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Discussions about AChat => Share your creative ideas => Topic started by: apollo13nut on December 31, 2011, 08:07:26 AM
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The number of girls demanding gifts to enter a room is getting out of hand. I pay the yearly membership. I should not have to buy A$ every week just to give to girls to go into rooms, but at the same time I don't want to be forced to being only able to room with Robot Girl. Should more be done to stop this? Can anything more be done?
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hi apollo , as i said in another topic , youre not forced to pay a girl to go in room . you need to be patient and search another girl if one ask you a$ . you know , with a girl who dont ask "money" the fun is better cause she play with her heart .
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Totally agree........but there are girls who asking gift to meet you again when you two are in room. and if you say no, they leave...naturally after having sime fun, they don't ask for gift just after entering
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My big problem is there aren't enough girls here that DO NOT ask for gifts...I was on for 12 hours the other day and only 4 girls were not asking for gifts, of those 4, only 1 talked to me, but she declined to go into a room. I know they moderate banners to try to prevent asking for A$, but other words that mean the same thing aren't blocked, they changed it so you need to have a credit-card based subscription to send gifts, and you can only send a minimum of A$100, but that's actually making the problem worse....instead of girls asking for A$25 or A$50, now they are asking for A$200+
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Honestly apollo I never ask for $A and I can understand you getting frustrated over it. I had people imply that I would only take a gift to have fun ... that is not true .. sometimes like many people I have gotten to the mood to play at that point yet. Thats prolly your experience with the 1/4 that responded as for the 3/4 you need to remember they all could be doing other things on their own so sometimes its just pot luck.
As for the devs doing something about this it is based upon there is the option to give them $A or not you do not have to at all if you choose not to.
Its more a discouraged thing then exactly stopped. (from what i have seen) As for their prices I dont know what to tell you thats inflation.
Personally i find the whole idea of asking for $A anathema to enjoying the mutual fun in playing .. mind you there is also things that come from guys that they clearly do not understand is unattractive as an idea.
Usually I stick with a certain group of people to play with and a few people just chat with. I prefer talking with someone first to get a repore before even going into the room .. the desperate horny guy has really no appeal. Nor does the "my cock is very hard right now" guy because they tend to be the type to leave after they get off ... I just dont like that. Mutual fun is mutual not one sided but i digress.
My recommendation for you apollo is this dont spend a full 12 hours on looking for a person log off and come back later if you cant find someone.
Or you could rope in a freeuser for fun. Its up to you. If I am on ... which is a little less frequent at the moment feel free to send me a message and start a conversation we can see where we go from there.
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@ Kitten
totally agree with all you say.
now to bring to attention a very tiny, opposite end of this..
i, totally out of the blue was asked my someone i have never met if i would errr room for 1000achat.
as my profile has absolutly nothing on it to mislead anyone , was shocked as hell to say the least.
so am wondering if any other ladies here have experienced these type propositions?
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Yes I have been propositioned in the past. I feel that the gift should be a "Gift" not "Payment". I don't charge to be in a room, but don't just say Hi and invite me. If you interest me I will take you in a room, period.
Apollo, for me you have made a great sted by talking on here. Most users don't go to the forum at all. If you go to the Forum and post. I will be more interested in listening to you in AChat.
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I feel you Apollo too many girls asking for gifts. I'll never pay for sex on principle, I guess the real problem here is ti come up with the right phrase to get a girl/woman interested. Just hi or similar will just be ignored by most of the girls, which I guess could be understandable but come on give a guy a chance? How do you expect to start a coversation with a monologue? :P
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I feel you Apollo too many girls asking for gifts. I'll never pay for sex on principle, I guess the real problem here is ti come up with the right phrase to get a girl/woman interested. Just hi or similar will just be ignored by most of the girls, which I guess could be understandable but come on give a guy a chance? How do you expect to start a coversation with a monologue? :P
Well, as a man, if I knew the answer to that, I wouldn't be single....but you do bring up another interesting point, that when we find girls that aren't asking for gifts, how do we talk to them so that a) they respond and b) keep a conversation going and c) get them to go in a room (if option c is even applicable). I have spent well over $1500 (and I mean REAL USD, not A$) in 2 years (not so bad spread out...) and it just drives me nuts that these girls are asking for A$, some where someone paid real $ to get those A$....
