I love the people I know here. And it's not all about sex. There are people on my friends list that I will (probably) never room with. FACT. BUT, there are always people that will try to spoil your / my fun. Its the way of life I'm afraid. And they take some weird pleasure in doing so. Why ? I don't know. You are right about using this as an escape. Surprise, surprise I'm not a Shemale in real life. I love being one here. To be something I will never be. I love my clothes and my looks and I hope others do too. I have been called a lot of names here for being honest and telling HETERO guys that I'm a guy myself in Real Life. (E.G. A freak or F%^£^D up) Those people are added, very quickly to my ignore list. I also hate it when an argument breaks out. When it does, I leave. I'm not here for that. Like you, I'm here for fun and friendship. I don't go to the Poker room any more because of all the Bloody arguments and, lets be honest here, the assholes that where there, sometimes, when I was, making playing poker, well, impossible. Is ACHAT fantasy or real life ? Good question. I think a little bit of both. It is fantasy. But, with your our own morals and needs it becomes real. In my experience here (almost a year) I have become attached to people. Is that Fantasy or Real ? I also broke up with some. Fantasy or Real ? Like Lover has said focus on the good people. There are more of us than you might think. So Yes, Lets all have Fun and ignore the idiots that are trying to spoil it.
To Everyone that's going to read this......... I'm not going to say name's or trying to insult people............. This is my opinion and my opinion ONLY !!!Why cant we just try to stay out of the people's way that we don't like? If you live in a town and theirs someone you don't like, you dont go their when that person is their or you just make like you don't see him/her....I know we all get to involve in the person in here but just like in real life we also have our bad days and don't really feel like talking to someone that day or evening.... Why cant you just ignore that friend or person for that day?Now people go and create new profiles with that person name only to add a dot or a "s" to the name.....to try and make the game unpleasant for that person or person's...We go and bad mouth people (friends) in meeting places just to prove a point or to show everyone how loooong have you been on Achat and what Miracles they can achieve by ruining that person fun time or maybe even the only time they ever get close to people and friends on Achat...So I'm asking, begging on my knees.............we are small community of FRIENDS here on Achat... Example: If i don't want to talk to "Nick' today then DON'T, If i DON'T want to see "Nick" Look the other way...I hate it when Friends Fight, cause the tongue is the only weapon we have here..and believe me please None of us now how bad it might be in that Friend of yours life! And that may end up in that person taking his/hers own life cause the day when they wanted to have a friend the tongue went and killed it all!