What I love about BDSM is, there are no rules. It is different for everyone and every couple and you carve it out as you go along. If a sub feels like being bratty she can be, but she knows the repercussions for doing so, LOL in fact she is relying on it.I am a sub who loves to obey, but I also hate the "silly" games, like I would never be a pony or do some sort of performance for a Dom. I would just find that humiliating and don't wish to do it, but for another that may be a big thing.I would crawl on the floor for my Master as he lead me by a leash but I would never eat from a bowl... but I would eat from his hand There are as many shades of BDSM as there are shades of color in the rainbow.