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Keeping a conversation up is not a problem if she's up to have a chat, the problem comes she aspects SUPER clever opening followed by SUPER interesting second phrase. Tehy should understand that impressing someone like that out of the blue is not that easy especially because most of the girls just have to wait to be hit on, for us guys we have to wrok harder :P
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I feel you Apollo too many girls asking for gifts. I'll never pay for sex on principle, I guess the real problem here is ti come up with the right phrase to get a girl/woman interested. Just hi or similar will just be ignored by most of the girls, which I guess could be understandable but come on give a guy a chance? How do you expect to start a coversation with a monologue? :P
i dont call "hi" a conversation . why they always introduce themselve saying "hi" , why not "hello , how are you" . its better to beghin a conversation.
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oh trust me rukya I've tried all those, just doesn't seem to work, I always have to come up with something much much better
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well, sometimes you can have good hint reading carefully the profile......some particular comment girls add on it, can help you a lot to start a conversation. this is happend to me whit a girl long time ago. we had good time togheter many time, but recently i don't had meet her, just receiving some cute message for Christmas.
if you "hit" them whit the right word and feeling, you can have their attention......too bad my shyness block me too much in real
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@Apollo: 1500 real dollar!? what have u buy whit them, the entire server!? :o :o
sorry, i don't wan to be inopportune or teasing you......it's, well, incredible!
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Fantasy, I've only had one huge offer yet, it was something like 1000 A$ as well and I politely refused the offer. But I think females gets more offers like that than shemales, seems like you have more guys hitting on you too. *pout*
A big problem is that men pay women for sex here, if they didn't the problem wouldn't be as big as it is. Many women see sex as an economy where they're the suppliers of what men wants and can therefore ask men for A$, or that the man woos her.
This is one reason why some men play as shemales here, women don't ask shemales for money in the same way. Some females have on the other hand gotten wiser and have started asking shemales for money as well and assume they have the same sexual advantage over shemales as with men.
I think it's just laughable when a female asks me for A$ and a simple way to get rid of them is to tell them "No, I'm looking for a man right now".
Something that is quite usual are females who approach me and thinks that after the initial exchange I will start to woo them (because of their natural advantage), but since I don't many chats with females just ends very quickly and a few times I've received confused message like "No sex?".
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if you "hit" them whit the right word and feeling, you can have their attention......
U're completly right hentaiboy and that's is a big if, I gues I'll have to improve my comunications skills :P
P.S. Your nick is because u like hentais or because you are a hentai? :P
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if you "hit" them whit the right word and feeling, you can have their attention......
U're completly right hentaiboy and that's is a big if, I gues I'll have to improve my comunications skills :P
P.S. Your nick is because u like hentais or because you are a hentai? :P
well, in first it was cause i like hentai, specially tentacles action (i know i know.....). it's the usuall nick i us more in MMO and forum. On DA and HF my nick is hentaiboy77.....i tell u all. mmmh, maybe now isn't the only one reason.....but for sure is the principal one! the eh eh!
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Well I know of one young player who was dropping gifts of 2-3 thousand to get the attention of women. Though it might be good income for the site,... it does seriously impact the game... I know for a fact he dropped 5k on just one woman...
Prias is right, the problem is not totally on the females/shemales asking, it is the guys who use heavy amounts to influence potential partners. Part of the problem is the level of impatience to room... the lack of attempt to build a VR or display a personality which will turn the attention of any potential partner. Immediate gratification,... the expectation that every party here is just ready to drop their panties and bend over for a guy is unrealistic.
It is one reason why I think a gift ceiling should be implemented.
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hehe if someone give me 5k to go in room he or she surely be verry verry sad , cause for i go in room , the partner must be interesting ;D
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True Ruyka, inexperienced,... insecure,... and impatient...
and that naivety was exploited by many once word got out.
I find blame on both sides of this equation,... hookers and johns
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Actually it's very easy for me to handle hookers - I ignore them. If I read in their description they want money, I even don't talk to them. It's simple. And it makes it easier for me to find nice people to talk to.
The A-Team won't stop them - it's income. If people wanna pay, they may pay. Their own problem. It's like RL. If you wanna go to whores, you can go. But you must not go to them to talk to nice people and to find friends.
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The number of girls demanding gifts to enter a room is getting out of hand. I pay the yearly membership. I should not have to buy A$ every week just to give to girls to go into rooms, but at the same time I don't want to be forced to being only able to room with Robot Girl. Should more be done to stop this? Can anything more be done?
Actually, for +/- 130 womens login (hetero/bisex) you have 14 clearly asking for money and 7 who are "suspect".
