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Title: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Vaelene on November 06, 2012, 10:33:08 AM: So I gotta ask what it is about jamming fingers, a thumb, or a cock up my poor ass that is so great? I have a perfectly good pussy and mouth, so I simply don't understand.

I know it's just a game, but even so we still like to do things that turn us on and make us hot. I have had anal done enough times for real to know I get no pleasure out of it. Everything from slow or prepping with toys first, to having a guy pin me while bent over and forcing it on me. Always the same thing, no pleasure, always hurts. So of course even though it is a game, seeing it done to me does not turn me on. Even more so when they finish it with ass to mouth, ugh.

So again I ask, why my poor ass? :P
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: hentaiboy69 on November 06, 2012, 10:46:51 AM: Vaelene, first of all, welcome in the AChat forum.

Second......let me suggest to change your profile description from

Description: I LIKE TO FUCK. NOT DANCE OR ROMANCE. NOT MUCH FOR FACIALS ANAL

to

Description: I LIKE TO FUCK. NOT DANCE OR ROMANCE. NO FACIALS AND ANAL

more clear then the one you have. About why most people like anal, well anyone have their dirty dream or desire and maybe this can be one of them, but let me say this is just mine opinion....the reason why people like it are endless, couse everyone have their personal one!
Like a joke say:

A man to his wife:
- my love, hod did you preserve your virginity!?

- ass. lot of ass!

even if it's a simple joke, there can be some girls who do it.....at last, there is no one simple why...but lot of them!
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Vaelene on November 06, 2012, 10:56:41 AM: Thanks for the welcome and reply hentaiboy69.

And I have changed my profile so many times lol. Sadly there is simply not enough space to put stuff on there. But I have had things like, No anal, wont do anal, and many ways of wording it. Guys will still do it any way lol.

I changed it to what it is now so it does not sound too close minded. As I understand some like it, and that is fine even though I don't understand it lol. Must go along with those that enjoy pain in sex, only way I can see it. I don't like pain, at all lol. Same goes for being spanked all hard and fast, again pain, not for me. <.<
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: hentaiboy69 on November 06, 2012, 11:03:14 AM: I can understand it end to be frustrating......the problem is lot of users don't take the time to read profile, so sometimes (well, often!) they make question about things we had put in it.

And yes, the description need more space and same goes with the other area we have for add general info.

mmh, i had forget to said you a thig: feel free to share your idea with us, every new one is wellcome!
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: tangoracer on November 06, 2012, 11:32:53 AM: Welcome Vaelene to the game of Achat and to the forums

On what you have said about anal sex the best thing to do is to say that your not into anal sex right at the start and if the person you are with is a true gentlemen he will respect your wishes.

Yes don't get my wrong I am an out and out ass man but if the lady i'm with says no it means NO

Hope that helps and when you have 5 mins pop into the Bar & Grill and I'll bye you a drink
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: hentaiboy69 on November 06, 2012, 11:37:06 AM: I agree with you Tango.....best thing to do is advice your partner you don't like anal. There are some real gentlemen...not always easy to find, but they exist, even on AChat!
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Rukya on November 06, 2012, 12:22:16 PM: welcome Vaelene as tango said , just tell your partner youre not in it , and if he do anal , just leave the room ;)
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: hentaiboy69 on November 06, 2012, 12:27:08 PM: well, leave the room......it depends...

if your partner is new to AChat, it can happpend he /she don't know all the pose. there are some who are only anal, that's true, but it's not easy to understand from the small icon!

with this, i'm not justifing them, but a simple error can happend.....Rukya, you are always drastic! oh well....this is how our Paddle Queen is, afterall!
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Vaelene on November 06, 2012, 01:38:41 PM: Well I have said no to it from the start, and even as it happens. Though more times then not they keep going and will even do it harder and taunt me. I could leave the room after saying no and them doing it any way. But at the same time I kinda like a guy that knows what he wants and is not chicken to go for it.

