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Organizations & Events => Personal Ads => Topic started by: malicious101 on December 03, 2012, 11:29:35 PM
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Hi everyone Im new here, on the forum at least, so Im not sure if anybody started such a topic before but heres my confession:
I have been noticing that there are a lot of boys and men on achat posing as girls and women. I was especially shocked last year to discover that someone premium who I thought was a girl was actually wasn't, damn he was reaaaly good at acting, I mean really good.
So honest men and women using achat need to be cautious because she might not be a she :)
In my opinion, they do this for a few reasons 1. They just want to be annoying and have fun 2. By having sex with guys on achat they can ask for gifts to transfer to their male accounts 3. They want to trade pictures with actual girls using fake pictures and by deceiving them they receive their pictures 4. They like lesbian action (most men do) and want to get in the perspective of a female to fullfill their fantasy 5. They receive gifts from male users by sending them fake pictures.
Here are some ways in which you can tell that a female on achat really is a female ( in my opinion) : 1. Most women have a descriptive profile, nice clothing and usually use capital words, 2. I dont think women will use pornography terms in their profile like "fill my cookie with your cream" or "fuck this daddy's slut" or things like that 3. You can engage in a conversation with whom youre speaking with and try to figure out if they really are a women by their talk, try to catch that verbal energy, see if feels right.
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youre right , we yet talked about it , but its lost somewhere deep in the forum .
To me , i dont see the interest to do this for transfer gifts to a male account , i dont think its possible . Remember , men cant be gifted .
About lesbian sex , i agree with you . I discovered some men behind women yet and i hate this . Me , i'm carrefull when i see all lines saying " NEED GIFT " or " SLUT " in their profile . I have doubts too when "she" use too mucht " YEAH BABY " . Maybe i'm wrong , but it sound like a men's expression to me , it remind me Austin Powers always saying it lol ;D
The easyer "she" i discovered was a girls with who i roomed . In room "she" asked for a pose without a hi , finding this strange , i take the control and start to fuck "her" . 5 seconds pass , and "she" switch . I switch again , and her too few seconds after . I tell her " no , its me who lead here " and switch again . "She" leave the room .
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This is a really old question here......but first of all, malicious101 welcome in our special place, the forum! Hope you will stay to enjoy this funny and, sometimes, serious place! Feel free to take a tour and share your idea, my friend!
Then, back to the topic......everyone, even the board of AChat forum lol!, know i use a shemale avatar but i'm not! And i can swear you i never ask for gift to the people i had meet in AChat. Of course, i had some to close friends and lover (and i thanks them!) but never had pretend they must send it to me! But i know there are others who ask gift for sex and this is something i can't accept, and i'll never do!, and Rukya is right....men can't be gifted, so fake girls can't send A$ to their male account!
And just to end this argument.......i had never hide the fact i'm a man, it's well write in my profile! It's just their fault if people don't read profile not mine! :P
And malicious101, if you like to know the reason and something more about me, let's check an old post i made......here! http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,1675.0.html
For me, that thread is the proof we have lot of wonderfull people here! so, please, let me say it again....
I LOVE YOU ALL, MY FRIENDS!
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Welcome to the forum, you seem to be around quite often :D and stop skipping college :P!
I can only speak for myself but i get suspicious if the womans that are approaching me are classified as "sex maniac", dont have clothes on and use very plain an direct speech! Not sure if i could confirm the verbal term though, i happened to meet quite a lot of people which had general difficulties with english.
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Infact, language can be a problem to understand who is on the other side of the screen. I'm not so much good with english (but being here and working on story is helping me a lot!) and i had meet people who are really bad with it and often need the help of a translator......amnd we all know translator are not perfect, specially if we start to write in "slang"
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Ok, ok, malicious101, of course, like anyone else on here,you are entitled to your opinion but..
First of all, what does it say on the Achat banner?......
Looking For 3D Virtual Sex? WHAT IS ACHAT? Hot virtual sex with a real partner! Join the AChat community with the AChat client, chat, date and enjoy lifelike 3D sex. The limits are defined by your imagination. Enjoy the New and Exciting 3D Virtual Sex Game for Free!
The key words are… virtual, chat, date, lifelike, imagination, game.
Ok, I’ll give you that “chat” and “date” may be related to real life but, as this is online, all of those key words imply some sort of fantasy interaction.
It is no different to playing something like Everquest and don’t tell me there are all those gnomes and elves running around mother earth, they are solely in the realms of Everquest, just as those who you interact with here are solely in the realms of Achat.
As with Everquest, you are entering a world where no one is necessarily who they say they are and just because the avatars here appear to be human it doesn’t mean that they bear any resemblance to the humans that are working them.