- try to avoid the 18 yo + sex maniac in the searching options
- chat for 5 mins minimum
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Ignoring who has gift = sex in the description should be a golden rule for every guy here that wants to build a reletionship, personally when I contact a girl sex is not my first though, the girl has to attract me mentally for me to even start thinking about inviting her. Chatting and getting to know people is what gives the spark to everyone's immagination 8)
To hentaiboy: Hentai rocks! :D
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To hentaiboy: Hentai rocks! :D
now and allways! 8)
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I have read the posts on here and there are several good points. The best of which is that that Lover said. If you dont want them, don't have anything to do with them. Ignore them. It is not the job of the dev team to combat hookers. There are some Females who like the idea of being hookers as a fetish, just as there are Males that want to use Hookers.
If a User contacts me, M, F, or S, the first thing I check is whether they have been a PREM at one time. The main reason is I don't have poses for M or S users. I have all the FF poses though. Although Bear taught me that you dont need poses, The imagination is the best pose.
Then I like them to chat with me for a few, if I am interested I will take them into a room. The worst for me is the Cold Invite that wont say a word.
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@Newgurl... happy to have helped :P
Further training is still available... ;)
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@Newgurl... happy to have helped :P
Further training is still available... ;)
Well, practice makes perfect!!!!! ;D
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I still remember when I first logged on here and was looking around a guy offered to show me the system and said he would invite me into a room. Now having only used traditional chat programs a "room" was just a private chat channel so I said sure. (You're right to laugh.)
I get in there and the image for bend over and fuck starts flashing and he tells me to click that... I got out of there at that point, I had homo clearly on my profile, and he clearly didn't' give a damn.
It was annoying then, it's hilarious now.
And I prefer my anime to be yuri... though if it want's to go pornographic I certainly don't mind... as long as it doesn't go futanari, or have any tentacles show up. (Sorry hentai :P.)
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@ Kitten
totally agree with all you say.
now to bring to attention a very tiny, opposite end of this..
i, totally out of the blue was asked my someone i have never met if i would errr room for 1000achat.
as my profile has absolutly nothing on it to mislead anyone , was shocked as hell to say the least.
so am wondering if any other ladies here have experienced these type propositions?
Actually fantasy I had ... and got annoyed at him saying along the lines does he think I am a whore ? etc etc. He apologised but I basically got him to leave me alone.
Like i said I play with a few guys on here and just chat with them ... the "Sex Maniac" thing on my profile is just because i clicked it by accident and pressed save after i changed my outfit so -shrugs-
I still remember when I first logged on here and was looking around a guy offered to show me the system and said he would invite me into a room. Now having only used traditional chat programs a "room" was just a private chat channel so I said sure. (You're right to laugh.)
I get in there and the image for bend over and fuck starts flashing and he tells me to click that... I got out of there at that point, I had homo clearly on my profile, and he clearly didn't' give a damn.
It was annoying then, it's hilarious now.
And I prefer my anime to be yuri... though if it want's to go pornographic I certainly don't mind... as long as it doesn't go futanari, or have any tentacles show up. (Sorry hentai :P.)
Course not all he cared about was getting off -rolls eyes- which just makes him inconsiderate..and unobsevant besides a typing explanation is easy enough to do as well without a room lol.
I had a guy ask me about it and a girl that was his "girlfriend" so all i did was type it out what they do without going into a room.
I like varied anime but I have watched any in ages because i have been very very busy.
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Now we know that quite a few doesn't even bother reading profiles so it's also the possibility that the guy had totally missed that Janine is a lesbian... though that doesn't forgive him.
What amazes me personally are the hetero guys that contact me but have missed that I'm a shemale, when I tell them (because I want to make it clear or they've said something that made me react) they excuse themselves... in different ways. One would think that that's very obvious here on AChat and they'd have to select shemales in the search to even find me. I hate breaking it to guys irl so I thought I at least wouldn't have to deal with that here.
I've seen a few popular anime with friends, though not very much and it's a while ago now.
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well, about hookers, whores or whatever u wanna call them, yes, first thing everyone can do is to ignore them, specially if we read on profile "gift for sex". about the one who are selling their pics, well, that's their personal way and we can agree or not.....(hell, if i was a girl, i really don't think i can do it...for sure, whitout showing my face!).
i don't think dev-team gonna change so easly the gift system, so basically is on the male users to prevent whores stopping pay them, so guys, think whit the head we have on our sholders!
