I can only repeat, you buy the subscription, not other people. It's a product you buy, not other people! See it like a club. You pay to be allowed to enter it, but inside it's up to you and your communication skills As for achat money, when someone is buying a subscription for a month or more, achat money is given. I say that if it's all about the money, than one can always find willing partners for some achats. Players list is always full of 'men only for gift' and 'I'll be yours for a gift' Sometimes I receive coldinvitation from premium users. Or rude invitations. Or just plain stupid ones. So what? He bought the subscription, but he didn't buy me! I do not feel guilty when I do not respond or even blacklist stupid or rude subscribers
As far as I can tell, being free male user is bad, but not the worst. Being a free shemale is worser, because shemales do not have any free poses while men (and women) have two
When I talk to free males, I always suggest them to buy a subscription, because the game is made that way. I explain them that most women with blue star are not premium themselves, and that's why they want premium partners. But let's face the truth - it's a free-to-play videogame, so if one do not want to pay, he/she should be happy with what he/she has. Speaking of money, 10 usd per month is not much, and it won't kill anyone who can download the game client. At least, one can buy 1-month subscription and see if he/she would like the full game or not.