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Organizations & Events => Groups & Families => Topic started by: tomcumalot on October 11, 2012, 08:59:38 AM
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AChat Black Studs (ABS) foundered by myself (Tomcumalot) and LeoLion.
The group was setup for women that want or like Big Black Cock (BBC). Was not setup to be rasist in any shape or form. I have ask women if I should allow all males from the few women I spoke to the answer was no.
WE respect all women who are part of the group, treat them as they want to be treated.
There are no Free Users in ABS.
I will not accept mistreatmean of women by any ABS members.
TomCumalot (Joint founder and MD)
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I guess no one has anything to say about AChat Black Studs. Will remove soon!!
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tom. there is no need to remove this thread.....even if now there is less interess in this group here, maybe in the fuutre there can be more!
so, please, leave it on!
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You also may not forget there may be prem member who are reading this forum but don't register. They can't answer here but will do in game.
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Well it might not generate immediate response, and some might not feel comforatable responding publically. Your success in this advertisement will have to include ingame messages and PM's. Lover is correct though not all who read the threads are regisatared in the forum.
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hello everyone of ABS i am a new white slut for you .
Is it possible to know the members of ABS group ?
thanks in adevance
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godiva, I am working on it there is no way of listing ABS on achat, but most of my group are on my friends page
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hello evryone
tomcumalot decides that i have to prepare a list of male members of Achat Balck Studs .
Then it will be possible to prepare a list of white sluts available for members.
Thank you and bye
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First update of list of members Achat Black Studs :
TomCumalot ( my master )
Spade
Angelo7skin
Hank3333
DylanCruz
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I don't have any particular fetish for dark-skinned guys myself but I have to ask... is the group mostly for those with an interracial fetish? I'm curious because godiva was referring to white girls and not girls in general and I thought that it might be good to point that out... well if that's the case of course?
Anyway I wish you the best of luck with your group.
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Not sure how this is going to sound but most of the ''Black Studs'' that I talked to were very rude, obviously had no idea about how to talk to a girl or anything besides the name calling, I am going to breed you and stupid things like that... I did room once but that was before talking to the other members of the group and I can tell you it did not last long as the one I roomed started cumming after one second had passed and all the insulting started too so I left the room and just ignored him, and no I wont name names just yet. Sorry but my experiences are all very negative when it comes to your group and most of them are on my ignore list by now. I kept talking to them because I wanted to see if everyone was the ''same'' and most of them were so they ended up on my ignore list too.
And no my AChat name is not Slut.
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I guess they don't follow what they stand for then... people that behave badly wont get very far or get much enjoyment out of this.
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Ok I have to admit never have , only one black guy cottager on the island and he`s married ,
But here my friend Mandingo been a nice guy > ;D and yes have reade all those delish books yrs ago .
ok had couple > grins cocktails >punt big ones tooo !
cyber serenade < ebony and ivory can live together in perfect harmony ;D
Throw causions to the wind spend time w friends , soon hope to have time, throw a mr blue in there ! ;)
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First update of list of members Achat Black Studs :
TomCumalot ( my master )
Spade
Angelo7skin
Hank3333
DylanCruz
LeoLion
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Hello kinds peoples of the Dreamworld's Forum.
Well, I didn't really noticed if the ones I will talk about are, were or not members of the "Black Studs" group.
But they introduced themselves having a Big Black Cock, that, I think is related to the group.
Well As Slut says, many ( not all ) were very rude, I don't know if it was because of I am transgender, or because my way to talk ( write )
... But mainly ... well they just defined themselves as ... a Big Black Cock. Like I was just waiting for them to come to me and applause.
I am not into some kind of Ebony / Ivory fantasy or lust, neither I make any distinction about the ethnic origin of my partner.
I am not also very attracted by oversize stuff. But, well, and that's why I post here: If the only appeal some peoples think they have is BBC ...
( and my experience was that, most did ) well ... it is far not arousing for me.
I don't mean all Black peoples have this way to act of course.
And I don't even mean that members of the Black Studs do.
In Fact, at least Mister TomCumalot was nice and understanding when contacted in past.
But in fact at least one member is in my Blacklist ( and it is not easy to be into ).
Please accept my best humbles regards.
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I have nothing against black guys and I have many really good friends here in AChat and in real life that are black... I just dont like rude idiot people that really are walking live dicks at times and nothing more.
