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There are many posts in this thread that I agree with and sympathize with.  Both men and women are often frustrated with the socializing that occurs in this game.  The profiles don't offer us much space to stand out and be distinct, other than in our clothing.  So it is often difficult for a guy to know what to say to a woman to distinguish himself as 'conversation' worthy since he doesn't know much about her to begin with other than her avatar's outfit.  Overall, the only thing any of us can do, is remain polite, patient, and try to use complete sentences.  Much like socializing at a bar or any other venue, no one is guaranteed to meet someone with whom they will click. Still, we all keep trying for various reasons.  Either we are seeking fantasies to be explored, or conversations and connections because we are lonely.  I think part of being 'distinct' when being brave and approaching a woman is having the integrity to not flip out when she doesn't respond, as well as not feel crushed.  Some people on here have been very nice.  Others don't seem to have the ability to carry a conversation, let alone be very descriptive in their actions once in a room.  But I am confidant that there are more gems here than coals, and sooner or later everyone will find someone to enjoy shining with in a room. 

Not to necro post but I think this post strikes at the heart of probably the only frustrating part of AChat. The out of room chatting. A few things I have noticed and their hiccups.

1. The green light doesn't change when the person you are viewing enters a room. You have to leave their profile and come back to refresh it. Nothing like sending a message and no response only to have your next message get hit with a busy msg. Ah oops yellow light. damn the timing.

2. AFKs. When you set your status to busy for all due to AFK you dont get any messages sent while you are AFK. Grrr. I love my friends and always reply SO How do I know they are patiently waiting my return from RL? I dont set the busy status so I can read their pokes and respond. This of course may lead to a frustrated few who weren't around for my brb msg.

3. Stars on non premium profiles..ok this just gives me a headache. All my friends are premium. (Sorry freebies I like the baby batter payoff) I set to busy for free users and oooops One of my friends was blocked because her sub expired. Grrrr.

All in all I can say this about the pokes and heys. When I log in and I get a 'hey' I pull up your profile so I know who I am talking to. I just think it polite. If I am inundated with conversations and your single syllable greeting comes over I may not take the time to properly greet you. If your opening line is lewd or your profile pic is your package then I hit ignore. Different strokes for different folks.