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Discussions about AChat => Share your creative ideas => Topic started by: West69 on November 21, 2011, 03:00:27 PM
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Just wondering, since "cold invites" is such a hot (pole-er-rising) topic. What percentage of MEN turn down cold invites vs women vs shemales?
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I turn down all and I might even block the persistent ones.
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i turn down all cold and ignore the person
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I turn down all,... seldom ignore though,
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i turn down all, and those that are insisting goes on ignore
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like bear i turn down all and seldom ignore, unless u get a pest.
Often tho I am out of room just talking to friends, and the colds start coming thro regularly or after a cursory "hi", or "wanna fuck". So out of courtesy I send a busy message or similar. Most then go away happy as they know you are not being difficult for the sake of it. However some do get a little pissy and keep colding. I guess where I am going with this is that the whole cold thing could be helped by a "just busy" light for when we are having chats out of room or playing wi the character editor.
Hugs Caz
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Cold invites are the biggest pita. They happen when I'm playing with my outfits or just in chat/flirt mode. It would be great if we could set ourselves unavailable so that it would be impossible to send us an invite. The person on the other end would try immediately see : "I'm sorry, that person isn't accepting invites at this time." That way they have the box on their screen, rather than cluttering up mine.
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~ snip.. It would be great if we could set ourselves unavailable so that it would be impossible to send us an invite. The person on the other end would try immediately see : "I'm sorry, that person isn't accepting invites at this time." That way they have the box on their screen, rather than cluttering up mine.
;D yes... a little clutter on their screen for 10 seconds might slow them down a bit, and seems like a fair turning of the table for once.
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I dont ignore a user unless they bug me a lot, i.e. if they're repeatedly sending cold invites. I still count it as cold unless I reply, if they just send "hi" then invite me I get pissed off. Im a slut, doesnt mean I dont deserve a little respect :-*
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When i receive cold invits , i see the profile before say yes or no . :)
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Cold invites are the biggest pita. They happen when I'm playing with my outfits or just in chat/flirt mode. It would be great if we could set ourselves unavailable so that it would be impossible to send us an invite. The person on the other end would try immediately see : "I'm sorry, that person isn't accepting invites at this time." That way they have the box on their screen, rather than cluttering up mine.
This sounds like an excellent idea. I hope the game designers can incorporate it. It is exactly what I have been searching for, which is a polite way to educate people who are lacking in etiquette.
Also, Bear if you are listening (sorry didn't know how to put two quotes in one post), you mentioned "sending a busy signal or similar". Is there a single key you hit for this instead of putting the person back into the chat, then typing everything?
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OK, I HAVE to share this with you guys because it is related to the topic. Today I got a cold invite for a relationship.
Someone was inviting me to be their "lover". This was a new one for me, so I found their profile and messaged back:
" Did you send this in error since we have never met?" Her answer was to invite me to a room with no explanation.
Purely out of curiosity (quit laughing), I accepted. She then proceeded to fuck the hell out of me, then dumped me and ran out of the room without uttering a word. I went back to her profile and found she had FIVE spouses and my computer started smoking after pulling up over 100 "lovers".
After a good fuck and a laugh, I was happy I didn't fall into the trap of becoming just another charm on her bracelet. In addition, from a healthcare perspective, based upon her prolific activity, I am recommending that a small section of The Shop be leased out to a Pharmacy.
It probably wouldn't hurt to be able to buy condoms and antibiotics. :o ;D
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Oh, well, i have 14 request of friendship from peoples i never meet....i don't hsve accept or refuse them, cause first i wanna see if i can meet them online first or soon, then i'll gonna take my decisio,
@West: what happend to u can be ilaroius....eh eh! but if it happend everyday, it's going to be frustrating!
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I've had anon friend/lover/spouse requests... I just turn them down because I figure if someone thinks that's a good idea I'm in no hurry to meet them. I don't ignore because they might later realize how clueless they were, but I decline and forget about them.
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Cold Lover/friend request wise I turn down immediately. If they can't make an effort to engage in conversation they are certainly neither, I do not need to appear as a notch on the bedpost for them.
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I turn down all cold invites even went in room and slapped a pesky S>O>B hehehe !
Generally I`m not a mean person ;D but do have my limits !
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::) So That`s what head boards are for < heheheh ! < thought was place to secure my restraints ! lol
well me I kinda gotta watch the button , pushing had a lover 1 day and did`nt remember where he came from > Damn blonde hair day !
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::) So That`s what head boards are for < heheheh ! < thought was place to secure my restraints ! lol
well me I kinda gotta watch the button , pushing had a lover 1 day and did`nt remember where he came from > Damn blonde hair day !
You seem pretty intelligent, so it must not be blonde everywhere. ;) ;D
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Cold relationship invites are always declined, for me it seems the majority of the annoyance comes from free users, I dont know what its like for other orientations but premium MM users are usually respectful, at least to me :P
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Think we all have done that sunny, accepted , presuming a friend request from someone I had only chatted with b4. >:(
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I can typically shrug off cold invites and cold relationship requests the FIRST time. It's the repeat offenders that end up on 'ignore'. Especially the ones that follow my room decline with another request. After hitting decline three times within a few seconds, I seek the ignore button.
Though, there have been several gents that have hit the 'invite' button then do a quick follow up of: " I didn't mean to do that, so sorry. ...But now that I have your attention..." Very few of these fellas end up with my attention...it takes a little more than that to get me interested.