And I prefer my anime to be yuri... though if it want's to go pornographic I certainly don't mind... as long as it doesn't go futanari, or have any tentacles show up. (Sorry hentai :P.)
why sorry!? anyone have a personal taste......hentai anime is only a little part of what i like, not the most. in my long life (wow, 35 years today.....crap!) i had see so many various anime....i divore them if i like the story and the characters! and not only series thinked for boys, but several type, afterall i grown in the golden age of Creamy, Lum and more, like Lady Oscar (Versailles no bara, in Japan). honestly, in this last month, i really had enjoy the fun looking at Faery Good Parents on tv during my lunch break (i work really near to my home...eh eh!), it reminds me a lot to my childood and it was ilarious......some good lough are allways wellcome in a grey day!
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We are close in age hentayboy 30 years old here, don't forget about cult anime from where we were kids like Captain Tsubasa ( Holly e Benji for italians) or Hokuto no ken ( Kenshiro for italians ) ;D
Atm I'm following One piece, Bleach and Naruto Shippuuden which I'm liking a lot, but I followed a lot of different anime in my life not hentai only ofc I'm not that hentai after all ( for those who don't know it hentai in japanese means perv ) or at least I think lol
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I was teasing Hentai. Absolutely it is all a matter of tastes.
While yuri is my fav (it mean's "girl's love" so that shouldn't shock) I watch a variety. Some fav's being Hellsing (especially the Ultimate version), Ouran Host Club, Full Metal Panic... tons.
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how can i forget them!? peoples around our ages was grown whit bread and Captain Tsubasa and Hokuto no Ken! but it was in the middle of the 90th i discover my big passion......Masamune Shirow's work! for who don't know him, he is the father of Ghost in The Shell and Appleseed (the most knoewed of his work, i presume), a wonderfull cyber world after the third world war. as a big fun of robotic series (thanks, Nagai sensei!), i can't not love his art: manga, movies, anime series.....i think i had watch the full two series of GITS three times.
I was teasing Hentai. Absolutely it is all a matter of tastes.
While yuri is my fav (it mean's "girl's love" so that shouldn't shock) I watch a variety. Some fav's being Hellsing (especially the Ultimate version), Ouran Host Club, Full Metal Panic... tons.
i imagine it, don't worry! ;D
full metal panic....gosh, i love the third act (the first two are the regular one and FMP fumoffu)....full metal panic sigma! more dark then the first two, but really nice. read it, if you have the chance
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I like Full metal panic too, thou I have to confess I can't say no to all those ecchi I find around lol
Lately I've been aprreciating Quenn's Blade, Sora no Otoshimono and Sekirei.
Janine u can appreciate Queen's blade if u haven't seen it yet it's all centered on girls and there's a little bit yuri component too :)
to Hentayboy I haven't seen Appleseed I'm gonna take a look at that, but Ghost in the SHell ais a master piece :)
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yes, it's a marsterpiece, like the movie Akira!
oh, now you had mention it, i'm sure Janine gonna like Queen's Blade....eh eh!
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If you think Akira is a masterpiece then I think I should be worried about Queen's Blade.
Akira is a movie where you HAVE to understand the symbolism, otherwise you have to be tripping on something, because just watching it to watch it you will be painfully confused. I didn't like it, at all. I CAN, and do appreciate symbolism, but someone should have checked the director into rehab for his problem with mescaline and made sure there was a coherent story before releasing it.
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If you think Akira is a masterpiece then I think I should be worried about Queen's Blade.
don't be worrie about Queen's Blade......there is no need of it. and yes, Akira isn't a simple movie.....mmmmh, hope my friend back soon from Rome, so i can ask him to give me the dvd
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Janine with Quenn's Blade u just have to seat and enjoy the anime, it's a fantasy taling place in the past where there's a tournament opened just for women where they have to face each other in swords duels in ordere to be able to fight the queen and take her place on the throne. I don't wanna give away anything more but I'm sure u'll like it :)
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Hiya's...
I came across this topic, and just had to add my 2 cents worth. It's just my opinion, but I think AChat encourages the "hooker" thing. Why else would they have a rating system for the people, (women, since I can not gift a Man) that you send gifts too? I mean what in the world is up with that? I sent my girlfriend a gift, because we kind of share our A$, (well, to a limit... I buy, she takes) and I noticed along the side there was a rating for her if I wanted to give her one. The scales goes from -5 hearts to + 5 hearts... and it's stated as RATE, not affection or something like that. The only reason I see for having that is to remind me who was worth the A$. She is, of course. lol
That's all I gots to say about Dat.
Thanks for letting me share,
Pafe
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There is a rating system?
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Yes you can rate people you sent gifts to
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Thx Medjai, this one I know. I thought Pafe is talking about a rating system in the game, where the girls also can rate their spender.
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That I don't know, haven't received any gift yet >:(
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The a-team does encourage hooking, as it is based on the gifting system. That was created to offer a base of available women for the biggest paying customer base, men..