So I get stuck in a conundrum, grunt and bare it to get to the stuff I do like. Or leave the room and maybe end up missing what might of been a great time.

Any way, I have yet to hear from any guys on why they want to fuck a girls ass so much lol.
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: shejoy on November 06, 2012, 02:19:54 PM: tight ! the reason for most men is tight ! i think and i will be right for about 75% .

to tell it like it is , not all pussy are tight or 'tight anymore' and they want to feel that tight feeling again .

Why it happens to you ? maybe you have such a lovely sweet irrisistible nice ass :P , so men can not resist try to put their cock .....

greetings shejoy
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Vaelene on November 06, 2012, 02:59:38 PM: Haha I see, thanks for the input shejoy.

Might have a point with it being tight, I guess I could see that. I'm starting to think it has to do with a guy wanting to fuck a girl just how he wants. Taking all the holes for that dominant feeling, and to make the girl feel dirty as he enjoys pounding her ass.

I doubt it's just my ass lol. I'm sure plenty girls are in the middle of things then next they know, POP right in the ass.
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: hentaiboy69 on November 06, 2012, 03:03:43 PM: vaelene, those words

Quote from: Vaelene on November 06, 2012, 02:59:38 PM
I'm starting to think it has to do with a guy wanting to fuck a girl just how he wants. Taking all the holes for that dominant feeling, and to make the girl feel dirty as he enjoys pounding her ass.

are not wrong in some case, i think! maybe some guys have this desire of complete domination on their partne with, i hope so!, her agreement!
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Adera on November 06, 2012, 04:58:06 PM: I think it's because it's still kinda taboo, pleasurable, different and it's hard to get. I also think it's because they see it as one step further than regular sex.

You're probably right about the dominant part of it, well for some guys at least.

What I really don't like is that irl some guys go for it without consent and I find that terrible since it can cause injury.

I however love anal sex and I'm glad I do since I'm a pre-op transsexual. :)
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Lover on November 06, 2012, 05:12:57 PM: Shejoy and Adera hit the point. It's tight, but most of all it's more then just normal and different. And, as I mentioned in your other thread, I like variety. It's not only fucking the ass, also the mouth, the tits and even a good handjob is great.

Just in one point I disagree. For me it's a difference, knowing and taking what I want and doing something my partner absolutely doesn't like and what is hurting her. It's kind of disrespect and a no-go for me.
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Kingdustin on November 06, 2012, 05:41:53 PM: As to why men like it. it is true. that an ass is indeed much tighter. but to me vaginal sex and anal sex feel completely different from each other. I love both its not like one is better then the other. It just different and men like variety.

I can't say for other men, but If my partner dose not like it I wont do it. I all was ask before as well. For those men who do it even after a no. 80% of then only care about them self and as no care for your pleasure at all.

you got to have a firm hand when it come to men. If you let them take it once they will think they do it again and again, no matter how much you say you don't want it. to them they may just think your playing.( she let me fuck ass once she must like it so its okay to do it again ) this kind of think you should really stay away from.

this is my Opinion of course
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Quote from: Lover on November 06, 2012, 05:12:57 PM
Just in one point I disagree. For me it's a difference, knowing and taking what I want and doing something my partner absolutely doesn't like and what is hurting her. It's kind of disrespect and a no-go for me.

I totally agree with this Lover.
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: tangoracer on November 06, 2012, 05:53:16 PM: Will said Lover and Kingdustin

I could not agree more with what you both say. But you should always ask the lady your with and never just take it.
Yes there are girls out there then love it hard in there ass but there are lots out there that don't.
And you have go respect there wishes.

ps Vaelene
There are poses out there for you so you can always get your own back :)
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Brandybee on November 06, 2012, 05:59:32 PM: Think its mostly been said, its tight, naughty, a little domineering and a little taboo. I think there is also the knowledge I trust my partner to do this and not hurt me. Its giving yourself completely to your partner.

Whatever the reason , If you don't like it , make it a plain and simple no - then leave the room if he doesn't respect your decision.

