I refuse to do all the work. Hell there are times I am lost for words but afterfew minutes I'm back in the game. I believe in sharing. Hell making sure my partner is getting off turns me on, and he/she damn well be of the like mind. Thats why I talk before I go in a room. If you can't hold a normal converstion what makes me think you can entertain me. I get ppl asking are you a girl, are you really that dark, are you this or that. And I don't waste my time on them. If your so hung up about whats on the other side of the computer, then your really going to be no fun in the room.