I am (or rather my avatar is) making love to the avatar presented to me and I don’t give a damn who is operating it. Well, that isn’t quite true, to a certain extent I do care about the words they use and the actions they perform but a male playing a female? Lol, I am not fucking the male, my avatar is fucking their avatar. Just as I don’t expect the male playing the dwarf in Everquest to kill that horrible creature, they wouldn’t stand a chance, I put my faith in the dwarf.
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I have to agree with Concerto here. This is all fantasy, an escape. I will never meet any of you. So what you are in "real" doesn't really effect me here. And if someone wishes to explore their sexuality, if just in their mind, then this is the place to do it.
If someone else is just looking for a quick kick, this is the place to do it.
I judge no one, and I bid you good day.
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Hiya...
Welcome to the crazy place we call the Forum, Malicious101! Please continue to post and share your ideas and opinions with us.
Personally, I don't get too concerned about who is on the other side of an avatar, as long as they know that there is an actual person on the other side of mine. As stated by Concerto and Momma_andrea, AChat is a virtual world filled with many people, all here for their own reasons. If the other person is being pleasant and we're connecting, I really don't care if they are not who they say they are... and I prefer if they don't tell me. And as Rukya and Cheya wrote, there are clues in the other person's manner and profile.
Usually for me there is a certain "Karma" that comes through all the words. I can't explain it, but it does seem to work for me.
Thanks for letting me share,
Pafe
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Most on the topic has been said already, though I do however think that this is a bigger deal to guys than it is to women... well generally speaking. For those that do care about this I don't think it's wrong for them to have some common things to look for in a partner when they decide to play with someone or not...as long as things doesn't turn into a witch hunt of course.
Malicious101, if it eases your mind they can't gift from their females accounts to their male accounts... unless they've changed that and I've missed it.
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Thanks a lot for all your responses
I have met great people on Achat, I really have , from all around the world, Im not saying a lot of people are bad or anythnig but, you just gotta be careful, internet is full of perverts, I have met young girls on achat too that when I asked for their real age they were like 16 or something lol.
Haha yesterday this "girl" sent my email random pictures of some russian model and aske me to gift "her" well yeah these things happen , gotta watch out, some people dont care about who is behind the avatar but some people do , for me the person and the personality behind the avatar is important too, otherwise itll be nothing like watching cartoons having sex and it would be weird to share my fantasy with a guy, you can just go on porn instead, anyways, this forum looks good, full of nice people :).
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hmmm i hope you dont give your e-mail to all the peoples you meet here ;D
Me , in soon 16 or 17 months , i gave my e-mail to only one person
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Welcome malicious,
I know all of "unique" signs to disguise a man playing a woman - and I also know there is no unique sign. There is just one sign - meeting the person in real (or using cam, that's real too)! Even if "she" tells you, she is a he you don't know if she is just kidding.
The best advice is already given here - if "he" was great, just enjoy. It's a virtual world, a place for fun - enjoy and have fun.
this forum looks good, full of nice people Smiley.
What can I say? You're absolutely right :D So follow Hentaiboy's suggestion and introduce yourself - then go on posting, we ALL want you...haha
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Hi ya Malicious101
Welcome to the Forum Village. You are right, the people here are just brilliant ... one big happy family ..
Most has been said already, people have their own reasons for coming here and playing & its wise not to judge ... its just nice to see if you have "the chemistry" and if you do just enjoy what you have on face value... and enjoy your fantasy ...
Afterall , Its what dreams are made for .... ;)
Hope you will post more of your ideas and views ... its always a good thing when new people join us :-*
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What can I say? You're absolutely right :D So follow Hentaiboy's suggestion and introduce yourself - then go on posting, we ALL want you...haha
I can only agree, Lover! and hope Malicious101 can be a new wonderful member of this crazy family!
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yes welcome Malicous101
Welcome to the mad house the is the Achat forums as you can see we are one
Happy Family
and are always looking for new member to come have fun here
Hoping you stay ;D
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Welcome Malicious101 to the forum and our strange family on it.
The issue has been raised several times. With the following results.
Some people find it annoying.
Some are apathetic on it.
Some think it makes them question themselves.
Some just viewing it as a fantasy and nothing else.
Takes all kinds to make this weird world of ours. Personally I am apathetic on it. I choose whom I talk with and whom I don't. The idea is mutual enjoyment if there is that then there is no problem.
Likewise I can understand if you feel angry over someone lying to you about their sex. Best idea is just to remember that achat is more a game and a fantasy there is nothing wrong with exploration of any kind. You just know in the future not to bother talking with that person again.
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Remember its just a fantasy and a game. I am told that over and over. lol Just enjoy yourself and go on
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Why are people so nice here, let's just have an orgy :D
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I to do not like this particular practice while I agree this is supposed to be fantasy that doesn't make it ok to deceive other members. If you have a fetish about pretending to be a woman she-male or what ever why not say so in your profile or in chat who knows you may get some positive responses. Which I think will lead to a better experience for all involved.