Its the same with milking a guys prostrate. Some love it, others don't like your fingers invading him there.

Its all about personal choice and respecting your lover's decision & finding each other's boundaries. :o
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Vaelene on November 06, 2012, 09:29:30 PM: For the most part I think it's all way over my head, anal = ouch. No pleasure for me, just ouch.

Guess I'll just have to start leaving the room more often, unless the guy just has me to excited so I just grunt and bare through it.

To tangoracer, what do you mean by, "There are poses out there for you so you can always get your own back"?

Thanks for all the comments and input all, nice to get others veiws on things.
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Kingdustin on November 06, 2012, 09:58:38 PM: Quote from: Vaelene on November 06, 2012, 09:29:30 PM
To tangoracer, what do you mean by, "There are poses out there for you so you can always get your own back"?

Hahaha...I can answer this one, there is a pose for MF were you can fuck the mans ass.little pay back so to speak lol

It will not work on me, I like anal both ways. but you will not need to worry . I all way ask First. lol Like said in my last post, don't bother with those who don't respecter your ways.
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Rukya on November 06, 2012, 10:52:35 PM: Quote from: hentaiboy69 on November 06, 2012, 12:27:08 PM
well, leave the room......it depends...

if your partner is new to AChat, it can happpend he /she don't know all the pose. there are some who are only anal, that's true, but it's not easy to understand from the small icon!

with this, i'm not justifing them, but a simple error can happend.....Rukya, you are always drastic! oh well....this is how our Paddle Queen is, afterall!

hmmm i dont know how even a new member could make a mistake , all the moves doing anal ( in vaginal poses ) are called "anal action" and the name of the poses are enough explicit . Exemple a pose named "anal doggy" have few chances to be a vaginal pose ;D

@Vaelene : if you dont want leave the room , here's another solution : each time that your partner choose an anal action in a pose , just change it by clicking one of your own actions , and dont accept "anal poses" if he select one ;D
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Vaelene on November 06, 2012, 11:02:26 PM: Oh hey speaking of anal poses. There is a pose named "Kneeling spoons" that is all anal. But you don't know this till in the pose and really look. They need to rename that pose. If you choose the pull out option in this pose with the cam view in the right place you can totally tell.
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Rukya on November 06, 2012, 11:08:38 PM: i cant help with this pose :) lesbians dont have it ;D , but if its an anal pose , it must be classed in the section "from behind"
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: hentaiboy69 on November 07, 2012, 02:38:22 AM: Quote from: Rukya on November 06, 2012, 10:52:35 PM
Quote from: hentaiboy69 on November 06, 2012, 12:27:08 PM
well, leave the room......it depends...

if your partner is new to AChat, it can happpend he /she don't know all the pose. there are some who are only anal, that's true, but it's not easy to understand from the small icon!

with this, i'm not justifing them, but a simple error can happend.....Rukya, you are always drastic! oh well....this is how our Paddle Queen is, afterall!

hmmm i dont know how even a new member could make a mistake , all the moves doing anal ( in vaginal poses ) are called "anal action" and the name of the poses are enough explicit . Exemple a pose named "anal doggy" have few chances to be a vaginal pose ;D

i don't know well the MF poses, but "dominated from behind" isn't a basic anal one!? and how did you understand it from the name!? ::) ::)
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Rukya on November 07, 2012, 03:29:56 AM: with this pose , the pic is explicit :)
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: hentaiboy69 on November 07, 2012, 03:37:56 AM: i don't think so.....or did you have a microscope who give you the chance to see where the dick is goind on!? ;D ;D
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Rukya on November 07, 2012, 03:44:10 AM: My paddle told me lol ;D . It know to recognise all that is around butt ;D
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: ssgt on November 07, 2012, 07:59:04 AM: I agree with what has been said. Remember this all sex fantasy. Maybe some men want what the cant have in RL. Like to domineering on here. But as in any kind of Sex, should be agreed on by both parties. Any real gentleman should respect your wishes.
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Marilyn on November 07, 2012, 10:19:09 AM: Everything has been said, in my opinion.
I think that you should tell straight away that you don't enjoy it - if he's a good guy, he will respect.
But I understand that some guys might still be forceful, just try to put them at the right place.
I don't remember having a partner in game doing it without asking me first if i enjoy doing it. However I know that if I had someone doing anything that I didn't like, I would say it at once.
So basically if the concern doesn't come from him, it should come from you.
What's the point of being uncomfortable when you shouldn't be?

