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Vaelene, as you had probably notice around here and there in the forum, there are people who are using colours in their text, as Tango who usually write them in yellow and it can be nice and plus it make an user immidiately recognizable (is it the right word!? mah!), so if you use red or blue, it's not a problem, but maybe the bold make it look a bit strange, that's all!

and girl.....i know what you mean with the religious thing, you want to point to the fact she's using it as a "shield" to hide her true self (and maybe had fun of others!? mah!).....but at last, in my opinion, the whole internet thing is a big shield who hide and protect us (even if it can happen there are people who are not afraid to reveal their true self) and if it happen on the whole net, it's normal it happen on AChat too! now.....i'm just making a mere supposition cause i don't know what her goal is and when i check her profile, there was no trace of the "God thing" on it.

Ok so I am not sure if this is against any of the game rules, but it is still in pretty bad taste so thought I'd ask.

There is a woman on AChat that always has God plastered all over her profile while her avatar stands around topless with sexual pictures in her little avatar spot.  You know normal stuff for AChat but mixing all the God stuff with porn and sex is in pretty bad taste I have to say.  And I don't even believe in God lol. 

Is there any way to get her to stop the God stuff?  I tried talking to her but she just used her God to preach down to me for asking and ignored me lol.

This was your first post and honestly i don't see anything strange in it, just a normal request and i will answer now for as it is: i agree with you, for some who really trust in God (no metter the one you believe, anyone is free to choose it) it can be unpleasent (and there are some who can be even offended by this) mixing Him with porn but, till she don't break any TOS, i don't think it will be easy to make her remove it, so all you (or others) can do is to ignore her (not putting on ignore, but simply avoiding her) and look for different partner.

The net is a gian place, with different kind of users.....it's normal jump into someone we daon't agree or like: the good thing is we can avoid them easily then in real life ones we found them. don't let them ruin your experience here, try to find the nice side oof AChat and enjoy it!

Valene, do what you expect other do too - read careful. My post was to everyone and I used examples of you and Nexe. Its not the discussion i had to stop, but personal insults and assumptions. We can, we may and we want to talk about everything, but its the tone which is making music.

I didnt slam you for liking red. Just together with some words you used it sounded aggressive - im sure you know what i meant, youre a smart girl

When i said we checked the profil of this member and cant do anything, it was an info for everyone, as my post was for everyone too. Its important for further discussions.

Youre right, there was a gap in communication. But the way this thread moved was not helpful to close this gap. You wanted to talk about the way she is using her profile and god-sight to blame and to offend other members and it changed to a discussion about religion and ignore-function. Im sure this wasnt your intention, am i right?

As i also told you, this is one discussion and has nothing in common with all your other posts and topics. I absolutely dont see a reason for removing these ones. I also dont want to talk about fault - were talking about opinions and as well as you evrybody has its on opinion and is allowed to tell it. Its not fault, just different truths. Different vies about something. This is what each forum makes alive. This is what we need and want.

Insulting anyone’s God is in bad taste and offensive but the reason it is done is to provoke a reaction and attract attention.

Many members use such tactics of religion, politics and taboo subjects to gauge a reaction. Some revel in the negative reaction caused.
They also use such tactics to make themselves known and “famous”

It is up to you on whether they are successful are not.

Personally, I don’t really care if they employ such tactics, as long as it is not against TOS. Maybe they attract likeminded persons. Good - then it means other members are left alone.

If a profile offends, and not against TOS, then don’t engage. You decide on whether it is ignored by passing over to the next profile or whether you use the magic ignore button.

If they shove their views down your throat, then you can complain to the Moderators or Support direct, along with a copy of your chat log.

Of course, if the conversation is a heated debate, then sometimes you need to step back and ask yourself some hard questions first before reporting it –
“Did I start it?”      “Did I give as good as I got?”   “Did I over react in the first contact?”   “Was I just as insultive?”

If you come out of it as bad as the person you are having the debate / argument with – then it may be best to put it down to experience and use the ignore facility or maybe even apologise and start again.

