« #31 : March 21, 2015, 08:16:15 PM »
I've only been here a little more than a week, but I think it's safe to say I've already had my share of 'hello - wanna fuck's. A particularly stingy one was a guy who I agreed to go to a room with, to see what he was like, and when he just wanted me to blow him instantly and I asked him to slow down a bit, he just left. But hey ... there are so many horny guys out there, it seems, who just wanna get off immediately and who's apparently able to without much foreplay or anything. Fine. I believe it's just what it is in a game like this ... and sometimes in realspace, too, hehe - in fact more often than not perhaps? Okay, maybe the guys I meet when I go out are a little more polite but if they just want to get into my pants, it can quickly devolve into some 'worst pick-up-lines' ever stuff bc they are so needy or whatever.
Anyway, I think we just have to accept that that's how the 'A-discoteque' is, in general, and then do our best to be patient and open for partners who actually want to chat a bit first and warm up, if that's what we want (sometimes it isn't, right? ;-). I guess that's my strategy at least. I dunno if it's too ... well, timid? I guess time will have to tell.