Everyone is different.
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: kittenlepurr on November 08, 2012, 11:08:15 AM: As I understood it they want to do because they don't get the chance to.

Personally I like Anal but not everyone does.
For me its a more intense orgasm and a different sensation that feels very good. Yes it can be painful but pain and pleasure are a fine line.

All I can say is just what Marilyn has said.

Quote from: Marilyn on November 07, 2012, 10:19:09 AM
I think that you should tell straight away that you don't enjoy it - if he's a good guy, he will respect.

If they ignore you and try to force the issue you can always exit the room and tell them why. Its great at getting their attention when that happens.

Play on Achat is mutual anyway if your not having fun with whats happening then best to say.

Welcome to the Forum. Your Complimentary T Shirt and Muffins are in the mail.
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: tangoracer on November 08, 2012, 03:52:29 PM: @ Kingdustin
Quote from: Kingdustin on November 06, 2012, 09:58:38 PM
Quote from: Vaelene on November 06, 2012, 09:29:30 PM
To tangoracer, what do you mean by, "There are poses out there for you so you can always get your own back"?

there are pose that the girl has a strapon on and can use it on the guy
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Bear on November 16, 2012, 07:12:55 AM: That said there are only 2 anal poses Kneeling spoons and the anal doggy,... decline to accept them and offer another choice. Be clear that anal is not a turn on but a mood killer,... and as kitten' says play is mutual... don't accept an action if you don't like it. Good men will repsect that. If they don't then I guess they aren't a decent sort are they?

Dominates/Tops around here will typically insist on the option, most likely because they see it as a taboo element missing from their RL experience... that is your choice if you choose to yield. Good Dom's will take it under consideration,... if you establish that as a boundary a Dom will/should respect it. Great Dom's will consider it a challenge... to find a way to lead you to the fulfillment of it's potential enjoyment without breaking the boundaries.

I will say that some women banner "no anal"... reserving it for special partners... you need to be clear ahead of time that it is a mood killer and you don't enjoy it.
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Covems on November 16, 2012, 07:26:26 AM: Quote from: Vaelene on November 06, 2012, 10:33:08 AM
So again I ask, why my poor ass? :P

I can answer this simply and plainly.

It's for the same reason why people climb mountains...

Because it's there.

(http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs70/f/2012/063/2/7/272b2512137d67decc29adb1cef97e28-d4rgno2.gif)

I sincerely hope that this answers all questions.
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Rukya on November 16, 2012, 09:58:21 AM: @bear : you forgot dominated from behind , its an anal pose too

and anyway , there is an anal move in quasi all sex poses so in any pose you cant be sure to not have anal
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Urban on November 16, 2012, 04:48:45 PM: Buy a femdom pose and if somebody try to use your back door without your permission, hummm give him/her a good lesson ;D
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: Momma_andrea on November 17, 2012, 06:22:28 PM: I have been wanting to answer this since I first read it.
Why does everyone want to fuckmy ass?

In my best Groucho impersonation "I don't know. Let me see your ass"
(http://i2.listal.com/image/24708/600full-groucho-marx.jpg)
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: mercer78 on November 26, 2012, 04:57:22 PM: If it's any consolation I don't get the fascination with anal either
Title: Re: Why does everyone want to fuck my ass?
Post by: malicious101 on January 27, 2013, 09:20:00 PM: Dont worry Vaelene, I dont like people fucking my ass either...