A friend tells me that they have a little program that separates all the relevant conversations into their own chatlogs. If I can convince them to share it, I will. If you were aaaa you might have a log like...
aaaa to bbbb: Oh, I like your hair
bbbb: Thanks, I like that dress you are wearing
aaaa to bbbb: Oh, thanks I bought it yesterday but not sure I like it yet
cccc: Hi, sexy, want a fuck?
bbbb: Oh it looks great on you.
aaaa to bbbb: Thanks, perhaps I'll keep it then lol!
aaaa to cccc: Sorry, I am busy.
cccc: Can't you spare time for a fuck?
aaaa to cccc: Lol, anytime, but not necessarily with you
bbbb: Want to go somewhere quiet to talk?
dddd: Hi aaaa how are you?
aaaa to dddd: Ummm, sorry I have another friend on at the moment that I am talking to.
and it would separate them into...
bbbb chatlog.txtaaaa to bbbb: Oh, I like your hair
bbbb: Thanks, I like that dress you are wearing
aaaa to bbbb: Oh, thanks I bought it yesterday but not sure I like it yet
bbbb: Oh it looks great on you.
aaaa to bbbb: Thanks, perhaps I'll keep it then lol!
bbbb: Want to go somewhere quiet to talk?
cccc chatlog.txtcccc: Hi, sexy, want a fuck?
aaaa to cccc: Sorry, I am busy.
cccc: Can't you spare time for a fuck?
aaaa to cccc: Lol, anytime, but not necessarily with you
dddd chatlog.txtdddd: Hi aaaa how are you?
aaaa to dddd: Ummm, sorry I have another friend on at the moment that I am talking to.
It also caters for if you have split personalities
because as you might not be aware there is only one chatlog.txt file which will contain conversations for all your characters. It gets slightly more complex in room because there are other things that get logged and if it is a group it writes both an individual person log and a group log (for example, if you grouped with eeee and ffff, it would create a "eeee ffff chatlog.txt" file as well as separate eeee and ffff chatlog files. It could make for an awful lot of files though.