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Discussions about AChat => Share your creative ideas => Topic started by: Theman4it4 on September 20, 2012, 07:50:27 PM

Title: BLACK LIST
Post by: Theman4it4 on September 20, 2012, 07:50:27 PM

I am not sure if this has happened to other men on here but there are certain women who ask for gifts. After you send them a gift they log off never to be seen again. Obviously con artists.

I would like to start a black list to warn other men on here.

The two I have been conned by are elizawells01 and sarah117. Please add to this list so others are warned.

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: hentaiboy69 on September 21, 2012, 01:27:15 AM

New frontier of prostituition!

More then make a list my friend (welcome to the forum, of course, Theman4it4!), better things to do is to use the report option, so their account can be definitely banned!

Anyway, thanks for the advice, it's really appreciated!

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Azrielle on September 21, 2012, 06:26:21 AM

Well, as they say... "Let the Buyer Beware"... Perhaps you'd be wiser to be keeping your A's to yourself.

Giving gifts to the WHORES, just perpetuates their existence.

Azrielle
Superintendent of Police
Nymphomania Sex Police Department.

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Slut on September 21, 2012, 07:11:40 AM

What Azrielle said... There are so many whores/beggars because people keep giving them A$'s!

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: hentaiboy69 on September 21, 2012, 07:54:52 AM

Well, as i usualy say: "Best gift is the one you don't expect!" ! Where is the excitement of find out what is hidden inside the box if you know it till the begin!?

Honestly, only one time i had send A$ to a girl and she had never ask me for gift! I admit, i had send the gift with a certain purpouse i had explain her and she was really happy of it! And i was really happy do make her that gift......eh eh!

P.S:  nothing weird of course.....she is so damn sweet!  ;)

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Lover on September 21, 2012, 10:38:31 AM

HB

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More then make a list my friend (welcome to the forum, of course, Theman4it4!), better things to do is to use the report option, so their account can be definitely banned!

Why should AChat ban them? Because they got a gift? I don't doubt that they are whores and expected money... but the A-Team won't ban them for receiving gifts, I'm sorry.

It's a bad experience you had Theman4it4, but you only can learn not to pay money for whores.

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: hentaiboy69 on September 21, 2012, 10:54:20 AM

k, maybe pretend a ban was so much.......soooorry!

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Bear on September 22, 2012, 01:40:14 PM

Indeed what Az states...
paraphrasing...
A fool and his scrip are soon parted...

excerise some patience and try to develope a relationship not buy one.

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Covems on September 23, 2012, 03:49:08 AM

When I first started with AChat, I considered sending a gift in exchange for sex.  But what you described is the scenario that always played out in my mind.

I could see myself sending the gift and even going into the room then suddenly "uh oh... she lost her connection" and is gone, never to be contacted again.

If I'm going to pay for sex, it's going to be the real thing.

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Rukya on September 23, 2012, 04:36:44 AM

my advice will be the same i always give about this subject : If you do a gift , do it cause you WANT do it and not cause you are asked to do one  ;)

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Theman4it4 on September 25, 2012, 07:44:00 AM

Thanks for all your comments guys. An interesting discussion.

I think some of you have missed the point though.

No problem with whores -you pay the money they provide a service.

A con artist just takes the money and doesn't provide the service.

Still I have learnt my lesson. Thanks

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Gayle on September 29, 2012, 08:08:00 AM

Oh My God!  Prostitutes here... on AChat? SAY IT ISN'T SO!

If you guys would just learn to say "NO" to them in the first place, then they wouldn't have fools parting with their A's. Suck it up, and move on... Learn from your mistake, and as they say:

"Fool me Once, Shame on You. Fool me Twice, Shame on Me."

Thank you in Advance for doing your part to drive the Whores onto someone else's street corner.
Gayle.

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: apollo13nut on December 02, 2012, 11:43:58 PM

I've noticed more and more girls put something in regards to needing to be paid before going into rooms to the point that I don't see a reason to renew my subscription. I don't give gifts unless it is that: a gift, but so many girls are begging to the point that I'm on for weeks without having a single conversation. As for the being scammed part, sorry, there is no policing on gifting...once you give the gift, you're out the money.

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Lydiarose on December 03, 2012, 02:18:30 AM

I dont  agree with what the girls did to you but we should not have a Black list, If you are going to gift a girl before you go into room then lets have a Black list of fools, 

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Lover on December 03, 2012, 04:22:38 AM

This will be a neverending discussion. As long as there is a market there will be whores and cheaters. And there always will be a market. In this point AChat is not different then RL.