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To chien_lubrik and slut
I am sorry if some of my group have been rude to you and treated you with disrespect. If you let me know there names I will speak to them. I did not creat this group to enslave anyone, but to make women happy who like blackman. I will do all in my power to root out the bad guy's in my group, but at the end of the day I can't control them. I do not like bad press I am here tp please. You can speak to me or Spade.
One love we are all here to have fun.
Tomcumalot
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Ladies once again i am very sorry, but not everyone that has ABS is part of the group. That is why Godiva is creating a list of ABS member. I have tried to put moat og the group on my friends page. I will do all to make you happy
Tomcumalot
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First not to insulted but leave me off your so called slut list , cuz I`m not one ,and second I don`t do with this Master crap I`m equal.
I treat people as indivinduals not black , white , Indian , well as others > I think what next crazy canucks fuck group
Big black beautiful do it w pride and some class pffff slut sheet my little white ass
my Mandingo spent time getting to know me , so just got off late boat , real tired , just dont want this turned into a race issue .
small ideal make thread maybe like Bold , Big Black and beautiful that way you dont leave out any of your sisters > Smile from little white girl
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I know tom and he is one of the good guys on here. and a few of the guys in his group are what i call A1 assholes but i have met more A1 who are not in his group
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The point is not how is the group etic line.....the problem are the singol member! So, i think it's right to jugde all the member cause some of them are really airhead!
Too many idiots run free on AChat and, at latst, it's normal to find some in a goup like the AChat Black Studs or anyothers! I'm sure Tom don't had create this group with the purpouse of collecting dick head but with the one to create a community with the same passion.
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I dont know him either but i know Lydia. If she says he is a good guy I believe her
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I had the chance to talk with Tom sometimes recently and i had the impression he is a good guy, gentle and respectfull, a proof that not all the men of his group are rude.....so, before to judge, try to look well inside the box!
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Whether or not people from the black studs group are nice is usually shown by their approach i'd say, a few so called Achat Black Studs" talked to me with their normal approach "hey baby, i have a big black cock - wanna fuck?" I didnt check the friendlists if they really were from that group but a conversation with such an approach ends right there for me, oh well i might tease them a little ;D.
I wont judge the whole group just because of single approaches, i just judge the person himself:)
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And i agree on the whole line, Cheya! you can't image how cold invite or opening chat like that i have.......and there are some who say "I want to try a shemale" like if sweet girl as Adera, Evelyne (slaved) or Stephanie are just object! my God, what a pain they are!
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Approach as a man enough said
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Not all men have manners, it's not just AChat Black Studs. Women can be just as cold. I get "Hi wanna fuck" when I ask why "because you got a black cock"
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Do to respect on each part > just be known I`ll never be on a slut list and > no matter who you are > live , like , laugh
Well cyber motto
what can I say have a good day and smile ! Roger that little Canadian signing off
;D
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Dear AChat Black Studs Members,
my name is Daniela, i am 30 years old and single in real life. I have less but very close friends in AChat which you can find on my friend's and lover's list. But what I not have is a black friend in AChat.
That is why I try to approach your group for help and audience. According to my friends I am an educated,eloquent, sensible, sexy and talkative girl.
I lived for some time in South Africa and learned aboutthe sexual fascination that comes with black men. Therefore I would really like to find me a black friend in AChat.
You should be talkative, interrogative, at least my age (prefer older) and you should be willing to use condoms. Anything else we can chat when you contact me in the game.
Hope I got at least one black man from AChat interested in me now?
Kisses, Daniela
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Lol Ok explain why some just like that little white booty I`m open mind , but never judged by color , my friend Mandingo has always treated me w respect , and if i was busy , he understood.
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hi tom wish you the best ;) make sure you edit your 1st post and add a list of members. take care :)
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Hi Tom
I have read the posts here about your group
You yourself sound like a nice guy BUT as a first line I don't think this is very nice
From my7skin : sex ass baby
Then my7skin : wanna taste my big black cock SLUT
he has never spoke to me before and sorry but I hate being could that
Hope you have a word with the way he is represening your group
I know one guy doesn't make a group but one can make a group look bad
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mmmmmm, All_For_You, want to borrow my BB scriptures :o
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All_for_you
I would like to say sorry for the way you have been spoken to, I will speak my7skin.
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Thank you Tom
WMAHHH
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Hey Tom, can I join your group?
Im a caucasian but my penis is kinda dark
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sorry bro i cant do that. Achat Black Studs, is for balck amles only. I have asked in the past if I should include non black and I got a no. Sorry the women like the group as it it
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Best of luck with the group. Maybe before letting a new member in you should give them a quick course on etiquette :p
kisses
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You know Tomcumalot, I keep coming back to this topic and it makes me uncomfortable at times... I have asked myself why on several occasions and I think at last I am now able to verbalise my concerns here.