The a$ have to be bought and having girls ask and get paid for sex, means a bigger cashflow for the company. The gifting system was introduced so that it would be made easy for girls to be in the game without having to pay for it, therefor attracting them.
To think or hope that the dev-team would take serious measures to kill all paid sex, is an Utopia.. They pay their bills with it. All of this was discussed and more or less confirmed (the gifting system, not the hooking part) by Tom..
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It's never the pistol that kills, it's the finger that uses the deductible.
Th idea is as old as there are dating sides - men have to pay (more), women are (almost) free. Why? To get enough women.
The gifting system uses this idea, cause every user can be a free user. But if you wanna have nice dresse (and you want Ladies, am I rght?) you have to buy them. The men can gift the woman and she can please him, using nice clothes. Simple and easy.
Perhaps they didn't think about whores or they thought it will not be a big problem. No matter, cause they never stop the gifting system - and I don't want it, too.
If we ask for equal treatment we also have to think about the follows: How much men become a male hooker? Then we start a new thread:
"Is enough being done to stop male hookers?"
Though I gave the warning in the zz-button thread, the chance to ignore free users might increase hookers, I repeat my opinion I ever had:
Ignore hookers, there are enough wonderful girls and shemales.
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@tight : to kill all paid sex its simple , if someone ask you money to fuck , say no
@lover : totally agree with you , and stopping gifting sistem will not resolve the problem , they will just ask real money in place of A$ like a girl did one day with me lol ;D
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Are you kidding, Rukya!? :o
man, reall cash for sex!? ok, now i think i have hear all on achat!
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Wow, asking for real money is really a new level *shaking head*
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no i'm not kidding it was 2 or 3 months ago , a girl asked me 20$ for her and 20$ for her sister in exchange of a 3some session , and of course i said no ;D
but unfortunately i dont take note of the name at the moment .
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mmmmmhh........now i remember you had (or someone else) had mention something similar in the past
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Rukya, I would never pay for sex.. For me, it would be an ensured disaster.. I laugh at the banners that say: Pay me, so I will get twice as horny.. Money is an aphrodisiac for sure, but this just makes me laugh.
Maybe the hookers were a side effect of the gifting system, one not conceived before the implementation. But this side effect, however negative for us that perceive it that way, does have a positive effect on the cashflow. And to be honest, I really don't see the difference between a$ and real money. A$ represent financial value..
And appareantly the system has it's benefits as it is used often (that is an assumption, I have no insight in how much cash changes hands), that means there is some kind of validation to it.. I like to view hookers as a buzzing fly.. Highly annoying, but harmless after you slapped it away...
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Hiya's...
I have asked quite a few of the people who are aking for gifts in exchange for a hot time (you know me... I'm full of questions), and some have told me they earn quite a few $A. So I guess it is helpful for some, both the payer and payee. :D
On a personal note, as a young woman... in my own fantasy world... I would wonder what that life style (charging for sex) would be like. Did anyone read "The Happy Hooker" by Xaviera Hollander? That's what I imagined. The real world of that is pretty seedy, and I can't imagine myself charging anyone for my pleasures.
Thanks for letting me share,
Pafe
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Actually The Happy Hooker was written off of her own experiences.
I think it's a matter of how the person approaches it.
Keiko brought up the idea of a Working Girls Guild, and spoke thoughtfully, and eloquently on the subject, and her experiences in a similar function on other games. I'm fairly confident she would be a magnificent Working Girl here on AChat.
We've all been approached by bad examples.
It's like I mentioned that porn star Justine Joli. She seems happy, and healthy, and enjoying her career having girlsex in front of a camera. Then there are the porn stars who are on Celebrity Rehab for the habits they picked up in the industry.
So I don't think there is a universal good or bad to it.
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Janine is right, I was a Working Girl for a while on another game. To put it simply, the difference between a hooker and a Working Girl is the strong code of ethics and dedication to provide a service that is professional, stimulating and far superior than any other. It was important that the client was always deeply involved, their desires were priority and they left satisfied and smiling. :) If you want to learn more, check out this thread: http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,1127.0.html
As for my personal experience, it was important to have fun and I did. The satisfaction of knowing I gave someone an unrivaled experience that kept them coming back for more always made me happy. :D
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Keiko, that was one of the first tread i read, so i remember it really well.
at the end, all we can do about hookers at the moment is just saying "No". in the future.....i dunno! but i doubt something gonna change
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I can be kinda harsh towards whores at first... I generalize too much, just look at this thread after for example: http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,1238.0.html
If there is a genuine interest in pleasing the customer first I think it's way better since they are way more likely to get what they pay for.