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Yeah Mercer
this one girl was honest, I talked to her, and she was like "I'm a shemale"
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i'd like to clarify a point....we all agree this is a pure fantasy but don't forget a thing: human mind is strange and tend to create bond between people even if you will never meet them! so, i can understand people who get angry when they found out there is a man and not a girl on the other side, cause it's like if the other had betray your trust!
I can report my experience, for example: few days after i had join here, i had meet a very nice shemale and we start to date often, till the point i had ask her to be my wife here after a month (we start as friend and then as lover). But before i had done it, i had said all to her and our relationship had work great till she had take the decision to leave achat some months ago, confessing me the only reasomn she come in the last period was cause of me. There is more about this story.....but i don't think i can tell you without her permission.....
Is AChat pure fantasy!? i don't bet it at all........maybe at the begin it is, but if you find someone special it will turn on something more!
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I to do not like this particular practice while I agree this is supposed to be fantasy that doesn't make it ok to deceive other members. If you have a fetish about pretending to be a woman she-male or what ever why not say so in your profile or in chat who knows you may get some positive responses. Which I think will lead to a better experience for all involved.
I understand your position. Noone said it was ok to deceive other members just that they are doing it and people have mixed opinions on it.
It is equally likely that they get negative responses too and just do not want to deal with that. Truth definitely is a factor in relationships without a doubt. But everyone may not view the relationship people have on here the same way.
Is AChat pure fantasy!? i don't bet it at all........maybe at the begin it is, but if you find someone special it will turn on something more!
I think I can answer this one from my perspective. No its not all fantasy like everything that involves more then one person it is a series of relationships. But the purpose of it is a social media mixed with a safe place to explore your fantasies. So people do.
Feeling betrayed after being lied to is absolutely normal everyone knows how that is felt and how one decides to deal with it speaks volumes on the persons character. There is no right or wrong response just a response.
But one thing people must remember .. that there are all kinds of people out there that use AChat and you can only judge them on how they act. Do not allow one person to wreck the experience overall for you.
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But one thing people must remember .. that there are all kinds of people out there that use AChat and you can only judge them on how they act. Do not allow one person to wreck the experience overall for you.
Kitten, i agree with you........ONE bad experience with a person you had maybe trust for days, months or whatever, can't ruin a good potential experience with others users! everyone have their reason, sometimes weird, others not......it's just to be a little open minded when we talk with the other behind the screen!
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Kitten & HB, I agree with all you have said!
Just want to add some thoughts. Most of us want to play this honestly and true. For example, if you ask me something and I answer, it's true. You wanna know my age? Just ask or look at my profile. You wanna know how tall I am? I will tell you. You wanna know how long "he" is? I tell the truth (18 Inch;) )
Sometimes we expect too much. We believe, every other member has to be absolutely honest and are upset if she/he is not. In RL many of us know not everyone is telling the truth... here we demand it.
Everyone of us also has lied in his life.... and everyone has been betrayed. But we go on, believing and falling in love or making business. And that is the only way our life can go on.
We should take the chance we get here - having fun, meeting some few assholes and much more nice people, friends and lovers. Making experiences that don't cost too much but teach us a lot. Usually we learn much more from the mistakes we make then from our success.
Finally we also can learn to understand other people and even us much better. This all in a playful and funny way.
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You are absolutely right, Lover! Just, in real life can be a little easy to find it out, that's the big difference, nothing more!
Anyway,my friend.... You wanna know how long "he" is? I tell the truth (18 Inch;) )
.....are you an horse!? ;D
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Even in rl it can least years until we find out the truth... though you're right, usually it's more easy.
A horse, a new gender... who knows who I am... ;)
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@Lover... your penultimate response.... poetry :)
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A horse, a new gender... who knows who I am... ;)
A great member of this wonderful place......one of the most who try to make this place funny and great! :-*
And same i can say for lot of you, who are reading those few words!
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@ Concerto: Thanks :)
@ HB: You'e as wonderful and nice as always. You know, you also are a great member here - thanks... and be carfeul with your kiss ;)
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18 inches .... :o
Horse, Donkey ... ?? ;D
Lover does speak wonderful wise poetry ... in English too ... Can you imagine if he said it all in his native language..
Anyway .. what Lover saiid ... I cant beat or top it ..
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Defending no one hun. Though
Some women are not lesbians in real but may play a bit in type as one.
Some guys are not gay in real but may play a bit in type as one.
Some women are not pretty but want to pretend they are.
Some men are not handsome but want to pretend they are.
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Some people get annoyed being gifted
Some people want more than "oh ya baby, ooo" ...