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i personally get aggravated enuff with the invites and relationship requests. i ignore right off the bat. is seriously irritating to me to be chatting to someone and get 6 or more colds in a row.. all of us really need a busy button, or SOMETHING we can stop them with....jus my lil 2cents worth, lol
and to me a friend is just that a friend, and friendship is earned.....
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YES and please have some more class then you want to borrow my mouth for 5 minutes !
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Sorry to be blunt or too direct, but unfortunately in this game and most sex related sites, men are rude, forget all rules of engagement and courtecy. Not saying you ought to suck it up and deal with it, but rather find a way to let go of it unbothered.
Though I am not a girl and do not get hit on as often as you girls, I do get more as I desire for unwanted attention. I usually answer politly I am not interested, though occasionally I don't reply because i am busy. The window for cold invites I move out of view so I am not bothered by it during chatting.
When you calculate in that you will be cold invited 15 times when you are online, you are expecting it and ready for it. If you expect to be online and not be bothered by rude people, you will be disappointed. Be invited 10 times and you might even be happy that it is less as you expected. Get a few more and it was a worse night as anticipated but still better as expecting no idiots to scratch your door.
By this I am not saying that cold invites or rude behaviour are ok, far from it. I wish that everyone would treat everyone else as they expect to be treated themselves. Courtecy and politeness is still what I am aiming for... If only every member, free or premium, would take the time and read the instructions in the game. 6. start chat...., invite and enjoy the action in the game
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@Tight
can u tell me how to move the cold window out of view? i thought it just popped up when one recieved an invite and couldnt be hidden at all.
thank you. if i can do that, no need to get annoyed, lol
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@Tight
can u tell me how to move the cold window out of view? i thought it just popped up when one recieved an invite and couldnt be hidden at all.
thank you. if i can do that, no need to get annoyed, lol
Yes, I also am very curious about how to do this, not that I get a lot of "cold" (or otherwise lol) invites. I thought the "invite" window was generic, and didn't distinguish between "cold" or welcome invites. If you block the window, wouldn't you automatically block a lover or friend that was having trouble reaching you under "chat"? PS Of course I know they should check "chat" first, but sometimes the time lag is impractical, and if they are close friends, you may allow them some leeway???
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Zinah's point is quite interesting
Would be surely very good to have an option that would prevail anyone to send cold invite.
Not only then you can really get less of those unexpected and undesired multiple "decline click" that are always necessary, but this would also especially allow to stay out of room to flirt and/or chat in an amical way. I am sure we all love Sometine to have nice chats with on-line friends while waiting for someone with who we have made an appointment, or just to flirt, of for the pleasure of chatting. With all these cold invite disturbance, you are almost obliged to go in room to be quiet... but then there is no possibility for the one you wait to call at arrival.
So you have to stay out, and decline, and manage long ignore list.
So I really like this idea to have this special "invite blocking" options. Those then that want to talk are still free to do it
Kiss
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oh, it's a real pain when peoples sending u cold invite and u are chatting whit friends......a cold invite block will be nice, but u have to remember to unlock it before a friend, after a chat, wan to invite u! ;)
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i hope this topic gets enuff notice from dev team, to actaully produce some results.
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i hope this topic gets enuff notice from dev team, to actaully produce some results.
Since sustaining our enthusiasm is the driving force behind AChat's success, I don't think they will push the "ignore" button on us Fantasy.
;) :D ;) ;D
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People who send cold invites should be reported as annoying other users, the report options should include "this person is pestering/annoying me". its doubtful those who send cold invites are doing it just to one person, so if someone's reported multiple times over a short period they should recieve a warning and if they keep doing it, are disciplined like an abusive user would be.
(I'm saying this based on the assumption that the option isn't already available, if it is people should use it and Achat should enforce it)
There is only so much the Development team can do at once, so we as users should enforce it ourselves as well by asking cold inviter's to stop, or by ignoring them.
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Me pardon punt > suck it up ! hehehe Just like , being at a bar and getting hit on !
Only more to contend with on achat !
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@ West
maybe not, but hey, keep hope alive.. chuckle
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@ West
maybe not, but hey, keep hope alive.. chuckle
I always do Fantasy. Since I see by your profile you only consider sleeping with 0.1% of callers, may I at least tell you that you give me an intellectual hard-on. ;D
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@Fantasy & West
You can't make the cold invite window disappear, or non functional. But as it says, it is a window. Once a cold invite is sent and you can see the window, you can drag the invitation window to anywhere within the game-window with your mouse. You can hide it practically out of sight.
Since it doesn't disappear but is only out of view, you can drag it back whenever the partner you are waiting for, is sending you warm invite.. For me it has been very helpful..
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@ Tight thats good ifo > thks baby < bombarded w cold invites can be anoying !
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@Fantasy & West
You can't make the cold invite window disappear, or non functional. But as it says, it is a window. Once a cold invite is sent and you can see the window, you can drag the invitation window to anywhere within the game-window with your mouse. You can hide it practically out of sight.
Since it doesn't disappear but is only out of view, you can drag it back whenever the partner you are waiting for, is sending you warm invite.. For me it has been very helpful..
Thanks, I very much appreciate the info. :)
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:) yw
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@ West
too cute, pleased to be of service. curtsey. giggle
@ Tight
tyvm for the info, im certain it will come in very handy.