To sort of condense and reiterate... try to treat it like talking to a real person... since there is one at the other end of the keyboard.
Take Lover for example, he's a boy, and I'm a lesbian so sex has never and will never happen. (Sorry Lover
.) But I number him amongst the dearest of friends I've made online using this or any other chat.
By the same token Sinnnn my spouse is my spouse because we connect on so many levels... we both love anime, we've watched many of the same movies and tv shows, read many of the same books...
and the sex is AMAZING... head on over to our thread in the Peeping Tom theater if you want an example.
To anyone and everyone here... you get that you put in. Like anything in life.
Or to quote the Bible Galatians 6:7 says “A man reaps what he sows”.