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The a-team does encourage hooking, as it is based on the gifting system. That was created to offer a base of available women for the biggest paying customer base, men..
The a$ have to be bought and having girls ask and get paid for sex, means a bigger cashflow for the company. The gifting system was introduced so that it would be made easy for girls to be in the game without having to pay for it, therefor attracting them.
To think or hope that the dev-team would take serious measures to kill all paid sex, is an Utopia.. They pay their bills with it. All of this was discussed and more or less confirmed (the gifting system, not the hooking part) by Tom..
I applaud your realism. However, there are exceptions, to wit, I am one. I spend a lot of money on all poses, rooms,clothes, etc.
I do not gift, except in rare occasions where my partner has already established a non quid-pro-quo relationship, AND there has been no request on the other person's part. Gifts should be from the heart, which means the idea should originate with you. My point in terms of your financial hypothesis (which for AChat owners is probably true), is that if hookers take over Achat, I am gone. That may fly in the face of their suspected business model, but hookers ruin the fantasy for me, and I will take my money with me. >:(
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Hiya's...
I came across this topic, and just had to add my 2 cents worth. It's just my opinion, but I think AChat encourages the "hooker" thing. Why else would they have a rating system for the people, (women, since I can not gift a Man) that you send gifts too? I mean what in the world is up with that? I sent my girlfriend a gift, because we kind of share our A$, (well, to a limit... I buy, she takes) and I noticed along the side there was a rating for her if I wanted to give her one. The scales goes from -5 hearts to + 5 hearts... and it's stated as RATE, not affection or something like that. The only reason I see for having that is to remind me who was worth the A$. She is, of course. lol
That's all I gots to say about Dat.
Thanks for letting me share,
Pafe
I agree with you in terms of AChat setting up a reward system that encourages hooking. However, as I said in a previous post, enough people are turned off by sexual blackmail for money, that for some of us, it results in reticence to spend, and lost revenue for ACHAT. This game is a microcosm of real life. There are plenty of hookers in bars, and some people are willing to part with their money for a guaranteed, or "unearned" sexual experience. However, there are also plenty of women in bars, or elsewhere who genuinely want to share a pleasurable experience wihout demeaning themselves. Women whose equality in the sexual encounter would be diminished by begging for dollars. These women are the most attractive to me, and in the long run, are the ones I end up spending my money on. :-*
PS Not to embarass you, but you are one of the ladies that would prompt me to spring for a weekend bed & breakfast, romantic dinner, and a fine wine and chocolates watching the sun set on the beach in Maui. :) :-*
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Gifts should be from the heart, which means the idea should originate with you.
Hiya's...
Your last post made me blush. Thank you for your kind words. :)
It was a Gift that got me to try AChat on the premium level, and it was that time trying AChat on the premium level that got me to sign up. I agree that gifts should come from the heart and not a demand. I too, would very much like to send a gift to some of the men I have met here, especially with Valentine's Day just around the corner, but I can not. I send send a gift to the special ladies here, but not the men. I hope AChat would take notice of this and allow gifting to the men.
Thanks for letting me share,
Pafe
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i agree with west ;D the only girls i gift is the ones who dont aks to be . And they all can see it in my profile ;D
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Tight
Rukya, I would never pay for sex.. For me, it would be an ensured disaster.. I laugh at the banners that say: Pay me, so I will get twice as horny.. Money is an aphrodisiac for sure, but this just makes me laugh.
There is another one I always have to laugh a lot. "Pay me and I will do anything"
Sometimes I wanna say: OK, here is the money, now come and clean my house :D
I think I will do it someday.
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It will be amazing to look at her face when you say this!
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Gifts should be from the heart, which means the idea should originate with you.
Hiya's...
Your last post made me blush. Thank you for your kind words. :)
It was a Gift that got me to try AChat on the premium level, and it was that time trying AChat on the premium level that got me to sign up. I agree that gifts should come from the heart and not a demand. I too, would very much like to send a gift to some of the men I have met here, especially with Valentine's Day just around the corner, but I can not. I send send a gift to the special ladies here, but not the men. I hope AChat would take notice of this and allow gifting to the men.
Thanks for letting me share,
Pafe
You have touched upon one of my very few exceptions in gifting. I did use the prize money from the erotic story contest you "gift" a woman a trial "premium" membership. This was consistent with my personal philosophy because she never hinted at wanting anything, it allowed her to experience orgasm with me, and the biggest pleasure for me was surprising her. :-*
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Tight Rukya, I would never pay for sex.. For me, it would be an ensured disaster.. I laugh at the banners that say: Pay me, so I will get twice as horny.. Money is an aphrodisiac for sure, but this just makes me laugh.