I also believe we will have mor whores - we have more fashion, new rooms, new poses... people need more money to get the things they want.
But I also know there are many nice girls - just look at the forum ;)

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Concerto on December 03, 2012, 04:25:34 AM

Ahhhh lydiarose that wouldn't be a black list it would be a vivid reddish or pinkish purple color, fuchsia list or "fuck? see ya!"

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: hentaiboy69 on December 03, 2012, 04:33:00 AM

I fully agree with lover on his last point.....here i had find lot of wonderful friends, men or women i don't care, and i consider this forum as a big friendly family where everyone is ready to help the others.

Sad thing is we are gonna loose one of the man who had make this forum great and bigger in the last year. And, of course, i can't forget about NG and others who had stop to post here but i can see online sometimes!

A cheers for all them: Chas, Jacq, Medjai, newGurl......and all the others! hope to see them back one day!   :-* :-*

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Rukya on December 03, 2012, 04:54:53 AM

to me its simple , if you dont want to go with prostitutes dont go .

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Bear on December 03, 2012, 05:58:06 AM

What Ruyka said... summarizes it perfectly. Don't patronize what you despise.

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Covems on December 03, 2012, 07:56:00 AM

When I was a shiny, brand new member, I was fortunate enough to have two lovely ladies take me under their wing, so to speak.  They allowed me to converse with them while being a free player, and yes, room with them.  Then I took the plunge and bought a subscription and started to interact more with other members.  We'd laugh and chat, and to paraphrase Simon & Garfunkel:

But I'd get no offers.
Just a come on
From the whores on Seventh Avenue.
I do declare there were times
When I was so lonesome
I took some comfort there.

Then I got scammed after gifting.  It reminded me of an old saying.  "Burn me once, shame on you.  Burn me twice, shame on me."  I never walked on seventh avenue again.

Instead, I found me a lovely Robot.

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Lover on December 03, 2012, 07:59:55 AM

@ Covems: Haha... and this lovely Robot just wants some oil once in a while...

We get what we are looking for... if you look for whores, you're gonna find many of them. If you look for nice people to talk to (and perhaps more ;) ) you also are going to find them.

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: mercer78 on December 09, 2012, 08:31:15 AM

This is a difficult issue and I agree with the buyer beware philosophy.  I do see one other problem that is one of reputation picture the scene you've just signed up got yourself some A$ get conned like described above what are you going to do next?  Well depends on your personality some would chalk it up to experience and move on, others and this is the group I'm worried about would firstly quit achat and secondly probably spread bad word about it around the net  " don't sign up its full of whores and con artists" etc.  As anyone who's worked in customer service knows negative rep spreads quicker than positive justified or not.  Just my 2 cents on the subject.  8)

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Patricia1975 on December 09, 2012, 08:50:58 AM

Hi Sweet. Answering for  myself. When someone offer me a gift , i never turn back on them, actually that person, becomes my priority in a way, so i can say thank you, or go to room if he likes.I personally always avoid, ask for a gift to someone, i put on my profile,and ,if that person likes me, she or he, know what to do.
But answering to your post. i Tlhink thats so sad and ugly, receive A$ , and then never apreciate that person.Its an ugly thing to do,could  be a little gift , but always nice for respect and aprecciation at least to say....

 THANK YOU

Yours ........Patricia1975

Title: Re: BLACK LIST
Post by: Brandybee on December 09, 2012, 09:30:58 AM

As in real life, there are always going to be unscrupulous people willing to take your A$ if you are willing to offer it ... and I have heard of many being parted.

Ideally  my advice would be don't give it to the tarts ..  with out a market .. they would go out of business..  but there is a market here otherwise it wouldn't flourish... and it obviously does for whatever reason.

Maybe guys like the seediness of it, maybe some guys havent got or cant be bothered to learn the social graces .. we have all met the Cookie Monsters at some point  ;D ..  who knows ... the thing is .. it does exist and is likely to continue to do so.

A black list of girls who make the promise and then do a runner will always be difficult to ensure is true ... it could be a clash of personality or a dispute after the gifting is complete and they are unable to return the gift as gifting men is not allowed on here.. as well as being dishonest to take your A$ in the first place.

I'm sure it happens the other way too,  girls in good faith room and the guys refuse to make good their promises too.

Gift because you want too,  and expect nothing back.  If you pay for services there is always the risk of losing out and I'm afraid you will have to put it down to experiences if they are not made good.  There is no facility for redress.

Offended parties could always advertise on their profile descriptions to warn others of the unscrupulous  & report the antics to Support in case there is a pattern of behaviour emerging..

A blacklist could be used for revenge on innocent parties and I don't believe is the answer here for this problem.  Don't pay would ensure you are not parted from your A$   :)