Not sure whether this has been suggested but how about showing if your friends/lovers/spouses are on-line?
Welcome AndreaJ Don't know what you mean exactly. You can see if they are online if you click "Show your friends/lovers...."Or do you mean something like a table when you login?
The sectioning of relationship types is wonderful. Having the options for it to be public or private per each one in the list is bothersome. Why not just give us a option in preferences for the following : Keep Relationships Private And this would work on a global scale rather than a singular scale. As it functions now. And all it would show to others is something like "This users relationships are private sorry" Refuse Lover & Spouse Requests Which would only allow others to add you only as a friend. A Lover or spouse connection would have to be done by that user themselves. Now in the case where both may have this option enabled. Telling the other to disable this so a connection can be made. Resolves it =)And also for those of additional flavors. Subs/slaves would be nice to have their own category. I know I wouldn't consider myself simply as someones lover as a sub. Nor would I consider me a spouse. Simply for myself, speaking, I would be more than a lover but less than a spouse. And don't you dare put me in friends because of me not feeling I'm either -lol- So yes I'm suggesting a additional category for women like me =) Please and thanks! =)
It would be easier your way. I just think, it's not possible with the software they are using right now. Question is, how often do you change friends to lovers and spouses? I don't think it happens every day, so is it really important? IMHO, at the moment are other things to change and I know they are working on the next update