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MissDee87
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« : August 04, 2015, 07:10:26 PM »

Join us The House of Dark Stone Rising In Club Achat every Saturday For BDSM/KINK Saturdays!! Come dressed in your best Slutty/Sexy outfit or...wear nothing at all! Enjoy Music, Poker & Good fun with other Members!!

I will be providing playlist links for Music & maybe if things get HOT enough, LIVE sex shows!!

The Party begins Saturday 8/8/2015!

Let's kick this off with a BANG!!
tom
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« #1 : August 07, 2015, 04:20:39 AM »

Dear MissDee87,

Please use the poker room as it was intended to use: just play and talk to other players but do not disturb them. Please do not be too loud.
Thank you for your cooperation!

Regards,
tom
SpikeTail
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« #2 : August 08, 2015, 06:25:09 AM »

Tom

I gather you are a member of the AChat team. If so a message for you

Many people here are a fan of group sex, and by group I mean a proper group not just the limited three people you currently consider a group and especially when so many of those groups have such a limited range of options. Currently our only option if we want to indulge our sexual fantasies on this Sex site is the poker room. Dee is just being responsible here and making sure that those handful of puritans who do not wish to see it can avoid doing so for the handful of hours during this event.

You want to listen to the small handful who posted here complaining then go ahead you just give me another reason to not give you any more money in the future. The only thing you need to do to make the problem go away is to make the ignore function work in the poker room then those that don't want to hear people talking  sex on a sex site don't have to do so. It would also mean we don't have to listen to the inane drivel and ranting that spills out of the mouths of some of those doing the complaining about such events.

The only people being selfish here is not those of us that wished to attend this it is the ban it brigade. 99% of the time the poker room is free of this sort of behaviour. One event is organised for us to enjoy and they come charging out with their holier than thou attitudes. You notice a lot of them also want a lot of the action buttons removed as apparently it detracts from playing serious poker. If they believe serious poker is played in that room then I can only lol.

All folk are doing here is having rp in the poker room for a couple of brief hours if you don't like that sort of thing then simply don't read it. Just like I don't bother reading the idiocy that comes out of some of theirs. We don't want to take the poker room over. We just want to use it for a couple of hours to indulge in what we like sexually on a sex site.

Options for you if you wish to keep both sides happy

1) Implement the ignore function
2) Allow private poker rooms where we can invite those we wish to play with
3) Allow us to see who's playing on each table and pick which we table to play at

Any of those mean they don't have to hear us and we don't have to hear them. The poker room is our only social area and until you change how it works then people are going to use it to accomplish those social things they desire that the site is so otherwise lacking in
Wolf_A
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« #3 : August 08, 2015, 08:14:41 AM »

My sentiments exactly SpikeTail  ... serious poker ? Try 888 ....

FoxyRoxxy
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« #4 : August 08, 2015, 10:11:08 AM »

Tom

I gather you are a member of the AChat team. If so a message for you

  ...

 QouteFoxyRoxxy

If you look to left you would see his  Administrator
so yes he is Achat ..

The poker room is  for all Members not just one group
and it is very hard to concentrate on playing poker
with  RP your Sexual Fantasies ,
some of us that enjoy Poker as the room was made  for to Play Poker not
RP,   I am  new to poker and I like when others help out  by giving advice on poker in there
it gets lost  in all the sexual talk  and  personal chat

Dee is just being responsible here
did she ask permission is this responsible?

If she was  responsible  she would  consider there is more member and not just a house group
and  Lead  the proper way ..
Like so many others  coming to post  In the forum requesting

like all places there is order and rules

Poker Room not  RP Room
Its a poker room to play poker 

If one  group is allowed to do this , It means any other group can just come in and do as they wish to.
this will cause disorder, and not fair to the all other Members 

As  like other member that use it as their  personnel chat place  knowing the have  privet rooms or outside of poker room.
for all this...

I think that there is small chat  flirting teasing making wagers to meet outside of poker that's all good.

but when they over power the  game  they take it to far ....

Wise People Consider Other People

The only people being selfish
are the one that  don't think of others  playing poker

and they are taking the  fun out poker players !

If you are not happy with  the Way Achat  did the poker room do as  all of us  do and

requested  like we all do not just
just barge in and say we are doing this here




If you  don't like it there is many other site's  that  you can   go to
 they can accommodate your needs..

This is the only  thing  I agree with
and there is topics open to  requested your desires

Options for you if you wish to keep both sides happy

1) Implement the ignore function
2) Allow private poker rooms where we can invite those we wish to play with
3) Allow us to see who's playing on each table and pick which we table to play at

Any of those mean they don't have to hear us and we don't have to hear them. The poker room is our only social area and until you change how it works then people are going to use it to accomplish those social things they desire that the site is so otherwise lacking in


We need Privet  Poker room

Consider All  Member  not just  your house..

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SpikeTail
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« #5 : August 08, 2015, 10:26:10 AM »

Foxxy it is a room for socialising the poker played there isnt poker. If it was you wouldnt be getting the damn awful play you get there. its just something to do while we chat for most people. Stop being greedy and wanting it 100% of the time for what you want. It is our only social area and has to cater to the entire community as such and not just your narrow little subsection. So yes you are being selfish.

You had this yourself recently with the complaints people made about you promoting God, your reaction and quite rightly so was to ignore them. Many claimed you were being selfish at the time and not thinking about others. The same applies here as far as I am concerned. 99% of the time that room is poker and chat. That does not appear to be enough for you.

Dee was being responsible by letting people know it was going to be happening so they could avoid it for the couple of hours it is ongoing. Don't want to see something learn to be an adult and dont go there. Since I posted this message here I have had a lot of tells from people saying they support it. Certainly more than the number complaining about it here.

