@covems:
....If these rules aren't carved in stone, maybe we could amend rule number 3. Allow the ladies to purchase their card at a discount for what ever they would like to "volunteer" to do in the event of a male winner. Something like this:
10 for not offering anything except the banner (party poopers)
8 for a pole, lap dance (if it goes further.. yay!... if not... yay!)
5 for an "anything can happen" date (Maybe with a time limit... I usually only last 10 - 15 minutes, then it's joke city... but others may go longer)
Brandy and i have thought about. Though it's a nice idea we won't offer it.
The main reason: If a girl/shemale/guy joins who don't want to have these special dates or a full blown

they don't get their full prize. Also we could encourage members to offer herself just to save money.
And last but not least it's easier for everyone to understand:
30 player, 30 cards, 300A$. 30 player, 50 cards, 500A$....