There are 3 things that I ask you to clarify of your group if you wouldn't mind doing so :-
1) I understand you are a group of Black guys ... not a problem for me ... but it sits uncomfortable when you have excluded a white guy who was interested in joining .. Malicious101 for instance ..
You have stated, you have asked your members about this and they have indicated .. Black guys only ... but I have not seen a poll here...
Personally, I would be happier if I could see the openess of such a result in a poll. To exclude a person because of his colour is racist.. to exclude a person because the members have voted democratically.. is pushing the boundaries a little, it would still be a racist group ... but I am more ready to accept the majority rule..
2) Then the second part I have concerns about is it seems that this group is open to white girls only. Is this true ? Or can other nationalities join that are also black?
3) Thirdly, some of your members have been abusive to girls on here... and I have noted, you do not condone such behaviour.. Good on you.
However due to this ... I feel this group is a group of Dominant Black Guys who enjoy belittling and yeilding their black status over white submissive girls... maybe as a reference to past ill treatment of the black race by whites...
If this is the case, then I think you should be open about this type of role play so unsuspecting girls know the kind of group you are.
The group would have racial undertones, whether you dress it up or not.... but at least being open about the role playing .. is a choice that the girl will know if she approaches a member or if a member approaches them ... she has the right to say no, without being abused or insulted on first contact.
Those are my concerns really and it's food for thought.
I would just like to make it clear from a personal point of view, I do not condone racism, however I am also a strong believer in free speech & if all of your members are willing and accepting of your rules, then live & let live... its just another role play here.... just make it clear & transparent just what your group is.
Please note though, If the Moderators receive complaints, we will approach you & the members concerned & will report any violations to the Achat Gods.
Thank you.
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I think your concerns are good and warranted Brandy, though... I suppose the group wouldn't be able to call themselves AChat Black Studs if there where white guys in it.
Are there really only white girls that are in the group? Well I guess that's a fetish.
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Hi Brandybee
AChat Black Studs in not meant to exclude with guys, but the group was set up for women how like BBC, hence the name. I would be glade to set up an on line pole, if you can help me with this, I would be greatful. All women are welcome to join the group if they wish. If my member mistreat any women you are free to contact me or spade, we will sort it or. We aim to please all women.#
I hope I have answered all your questions?
Love Tom xxx
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Ok, I would suggest a question like this open for discussion here first if you agree :-
Achat Black Studs / Big Black Cocks ( BBC ) Is a group of heterosexual Dominant BLACK Males & it appears Submissive WHITE females.
Should the group be open to all skin colour types....
1 ) To be the Dominant Males? or should it be exactly what it says on the tin - Blacks only?
2) To be the Submissive slaves in the group... is it right to include only white females ?
3) And what about gender reversal, if a dominant female wants to wear a strap on for a male slave?
Let the discussion begin. If you post a reply to these questions - please identify if you are already a member of this group, or if you intend to be ... that way it will show true support for the group & also the independents.
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I will go first ... I am not a member of this group .
This appears to me , to be a group who has a common theme .... Black Dominant men wielding their power over submissive white women - probably as recompense for past slave histories & the ill treatment of the black race back then. The wrongs at this time will never be forgotten but are strong lessons to be learned for future generations to ensure it never happens again.
Whilst I may not agree with this kind of retribution role play , as long as all are consenting adults, then my views are irelevent and if you enjoy such role playing, then I will not judge you.
In saying that, I do feel the group should be very open to the kind of role play it is and keep it in the room. I do not think the members should openly abuse anyone until they know their partner is willing and certainly no open abuse on first contact..
Be open , be polite. And we may all live happily ever after ;D
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brandybee, you have the wrong end of the stick, I started this group, beacuse the area lot of women out the who like black men. I has nothing to do with slavery, if that is what you this you are welcome to thing so. Speak to the women who are part of the group. No need to take my word for it. As you know I do try to control the group.
I do not mean to offernd any one, not my intent.
All women in my group are free to leave if they wamnt. Write want that they wish on their profile. Brandybee we have spoke in AChat, but you have not said anything to me, why?
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I have spoken to you, but only general chat, and I do not have a problem with you. There was nothing to discuss in the game, you have always behaved very politely.
