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Title: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: mercer78 on November 25, 2012, 06:21:27 PM
With my last topic about breaking the ice doing pretty well on here thought I would open this old debate, just to see how everyone feels especially interested in the female perspective but want everyone to join in please be honest and I welcome any comments.
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: Momma_andrea on November 25, 2012, 06:56:17 PM
A gentleman should always cum last...
Oh, you didn't mean that. you meant...    :-[  Never mind.
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: Rukya on November 25, 2012, 10:25:42 PM
the problem i that the time needed for orgasm is different . Men need between 2 and , hmmm lets be generous , 4 minutes . Women need between 10 and 20 minutes .

To your question , men can cum first as long as they dont stop as soon as they cum , i think . But i'm not an expert of this subject  ;D
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: Lydiarose on November 26, 2012, 02:48:02 AM
all guys are nice till they get some.When you meet a girl for the first would you say to her,, I'm not a nice guy. 
so I cant answer your question,
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: mercer78 on November 26, 2012, 05:23:08 AM
Thanks for the input yet again really liking this forum.  To Rukya's point I agree which is why I always try to go down first when I'm with a woman, which isn't all that often.  That being the real point I'm very single in the real world and have struggled a bit a bit on here (although I have had some great times you know who you are ;)) is it because I'm too nice?
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: Covems on November 26, 2012, 07:10:36 AM

Momma_andrea... yer a riot!  lol
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Not that this means anything, but I learned a long time ago to just be yourself.  If it is meant to be then it will happen, so that's what I try to do, just be who I am.  Silly, irreverent, irrelevant and extremely loyal and approach everyone the way I like to be approached (the golden rule).

(http://images.sodahead.com/polls/000175754/polls_golden_rule_3418_748212_poll_xlarge.jpeg)

I feel very fortunate though, to have met some great people here, many of whom I consider to be real friends, not just AChat acquaintences.  Two special ladies were kind enough to take me under their wing while I was still moving around as a free member, and the robots have accepted me into their drove.  So you see, it can happen... just do yourself a favor and don't give up, you might miss something or someone special.

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Rukya... you're giving me too much credit... 2 minutes is a marathon session... 30 seconds is more like it. 



Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: Cheya on November 26, 2012, 07:40:46 AM
Thanks for the input yet again really liking this forum.  To Rukya's point I agree which is why I always try to go down first when I'm with a woman, which isn't all that often.  That being the real point I'm very single in the real world and have struggled a bit a bit on here (although I have had some great times you know who you are ;)) is it because I'm too nice?

In your case i'd rather say, you are too defensive :). About your topic yes - a real gentleman finishes after pleasing the lady  ;)
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: Momma_andrea on November 26, 2012, 09:13:24 AM
Thanks Covems.  ;D
but to the old adage, "Nice guys finish last" and its true meaning. I think its bullshit
You can be a nice guy and be sweet but at the same time be confident, ambitious and a go getter.
The adage predisposes that the 2 are mutually exclusive. They are not.

My Steve is very sweet and adorable and a nice guy and he won with me.  :)
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: tangoracer on November 26, 2012, 09:56:50 AM
Nice Guys Finish Last  ;)

This is Because girls/lady's always go for the bad guy there is an edge of danger about them and it get on the parents nerves.

But it may be because I'v been told I'm a "NICE GUY" but that is only because I always make sure I always finish last.

My best advice to you is take your time and pleasure the lady your with and NEVER NEVER leave her high and dry.Always take the time to find out what the lady likes and when you find it never let it go and then you will be a "NICE GUY"

Hope this helps out  Tango "A NICE GUY ;)"
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: Brandybee on November 26, 2012, 12:12:28 PM
Grinning ...  I love Nice Guys  but I LERVVVVVVVVV   Alpha Males ....  Nice or Naughty,  that little bit of confidence and arrogance always catches my attention :) 

Maybe its the Alpha Female in me   hehe ...

Everyone, is someone's Alpha  so happy hunting  :P
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: Bear on November 26, 2012, 12:55:33 PM
hmmm.. well a gentleman will always make certain her needs are fulfilled... physically and emotionally...

An alpha doesn't need to be a bully...
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: mercer78 on November 26, 2012, 02:22:41 PM
I agree Bear but unfortunately a lot of so called alpha males are bullys simply because they know they can get away with it.  As for the questions of confidence and arrogance the way I see it confidence is a belief in ones self and your ability's and a bit of playful cockiness fits in here too. Arrogance is the need to rub your accomplishments (real or imagined) in other peoples faces at every given opportunity.  Real self-confidence I admire arrogance I really don't like.
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: ssgt on November 30, 2012, 04:55:40 PM
A real Gentleman would make her feel like a real Lady.  You get what you give
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: Masaru88 on December 19, 2012, 04:06:00 AM
I rather be a nice guy that makes sure his lady is fully pleased then be a arrogant duchebag that get his then leaves the girl hanging but that's just my option on that topic....
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: zoerink on February 26, 2013, 03:39:56 PM
I think is something dificult to control, but maybe the question can be

¿what kind of persons go offline when they cum and let the other close?
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: Evelien on April 16, 2013, 08:31:25 AM
I rather be a nice guy that makes sure his lady is fully pleased then be a arrogant duchebag that get his then leaves the girl hanging but that's just my option on that topic....

The latter seems to be the only kind of men on Achat these days ...

Trying to find a nice man is even more rare now.
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: mercer78 on April 16, 2013, 02:48:52 PM
I rather be a nice guy that makes sure his lady is fully pleased then be a arrogant duchebag that get his then leaves the girl hanging but that's just my option on that topic....

The latter seems to be the only kind of men on Achat these days ...

Trying to find a nice man is even more rare now.

That's one of the reasons I started this thread in the first place to start a proper dialogue about this issue.
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: old_goat on April 16, 2013, 05:44:39 PM
I can usually finish last if that is what the lady wishes.
But there are times when we both seem to be in a race.
In that case there is a certain give and take that takes place until one wins out.
And you know it's all good in the end.
 :)
Title: Re: Nice guys finish last?
Post by: Trekmanalpha on April 17, 2013, 02:16:55 AM
hmmm.. well a gentleman will always make certain her needs are fulfilled... physically and emotionally...

An alpha doesn't need to be a bully...

Totally agreed Bear.