There is another one I always have to laugh a lot. "Pay me and I will do anything"
Sometimes I wanna say: OK, here is the money, now come and clean my house :D
I think I will do it someday.
;D ;D ;D. Great line. I think your approach would ensure the financial stability of AChat. I can see a "vacuum my vagina" or "Blow my broom" pose.
The problem is at my house, "taking out the trash" would be solo masturbation only. No one seems to be around when the time cums (sorry couldn't resist). ::)
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lol, someone to clean my house would be very welcome.. Willing to pay in kind as well...
West, you put a smile on my face... thanks man!
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well tight just let me know and i'll put the french maid outfit on to come clean your house ;) hehehehe
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Hiya's...
I may just have to get the "French Maid" outfit now. We could all go clean his house... although we probably wouldn't get any actual cleaning done. ;D
Thanks for letting me share,
Pafe
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That's not true Pafe.... I'm sure, all pipes are clean after your work ;)
BAck to topic... the question for me is: Is there anything the A-Team has to do? Or is it more something we user should do? Simple ignore, not pay for sex and send hooker to another planet...
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Well, I just don't contact women that have the word "gift" in their profiles. It's the quick and easy way to get sex and I would feel cheap for following this route.
On the other hand, I don't hesitate to send gifts to a lady I hold dear. After all, I enjoy her wearing new sexy oufits so gifting is in my own best interest, too. I just make sure to say that I don't expect any services in exchange - gifting should come from the heart after all.
So, if you want to eliminate the problem, just say no to hookers and concentrate on the lovely ladies who are just looking for a good time.
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Honestly, is it their responsibility is another way we might want to phrase the question. I mean two people get together, and make a consenting decision. Yeah their decision can impact us when one of those two solicits others to make that same decision, but you could make the argument that Fs have to deal with more Ms making cold invites, and Ms have to deal with more Fs soliciting A$.
Just like SMs have to deal with Fs treating them like they are guys with tits.
I think it's just an inevitable downside that comes with the other upsides that keep us playing.
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There are some excellent points made in the previous several posts, and it would be too long to quote them all.
You can accept hookers as a part of life, and not let it bother you as Janine seems to be able to do. You can "passively" express your distaste by simply never establishing a dialogue, or you can more actively, liberally use your ignore button to send a message.
In summary, at least there are multiple options to communicate your philosophy. Just for the record, if you "invite" me, I consider that a "gift". ;D :-* :-* :-*
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i agree with west ;D the only girls i gift is the ones who dont aks to be . And they all can see it in my profile ;D
i have a different "aproach" :)
less you ask, more i give
more you ask, more i spank :p
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ooooooo might have to go ask urban than and see if he really will spank ;D lol j/k i'm not one to go asking for gifts
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Isn't spanking in general more expensive then just sex? ;)
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It can be in RL......if i don't mind, several years ago, here in Italy a in a judgment, a simple "friendly" spank on the hip of a girl was compared to sexual harassment! :o
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Hiya's...
I have found that not all those who have gifting in their profiles or banners are demanding gifts. I recentlly met a wonderful woman, who has "Gifts Graciously Accepted" in her banner, which to me, means she appreciates a gift, but it is not necessary to gift her. She has never asked me for anything other than a chat and a bit of fun. It may be different with women then with men, but I don't know. Just thought I would put that out there.
Thanks for letting me share,
Pafe
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I see lot of girls whit "gift are wellcome" or similar on their profile and this is not necessarily an invitation to send them some gift, but this can hide a cute way to ask for gift in few case.
Pafe, in those 5 months and half, i heard only Rukya talking about a girl ask her for gift (real money!) for sex, but the men are usually the main target.
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I find it shallow when people have that in their description, it's like "No way, who would have figured!?". It's about as imaginative as putting "I like sex" in the description... not that my description is worth much but still.
Anyway, even if the hooking is unfair and such I don't think AChat can change much to counter that since I wouldn't want to take gifting out of AChat. Imo this is a something the user base has brought upon themselves and if we want to do something about it we can at least try to be good examples ourselves... not that I think that will change much.
What I have trouble understanding is how people even bother with it? I'm here to have fun so I wouldn't want to waste my time on whoring unless that was a huge fetish for me.
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Isn't spanking in general more expensive then just sex? ;)
depends how you look at it i guess lol it doesn't cost much for spanking someone so they get to keep all their money lol
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That, Adera, is something I asked myself as well.. going on a limb here, girls if you want to yell, please be my guest..