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Could keep going -heh-. Anyways, as far as using caps to define women and men is silly, honestly. Women are not the only ones educated in the caps feature. I was born a man slowly changing to be more like how I feel, a woman. So do I tell people because I dress up mostly in girls clothing, act female, with only some changes to who I am. That I must act female with caps, plus whatever is self expected? I know you are just making some things for mention. Though, for some trying to cross barriers. It might be offensive. And not sure why others didn't catch that it might. With that said do pay attention we are all trying to fill fantasies, to be ourselves, to wander into length of chatter with others outside sexual. I would hate to see users posting lists of people just wanting to explore, to be themselves, to doing what gives them their greatest joy. I may not be a born woman, but I rock my heels hunny. And I love who I am. Let others love who they are as well.
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I was talking to this person on Achat yesterday, she told me that she was actually a male in real life and that 85-90 percent of female members on achat are actually males in real life.
I tried to ask him and get further and deeper into this whole thing and asked him why he does that so I can understand why these idiots pose as females, his reponses werent really clear but as far as I understood him, he was telling me about how men like to see anal and anal play and by disguising as females, they can do that with their avatars. He also said its ok to switch sides. He was telling me how its illogical that Im not a sadist and that my name is malicious , so its ok for males to be females.
For me, I care about who the person is in real life because I dont want to share my fantasy with a man because Im not gay, and the game isnt fun without the dialogue and the connection with the other user and if the other user is a male, theres no sexual connection for me, otherwise itll be nothing but cartoons fucking.
Anyways I do trust the friends and lovers I made on this game so far but I do encourage these idiots to stop acting like females, its super annoying.
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his anwser is stupid , if he want see anal , he can have it with a male avatar too . And about you , you cant be sure that its a woman to the other side or you'll need to ask pics to each female avatar you room with ;D . Hope you have a BIIIG .... photo album ;D
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Basically, he had try to find a way to satisfy his feticism, this is it! Is it wrong!? Probably yes, but as i had said before.......we must judge every case one by one cause everyone do it with different reason!
Let me tell you all about my experience......
It was lot of months ago, i had met a free shemale and we spend some time together in room 2 or 3 times. And then, she tell me the true, sha was a HE, a guy like me! and i can swear you all after that things don't had turn bad, the opposite......our dates (different hours force us to meet only when in Italy is afternoon) had continue and, i must admit, had reach an highest level! believe me or not, but that was one of the best experience i had ever had here and till now i don't regret it! Tango know what i'm talking about and, to be honest, even most of the usually users here had read about it but they don't know what is it......eh eh! ;D
yes, at the begin he had lie about his identity, but at last he was honest and i think.......is it correct to judge all the situation in the same way!? i don't think so! maybe i'm a little too optimistic, but crap......if we don't be it a little, AChat will turn just in another bad experience as there are in the RL....
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I've be on this over a year, so far I've met 3 females who where males, and 1 of them hurt me a lot, when i asked why he did it. He said he did it for a bet with other guys where he works, The other guy told me he did it because as a new guy on here no girls would chat with him and it was coming up to xmas and he was alone in real life, I think the guys that come on here as females are lonely guys in real life and find it hard to make friends. What I will say to them think there is a real preson on the other end...
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...the other guy told me he did it because as a new guy on here no girls would chat with him and it was coming up to xmas and he was alone in real life, I think the guys that come on here as females are lonely guys in real life and find it hard to make friends. ...
Lydia, maybe there is true in your words but true is free users are usually avoided from lot of users (specialy from the girls who want gift for rooming!) and this don't help them to choise to subscrive as premium.
Buuut, anyway......i don't want to judge others people decision, everyone is free to approach AChat as he/she want and it's ok for me. Of course, things change if they abuse of the situation and of the AChat sistem we have now and they had never forget to be respectful with others users, of course! We can criticize them as we want, but if do the same.....we are not better then them!
P.S. : Just to make you know.....that guy i was talking, is married and he left AChat (or i had to say he is trying to left!? :-\) for his family!
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I understand their loneliness and their frustration Lydia but if thats the case, I would encourage them to be brave and learn how to talk to girls so they approach them rather than being creeps.
Rukya, youre right, a picture isnt even enough, more like a picture with their name written on their hand or something.
But I trust you ;)
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hi again all, and milious <<< sorry short memory. and please remember that there are some just telling the truth to, not with the females true. but some are just trying to understand some things, and being upfront about it. I have seem CD and other words on the pages. I have both a guy and a shemale avatar, I have said I am a guy on it <<< false male body. but but there are sign that some one is false, and you can leave the room, x ignore then and all that. but just chat with them some before hand works well to. I am getting to the point of not saying yes on a first meet, works really well for me. and if what I type does bother anyone sorry, but I just am not a dominate male, and believe it of not this place has been a blessing I will never forget the people and the talks, the help and guideence,, better than anything I have ever done. love you all so much. so please just drop them and find a friend or more, pricks are a dime a dozen all over the world <<< sorry ladys and gents . xoxooxox.