I completly agree with Brandy. The list is great and a good tool. And its ok that anyone can see who my friends are, but please not my lovers!A girl should be able to have secrets (and guys too). So please do the lover and spouse list in private. The other option would be to ignore the lover and spouse option totally and ad all to your friends list. But this wouldnt have been the intention of tom and rab....Ninni (second girl, following bobblers request)
Ok, first sorry for being another male I'll join in with Brandy's and Ninni's opinion. I'm not the kind of person who'll get hurt because someone else is on my friends' lovers list, but I can imagine some people who would. I support the idea of having different levels of relationships (even if I don't understand the need for "spouse" here), but I also support the fact that info such as lovers should be kept private and available only to the people concerned.Let me still thank you for listening to our rantings guys, and try to implement them as best you can. P.S. Personal message to the girls: it's quality that matters, not quantity I agree totally with the quality time ... more men should understand THAT rule
Good job on the secret relationship option!