I just have some concerns about your group and some members behaviour, which I have high lighted in my above posts and concerns that some girls - not part of your group, have been abused by your members. The racial element does cause me concern too.
I accept that you are not responsible for their actions so the best way to deal with this is in open discussion. Both Dominant members and submissive members should know exactly what your group is offering, in forcing the issue out into the open , there can be no misunderstandings then.
If some Dominants are misrepresenting your group, then it should be made clear, this is their own role play and not representative of your group or what Achats Black Studs is all about.
As I have said previously, I have no problem with consenting adults doing whatever in their rooms ... if it spills over into the general community and causes upset, as it has, on a few occasions.. that behaviour should be challenged and resolved and violations reported.
Your group is no exception and your members should be made aware of that.
I am glad you have posted a little more about your group & what it represents, I would hate to see vulnerable members being taken advantage of.
This is exactly why I have posted and asked for open discussion with your members.
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I believe that it must be quite hard to control a group here in AChat, there's almost bound to be some people joining who will turn out to be bad for the reputation and/or the image of the group.
It must also be quite hard to make someone leave a group unless they do so freely when you ask them to.
I haven't talked to any members myself, but I hope most are good people.
Anyways, dominant/assertive studs seems like a good thing. :P
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@BRANDYBEE
So honestly I do not see racism in the black studs .. black studs is a group for black men .. and why should there now be included please a white man? would be a black man included in a white group? With no certainty ... as we speak not of racism when the white men say ... no we will take you on, because you're black and we have a group with white. that would be considered normal? This is absolutely moronic.
Black Studs says the name already .. black = black so have only black entree ..
just like you write black men to women are always rough ... sorry this is also an absolute moronic. they are sometimes rude but sometimes that's just the way it must be in black ... a woman can avoid if they want to have sex with a black .. if she can not she is out of place .. I am a white woman and i am with blacks together for 23 years and I speak from experience .. so black men are loving, tender, rough, dirty (sex), and thats here what the ACHAT BLACK STUDS show how the black men really are ... and I love the achat black studs .. and should the female members even if they want a black stud ... and not crying around... huh he is so a rude man ....like kids in the nurseryschool
hope this was now in some speaker against the black achat studs
THE SPOUSE OF DYLANCRUZ
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I think what Brandy is pointing at is that it's a racial specific group, sure it's called AChat Black Studs so considering the name white guys in the group would be weird. But should there really be racial specific groups since that's a very touchy subject which can potentially promote toxic behaviour?
Now this might be an extreme example... but we wouldn't accept a group called Kinky Kitty Klan since nearly everyone would see that a group called that will promote toxic behaviour.
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I don't see any problems with "AChat Black Studs" as closed group. It's their decision to accept members and im sure they also dont accept each black member. I just want to make sure they dont attack or offend any girls. As tomcumalot is the leader, he has to make sure, the other guys don do it. Though it might be hard to control sometimes.
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This is in response to Brandybee's request for discussion…
I am a member of Achat Black Studs, and was one of the first few to join. Please note I am speaking for myself here. I am not speaking on behalf of Achat Black Studs. Having said that, I'm sure Tom (Founder) and Spade (CEO) will agree with what I've written.
I would say the "Mission Statement" of Achat Black Studs is to have a great time here in Achat - and to make sure our partners have a great time as well. While everyone has a different idea of what a "great time" is, as a group, we excel at finding common ground with our partners and making sure we all leave the room happy and satisfied.
Achat Black Studs was started by Tom (tomcumalot) for two primary reasons: 1) He noticed there are a LOT of Achat females looking to hook up with black men. This isn't speculation - it's stated on MANY profiles. 2) Tom also noticed a lot of Achat females were looking for group play - specifically MMF. First of all, it's often difficult to find a partner to group with. Once you all get in the room, the "performance" of one of the partners is sometimes lacking. So Tom started Achat Black Studs. If a member is looking to group with a female, all he has to do is search "Achat Black Studs" to find an online partner. From the beginning, Tom made it clear we were to be respectful in chat and in-room. If things went beyond "respectful," it was mutually agreed to by all partners.
To speak to some of the concerns, and downright misinformation, I've read in this thread...
1) Yes, Achat Black Studs is exclusively black. It's in the name. We are a group of black men, so it makes little sense to have members of other ethnicities. Achat is a "Virtual Sex & 3D Sex Game" - and choice of sexual partners is entirely up to the individual. You can choose to only have sex with men here. You can choose to only have sex with white women here. You can chose to only have sex with blondes here. It is entirely up to the individual. In this environment, it's only natural to have groups (listed or not) based on gender, race, orientation, fetishes, etc.