Forum is public and not general chat. Members are always encouraged to post their ideas and views and we encourage such free speech.   Some members may agree with you , some may not and as long as the post is reasoned and evidenced on such views, it is for entertaining and enjoyable reading.

The Mods, and other members too,  do and will step in if it begins to degenerate into a personal slinging match or in general sweeping statements insulting forum members, or if it starts to go off topic. It may even start a new interesting topic.

It is also important to remember that the word “you” can be used as singular and plural and third party in the English language.  Read it all ways first as it may give the text a different context and may not actually be directed personally to the original poster.

Having read, this topic several times it was beginning to degenerate and I commend the people who posted to soothe matters.

Everyone has a right to post and everyone has a right to express their views. We encourage such debates, heated or not and the right of free speech.  Sometimes though, we also have to accept, some people have strong opposing views, and some have no specific feelings either way. No one is right or wrong , just unique and individual.

Rightly so, my fellow Moderators have stepped in to calm things before the topic gets out of control and silly.

The advantage we have here, we are all over 18 and adults at the end of the day. Something other forums don’t always have and I think the carnage seen in those forums is evident in themselves.

We don’t want that to happen here.
 
@ Vaelene,  you started an interesting debate – to me that makes for an interesting read and stirs people’s passions. I actually think that is very good and stimulating. A breath of fresh air and therefore a successful topic for debate, whether you meant to or not.

Do I think you could have worded things less robustly in parts? - Of course.
Do I think there are veiled insults towards members?– Of course.
Wasn’t that exactly your intention? - I think so.
Is that a reason to remove your other posts/ topics? – Absolutely not.

Just be prepared if you are insulting whether directly or veiled, you will be moderated like everyone else.

And on that note and your command of the English language --- have you ever thought of entering the Erotic Story Contest?  The prizes are good and I have a feeling it would be a very interesting tale.
See the Contests  and Erotic Story Contest 6 – Medieval  for details.   Deadline is 31 Jan 2014.   


****   The users name has been removed from the title of this topic to prevent any embarrassment by subsequent posts  *****

I think  that   I   have to say  my  opinion and version  heard  I am working on this at the moment  what  is your own opinion     every one has  the  right to hear what  really happed 

I am FoxyRoxxy  you  accused me  to the moods   you brought it to the  forum now I would  like to  clear it how you are the one that  insulted me offended me and harassed me  this is      the   truth      of  my  version   