You do not speak for the entire Achat community and neither do I we are both speaking for our own little niches. The difference is I realise that and you don't seem to
SpikeTail
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« #6 : August 08, 2015, 10:30:46 AM »

Oh and by the way I am not the original poster and I have no house. I merely saw an event that I would like to attend so I posted in support of it here. I stayed out of the other thread where your people were floating such ideas such as ban chat its distracting due to the house politics part. I am not trying to stop you having fun, I am merely saying I and those like me also want to have some fun from time to time. Until AChat give us better tools we will all have to learn to share. The adult way is to set certain times where anything goes and keep the rest for the social/poker side.

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« #7 : August 08, 2015, 10:40:21 AM »

It is poker and I enjoy it

It is  selfish 

Dee was being responsible by letting people know it was going to be happening so they could avoid it for the couple of hours it is ongoing

why should we avoid it   

The poker room is   for all  ..It is not her's to  have a  group house   she dose not own it ...


....


You do not speak for the entire Achat community
 not all but a lot  dont want it also



the  adult way   .what a  joke  this is ...

If it was me  I would of banned  all the ones  going in there and  disturbing the peace  ..

poker is poker in there and   if you are not happy   


as I said   do the more reasonable thing and request change or go find yourself a another site

where you  can be happy



You are how ever you want to be   

your words are all the  same and I am sure  Achat knows how you are




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SpikeTail
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« #8 : August 08, 2015, 11:09:11 AM »

End of the day Foxxy I am on a sex site, I am using part of the facilities for sex

You are on a sex site and want to use it for poker

I am willing to compromise so we both get what we want

You want it all to yourself

Yet somehow I am the selfish one?

If you want to play poker, goto a poker site. Their are many good ones out there, even a 3d one called PKR

Your side it intolerant Foxxy, I have had one of them on ignore since day 3 of my joining. Reason ? He was bullying players at the poker table for using the actions. Actions which AChat gave people and therefore we can presume they expected to be used.

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« #9 : August 08, 2015, 02:38:52 PM »

I would suggest that we seek a peaceful solution in the form of a compromise.  It might not please everyone that is the art of compromise's definition is that not everyone will be left happy.  However it is the best way to handle matters like this to find a middle ground between two sides disagreements.  In this case I concur that Dee was looking for that middle ground via having one night devoted to her side of things.  As it doesn't hurt anyone that attends nor does it disrupt the poker room at random as has been the complaints about so far been centered around.  She is merely seeking to set a time when those that don't like it know in advance where not to be for a time.  Is that not better than having it be random where people potentially show up in the poker room to have their sex fun?   All it takes is a few hours of finding something else to do before its over and then people are free to use the poker room for that less than ideal version of poker we have. 

As for banning that is not your decision Foxxy nor your group's to make it is for Achat to decide and they have forgone using that.  So I would suggest leaving that aside.  The powers that be have made their choice.   

In the end it seems like a good thing to organize such an event, and let it occur for those that want it.  It is more structured that way, and people that want to can go while those that don't can freely avoid it.  And that way the room is free afterwards to be used again.  No-one is harmed, people are given a choice to go or avoid it and a reasonable compromise has been reached.   Now if you truly want serious poker I would suggest trying out those sites that carter to such as this isn't the place to find it.  And there are also sites devoted to pure chat as well that are well moderated if you find sexual chat offensive outside certain locations.  This is a sex game and so it should not come as a surprise that it reaches into even the poker room.  As serious poker would not allow people to play naked so if some desire it try those sites that are centered around that you will have good time there I am sure since there wouldn't be any distractions like that about. 

And I would also suggest that the three ideas of ignore in the poker room, letting people choose their rooms to go into as well as seeing who is in which room, and private poker rooms should be implemented.  Till they are though we will have to learn to get along and that means compromising even with those we might not like much or at all.  As this has disrupted the game enough as it is let's just let the event go on so that people can have fun going to it.  Those that don't can have their fun before, and after and everyone wins in their own way since will be having a good time on a game.  And a game is made to be fun first and foremost even a sex based one doesn't change that.



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« #10 : August 08, 2015, 02:47:21 PM »

Dear MissDee87,

Please use the poker room as it was intended to use: just play and talk to other players but do not disturb them. Please do not be too loud.
Thank you for your cooperation!

Regards,
tom




Please use the poker room as it was intended to use:


As far as I know it was meant  for all to play Poker 

And if it is  a sex site it has to be consenting from, all members    and no you  don't  have it ...


so  keep your Rp in your privet rooms where you can do all you wish  ..


and as  the  Administrator  has said :

And if you all  look at it why are you not all requested for private rooms as  many are ...


It is  a shame that you all go against what a Administrator  says
it just say  you have no  respect for rules and regulations ..


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SpikeTail
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« #11 : August 08, 2015, 02:56:26 PM »

May have escaped your attention babe but rp is talking to other players. So we have the admin blessing by your lights. Dont want to see it just be an adult and dont come along. *shrugs*
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« #12 : August 08, 2015, 03:10:26 PM »

As Spike is right rp'ing is merely a different format of chatting or talking to others.  Perhaps some don't like it, but they are free to ignore it. 
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« #13 : August 08, 2015, 08:10:13 PM »

 :o

Thanks for the Idea maybe I can hold a  Christen cruised   ::) in the poker room

as you say we all have to share  and  we all do what we want to do .....





 













Omg

I am laughing to hard

If your not with them  you can Laugh at them.. ;D


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ChantalVice
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« #14 : August 09, 2015, 01:07:37 AM »

:o

Thanks for the Idea maybe I can hold a  Christen cruised   ::) in the poker room


If your not with them  you can Laugh at them.. ;D



What exactly is  a  Christen cruised  ? ;D ;D ;D
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