-wheeler truck and put back together by a child with cerebral palsy using super-glue. It's a bit difficult to compliment on anything in their anatomy that stands out when limited effort has been put in by the women.