2) Achat Black Studs do not partner exclusively with "white submissive" females. We partner with females of all races. Many of us partner with shemales of all races. At least two of us are bi, myself included, and partner with males of all races.
3) There is no D/s component to Achat Black Studs. If our actions in-room are D/s, it's because EVERYONE in the room wants it that way. In fact, there are MANY friends, lovers, and spouses of Achat Black Studs that do not enjoy submissive roles. They are our friends, lovers, and spouses because we absolutely respect that.
4) Achat Black Studs has NOTHING to do with "past ill treatment" or "reverse racism" or anything of the sort. While everyone is entitled to their opinion, and Brandybee has certainly stated hers, she could not be more wrong. Furthermore, I find this “concern” more objectionable and offensive than anything an Achat Black Stud could say here, in chat, or in-room.
5) Some partners VOLUNTEER to note on their profile they're open to room with Achat Black Studs. To be honest, we've had a hard time coming up with a name for our partners to use. Most put whatever they want. I've seen "Achat Black Studs Slut," "Property of Achat Black Studs," "Achat Black Studs Playmate," etc. Some of these, out of context, are not ideal. If someone has a suggestion, please let us know!
6) Adera makes a great point: It is very hard to control a group in Achat. It's also impossible to force someone out for any reason. To be real, ANYONE can put "Achat Black Studs" on their profile and there’s nothing we can do about it.
Tom has made it clear to us: ALL Achat Black Studs are to "play nice" here, in chat, and in-room. He takes it very seriously when someone complains about the words or actions of a member. Again, if you have a problem with an Achat Black Stud, take it up with Tom or Spade.
Thanks for reading this LONG post. I hope I addressed all questions and concerns. Feel free to contact me here or in chat if you want to know anything else. If you wanna play, I'm open to ALL so long as you're FUN.
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Thanks rod_johnson for this long and detailed explanation. It is very interesting to read and I appreciate your good and friendly sounding.
All the questions and discussion was started as there have been some complaints about single members of your group AND because your group is the only one advertising here. I'm sure, the same complaints would have come out if other groups would advertise here too.
You cannot control and take response for each single member. Just keep the attitude to treat other people respectful.
Have fun :)
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lol does dark blonde count > life is a rainbow > ;D
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i am in
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islandsun all women can join.
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I think I have spoken to Tom a time or two in the game.
I don't remember rooming with him, but I have roomed with another black man who is on my friend list and we both enjoyed it.....
The standard stereotypical line is "want some BBC baby" or "Once you've had black you'll never go back" which I find amusing. I don't care what color anyone is as long as they are fun to play with.
If the group Black Studs sets itself out as being a group of black men who say they have huge cocks (you can't get different sizes in the game, guys!) and are looking for white girls or sluts who are looking for BBC then if a girl goes to them, surely that is what she is looking for.
I'm not, neither is BB, and probably none of my friends on here, but if that's what some girls want out of the game, then I can't see how it can be either wrong or stopped.
As long as the boundaries are not crossed between fantasy & rl. Any inkling of abuse crossing over into rl should raise an investigation by the AChat developers & management.
No I don't like the racial exclusivity the group implies, but there is a popular conception that all black men are hung like horses and therefore some girls will purposely seek out a group like this. I don't think that the group should (be able to) exclude black girls who are looking for the same.
If I were playing and I was approached by someone from Black Studs ( I got approached by lots from a previous black group) What would it mean to me? I have in ignore button and I can make a complaint directly to the Achat management and broadcast it on the forum if I feel there is something sinister.
I think perhaps we are being a bit prudish? We might not like it, but unless they are overstepping the bounds and actively chasing white girls to abuse as opposed to just waiting for them.....
And another thing.
In the game all the men have the same size penis. regardless of color, race or ego
Lolz!
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Today see the death of the AChat Black Studs. I am closing the group.
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Owww....sorry for that, Tom.......i wonder what happen to make you close it!
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they have not been crude to me ?
again I`m an artist , no such thing black or white > life is a rainbow , waiting to see what`s inside that pot of gold , smile
wow it`s done ?
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Hi
I love BBC ;) so find me in Achat :D
Adrrianne
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like bbc too,smiles....so fond in achat me:)
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Find me on Achat :)
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I love black stus, so find me in Achat
kiss
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Hi,
i am Diana and i although love black studs.
Is it possyble to join that group?
Kiss