I can't see the fun in whoring either. But what if it is not about the actual deed, but about the result it gets? From almost everyone that posts here on forum, a good experience is what they are looking for, where there is pleasure shared by both, or all partners. I saw a banner of someone doing weekend sodomie and scored 57 in one weekend. That means it is about something else as passion or pleasure.. That is keeping score..
I imagine the ones demanding a fee for sex, as laughing in their fists after they collected the next fish, which allows them to spend or hord cash.. So I see it as a power rush.. And it is not uncommon that women use their sexuality to accomplish something... Without judging that in any way... That's another discussion..
I can't think of any other reason as this, or it being a fetish as Adera mentioned. Inthe end the motivation must go... once you've bought everything and are at the start of a new, payed for month of membership... why fuck for the moeny? fuck for the power-rush...
Ok, everyone can take aimat me now ;D
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*gets water hose and aims it at tight turns it on and then spins around dousing the entire room* lol *turns water off and runs off and hides*
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*gets water hose and aims it at tight turns it on and then spins around dousing the entire room* lol *turns water off and runs off and hides*
Are you submitting this as a new "fetish" pose? ;) ;D
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Aww now everyone can see my nipples through my white top. I hope someone will catch her and give her an appropriate punishment. ;)
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would that be called 'collateral damage'? *looking at Adera, drooling*
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hehe why would they come after me to give me punishment adera when they are distracted by you ;D
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Maybe they found Adera more attractive........ ;D
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Maybe they found Adera more attractive........ ;D
That would only be because I'm standing here all wet and exposed. *Scampers off after sexilicious and calls out* Sweetie, don't you want any valentine candy?
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ouch hentai nothing like a stab at the heart
*slows down* oooooooo valentine candy sounds good
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I had say "they".....about me, you two are all amazing!
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you still were tiptoeing on dangerous ground hentai :P
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*Sneaking around in search for sexi with a well shaken can of soda* Here kitty kitty kitty... oops that pobably works better on Kittenlepurr. :D
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*hides behind the chair watching adera walking around trying to be quiet so i'm not found*
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you still were tiptoeing on dangerous ground hentai :P
miao!? why sexy!?
mmmmmmmmhhhh........now i'm sure you hate me, so..... *hold tight sexy's arms from behind and scream: "she is hereeee!"*
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*leans back and rubs the outside of hentai's pants feeling what lies underneath getting bigger. when he loosens his grip i bolt and run away*
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*sitting on the flor looking at sexi running away, while in my mind i'm thinking "this time i make you leave.....my little pretty friend!"*
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Oh, so there you are sexi... wait I've got a soda here for you. *giggling as I run after her*
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*takes off running even faster avoiding the people who got sprayed with water* hehehehehehe
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*Sneaking around in search for sexi with a well shaken can of soda* Here kitty kitty kitty... oops that pobably works better on Kittenlepurr. :D
meow ?.... people use it too much with me because of the name ;).
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it's an automatic reflex.... ;D
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*Sneaking around in search for sexi with a well shaken can of soda* Here kitty kitty kitty... oops that pobably works better on Kittenlepurr. :D
meow ?.... people use it too much with me because of the name ;).
I guess you get quite a few people asking you if you wouldn't like some milk as well?
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more they ask if i would like some cream
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Ehehe, to get mine you'd have to work some for it. ;)
Kinda fun conversation starter though, I like the ones that have a bit more originality.
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i agree with west ;D the only girls i gift is the ones who dont aks to be . And they all can see it in my profile ;D
i have a different "aproach" :)
less you ask, more i give
more you ask, more i spank :p
@ Urban:
What are we talking about here?
How hard do you spank?
When are you next on line?
Do you use hand or paddle?
Where do you live?
Do you like redheads?
Do you think I deserve a spanking?
Will you cuddle me afterwards?
xxxxx
BD
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oh blue......you had just give me the big smile of the day!
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Ehehe, to get mine you'd have to work some for it. ;)
Kinda fun conversation starter though, I like the ones that have a bit more originality.
I always like a challenge ;) xxo
So do I but the whole kitten and cream/milk thing gets done to death to a point.
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Ehehe, it was kinda like that when I dressed as a nurse... lots of people asked me for an injection. ::)
I'm quite certain you'd have me whimpering and moaning kitten. ;)
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I hate being a smartass, (no I dont) but what does the last posts on here have to do with combating hookers.
The hookers will always be on here, as long are there will be guys willing to pay