Jane Doe: I have been meaning to ask you awhile now.  Is that  really religious stuff on your profile?  Or is that simply a joke?   
FoxyRoxxy    it is what i belv     
FoxyRoxxy  its no joke 
FoxyRoxxy :I  dont juge you so please dont  juge me
Jane Doe: I see, had always wondered 
Jane Doe: Wasn't judging at all
Jane Doe: Just never know if what people have up is real or for  fun is all 
FoxyRoxxy i     dont    juge   
FoxyRoxxy : wealcome
FoxyRoxxy  here  have  fun
Jane Doe: So are you christian?
FoxyRoxxy : yes  am 
Jane Doe: Ok makes sense
FoxyRoxxy : you  are   woundering
Jane Doe: Do you have fun with sex on here?
FoxyRoxxy : i used  to
FoxyRoxxy :  but it  dont fill me up
FoxyRoxxy : and it was not  with many 
Jane Doe: Oh is it not fun any more?
FoxyRoxxy : i see you are merried 
FoxyRoxxy :  who do you feel about here
Jane Doe: Yes, me and my husband have fun on here together
FoxyRoxxy : thats  good 
FoxyRoxxy  i was singel   when i was doing it 
Jane Doe: It's nice to see a christian girl on here 
FoxyRoxxy :  good thing  you dont 
Jane Doe: I'll be bacl sweetie 
FoxyRoxxy  ok you tc  ok
Jane Doe: So has the good christian girl enjoyed any cock yet?   ....
FoxyRoxxy : do you only  do your   husband  as you say
Jane Doe: I only suck and fuck him, some times I give hand jobsto others
FoxyRoxxy : ok 
FoxyRoxxy : as I said   dont need pixel sex
FoxyRoxxy : if i whant some ill get merried and domy guy only ( )
FoxyRoxxy : I enjoy  talking to others here
Jane Doe: So your saying you don't have sex on here at all?-
FoxyRoxxy : I had  done it befor and it was fun  but i outgrow it-
Jane Doe: So you don't have sex here now?
FoxyRoxxy : i have good chates -
Jane Doe: So your paying for a sex game why then? -
Jane Doe: You can have good chats on any other game with no sex- 
FoxyRoxxy : i already have  all i need  -
Jane Doe: So someone else pays for you?-
FoxyRoxxy : im  done with the game 
FoxyRoxxy :  i have my frineds   
FoxyRoxxy :  they are here so i come talk to them 
Jane Doe: Could talk to them for free on a messanger 
FoxyRoxxy : i dont use it 
FoxyRoxxy : i now a few dont need  the sex here ( (((((
FoxyRoxxy : we  use it as we please ))))) 
FoxyRoxxy : if i should meet a nice guy and  we bec spous we will see                                                                                                                                                                                                 
Jane Doe: Wow christian boobs all out for everyone to see.Praise the lord! 
Jane Doe: Your god must love sex as you do ..
Jane Doe: Is god a hard cock in your mouth and pussy and ass?-- Your picture says you like using your tongue and mouth      
Jane Doe: Thanks for the profile advice, did it all up for you ........

I am new here and I  may not know who  to use the  forum well but  one thing  I do now is   I  am nice to any one came s to me  as you saw   she came to me i was nice   but she   take this  personnel     I never did  as she  is saying to the mood  the reason  I added  GOD on my  profil    is this he is  is My  passion  in my heart  is love is   unconditional without any limitations to me .

He loves me as  I am its not  for any other reason but to give him a place  in my Profil  my char is my indivitaliy  of self  i dont    go to others they come   good and bad  i get it all im   fine with this . from the start I have been harassed victimized threatend   one being  x_Rachel _x   only for deliteing her .

I dont find think  Achat  is   A bad place I have met many Nice  people in here .. as  i told you Jane Doe  I dont  judge you   dont  judge me 

i never   forced my  faith  on you( or any one )  asked me i told you  the  last part  I take that as  very wrong deceving the  forum.   

" Jane Doe: Wow christian boobs all out for everyone to see.Praise the lord!   -
Jane Doe: Your god must love sex as you do ..
Jane Doe: Is god a hard cock in your mouth and pussy and ass?-- Your picture says you like using your tongue and mouth  "

and then you came here  and posted it I became the victim..

I am sorry and  apologies   for any one  I may have offended  ....if you like to  know more you can come ask me

thank you all  this is my version    . I really wish that   we can all make it a nice  place here  so new   people  feel  welcomed to  enjoy  Achat  and  not feel   harassed as I   have been   by a few 

I dont let their negative   influence  others    . the   foxy  Jane Doe  was send to  the tos 

thank you        FoxyRoxxy


 *  Spaced and Moderated and names changed to prevent embarrassment for what its worth. ( Except x_Rachel_x as she insulted most and was banned as a consequence ) *  Brandybee

Welcome to Forum FoxyRoxxy
This is one hell of an entrance.
I spaced out your post for easier reading and removed the names to prevent any embarrassment to other members for what its worth. Unfortunately other posts were posted as I moderated.
I recognise that you have right to redress as you feel victimised in public.
 
I hope you become an active member and become involved in other topics and posts.

@ FoxyRoxxy and Vaelene

What I won’t allow and neither will my fellow moderators is for any personal spats to be played out in public and spoil the mood of this forum.
You can outline your views and ideas in a reasoned and evidenced debate like everyone else and others invited to take part.
There will not be any personal insults allowed here. I hope you both take note.

Now kiss and make up or take it out in private.
Both of you are welcome here equally, your personal spats are not.

Yes Vaelene, this was another problem we had to solve.

It was joyous, what can I say 

Forum Home Page > Discussions about sex > Everything about sex and love > Forum mod and members offended     http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,2928.0.html

@ Foxy and Vaelene: I have send both of you a pm (personal message). If you didn't get it, please tell me.



Foxy, welcome to the forum. There are many ways and reasons to join us, you found the 2nd best one

You both are having different opinions. That happens. Unfortunately you can't get together at the moment to stop this discussion. Now its on you to choose, wether you want to keep it going here in forum or if you both stop and find a common level. We offer our help as i have written in my pm.

Of course you can expand your argue and feel unhappy in the end. Or really pissed off... it won't happen here in forum, this i promise. I would love to see posts of you here, funny posts, ideas to improve game or forum, sexy and hot posts and even discussions as long as they stay friendly.
I also accept we start a discussion about god, belief, church and sex in an own topic - but with same rules. No offends, no "im better than you", no "youre shit".
Let's talk honest, open and in a way which is showing respect for each other. Like adults do. Like we do here in forum.

you can post it jane doe !  i don t  have  it  ( but i can look for it  thats all i  found  I have nothing to hide you came at me )  but you are the one   that  initiated it  and I m sure  Achat    has all the conversion  ..

the  reason  i was topless  was because I have  a another   char  cloning my every move my clothing  my   back grown    just because she   dont want me to wear  blond hair and even if i removed it   her taggs   are  to me    
this is a another  form  of harassing   with out name  so the only time she  did not  copy was  when I was topless . thats  why i did it  and  If  i want to be topless that is  choies to do as I wish   and its her choies to   copy all she wants  she bought them she can use  them  .

what is wrong is when  others  start to dictated   what others  should do or not do to harm  them   but  this is a  another  way to  provoke me  to upset me  as you  did  
being new  im still learning  the one thing i do know  its you are  teaching me   is  to learn to defent  my self  and maybe speak up for a few   that online bulling  is not acceptable  on any    place  game   online  
the only twisted  think  is  who you  came here  twisted it to your way   how you used the  forum  where you could gone to the Tos    you came to defame   me just  becs  of my faith .  you can not intimidate a individuel  on the  basis   of  religion  just because you  dont like it   thats is my faith and  and I am  proud of it  . I did not    force it  on you as you are saying   you came  and asked me  asked  me  .
I  DONT   JUGE  YOURS  and you can do all you want  thats is your choies  you can be all you want to be who you want to be     be   in here as long  as you    dont  brake the TOS    to me   you did  brake them when you said                                                      
Jane doe: Wow christian boobs all out for everyone to see.Praise the lord!   - Jane doe: Your god must love sex as you do ..jane   doe: Is god a hard cock in your mouth and pussy and ass?-- Your picture says you like using your tongue and mouth        ....

i  did not  fined  the other part  but as I see it   !  you initiated it and provoked  me  to reacted to protect my self  from your  abous  aggressive behavior  that is the  reason I  Ignore  you  thats what its  for ..and i dont like  useing  the  Ignore  but some times  have to  .

*Edited by Mod Lover*

Thank you  Brandy  and Lover     ( sorry forgot  missed one name  on the last one  line  )  sorry i did  not  get the PM  . I would  like to  Apologies to  every one here  for all this  I tryed to get  help to deal with this  being new here  .

Apology accepted.  Everyone is welcome and all views encouraged. Hopefully you will both take Lover up on his offer of help.  I can vouch for his experience as a mediator having been involved in his expertise myself.

There are people from all works of life here, different religions, different countries and beliefs, we don't have to agree with everyone else. It would be a boring world if we did, but we do have to respect those different views and beliefs and treat each other with respect.

Dispute over in forum now, lets get back to a happy village again.   

Or I will make you drink a bottle of Mallorts in the AB&G and set the dwarfs on you in the pudding pit.