I dont quite understand why women refuse to reply on this game. I know they aren't afk because 2 mins later there yellow. Or i just seen them get on. Im tired of hearing "oh we have tomany people in chat" If you cant take 2 secounds to reply with a "hi busy" Hi not interested" "hi your to young" or whatever then you need to learn to multi task. It isnt hard ive had my page filled up with chat but i still take the time to reply to people im not interested in letting them know. It really irks me sometimes. /end rant lol feel better now
I ll give you a reason to not reply !!
Yesterday night i was in Achat , and a premium guy, that i never saw or talked before, his first sentence to me was:
I want you to such my cock, please !!
I love Sex.... But What the Hell, does he talk to a woman in real life like that, first time he opens is mouth?!?
PLEASE GOD HELP ME !! ;D
I ll give you a reason to not reply !!
Yesterday night i was in Achat , and a premium guy, that i never saw or talked before, his first sentence to me was:
I want you to such my cock, please !!
I love Sex.... But What the Hell, does he talk to a woman in real life like that, first time he opens is mouth?!?
PLEASE GOD HELP ME !! ;D
I ll give you a reason to not reply !!
Yesterday night i was in Achat , and a premium guy, that i never saw or talked before, his first sentence to me was:
I want you to such my cock, please !!
I love Sex.... But What the Hell, does he talk to a woman in real life like that, first time he opens is mouth?!?
PLEASE GOD HELP ME !! ;D
You're right, Patricia!
Many men approach women saying that. But Fantastical isn't like those - I know him for a long time.
@Fantastical
As you might know, we have perhaps 10 men to 1 woman, probably more. Sometimes is hard when you have your window being flooded with messages. I think that the main reason is that one; not your fault. ;)
We should make an addiontal topic and rate the worst pick ups, i'm sure that would be alot of fun Cheesy
I can say some reasons why I don't reply to someone.
1. I am in the middle of a conversation and your message gets lost.
2. What people send may not even be remotely interesting. eg "I wanna cum will you help me?"
3. I could actually be afk. (despite what you think its still possible that they could be afk even joining 2 minutes later a room afk at your message time)
4. Bad experience with the person in the past. (so I don't want to repeat)
5. You cold invited before talking.
6. They only chat with people that they know. (Friends/Lovers/Spouse or people from the Forums)
7. You didn't read their orientation and thus they ignore you because your the wrong type.
8. You insulted them in the first message.
The explanations go on and on but this are some of the reasons why. All I can recommend is talking to someone like a person and not be disenheartened by the "rejection" of a non-reply.
My appreciation for any explanations I've got to read above.
While I accept them in the whole, I only suggest that ladies (excluding those who kindly replied to the topic, showing some sensibility to the issue) would consider even a polite "Sorry busy" as often as they can, expecially when the approach shows an originality's effort in order to catch their attention.
It would help to incentivate our attitude for smart chats .
I appriciate all your replies. But i do not greet someone in a rude way nor do i invite after someone says hi. I do enjoy a chat to get a feel for the person before i even ask for a dance or room and even then i do dance and talk. Sometimes thats all i do im not particulerly a sex crazied maniac. But your all stereotypeing us men to be some sex craized maniac. When we arent all that way best way to find out is to just take a chance ^^ if they are rude ignore them. If not then wouldnt you be glad you replyed and had a good conversation?
We also have to think about the chat partner - imagine, you're talking to a friend and she always has to stop talking because she is answering all the incoming talks. How do you feel?
There are many members on achat, I guess the coolest ones hang out here in the forum SmileySo true :D
Depends on the personality of the womenWell, that's close to the truth. At least, sometimes names are just stupid or insulting. As for age, i'm careful when i see '18' in age field, it makes me think that player could be actually younger (And most of them probably really are younger, guessing by the way they behave). But I do not understand how anyone could be too polite. I've never seen that. Many are too rude, that's true. Sometimes they are even such rude, that I won't answer them anything but 'welcome to my blacklist'. Too polite? Never seen that :D
In most cases, you could be too young , they might not have liked your nickname, or you were too polite, it turned the sexual tension off.
So you associate manners with weakness Adera? If this is so and is a commonly held belief on here then I think my days here are numbered
You're absolutely right mercer. As I said, you both were talking about different things. It's a strong attitude to aplogize :)
You can call me stubborn if you want but I'm not going change my approach or who I am, just to satisfy someone else's preconception of what a man should be.As long as no one is an completely asshole he does not have to change his attitude. People are different, that's ok - some like apples, some like oranges. Nothing is good and bad, it just IS. You will find girls loving your attitude and you will fit together.
@ MercerQuoteYou can call me stubborn if you want but I'm not going change my approach or who I am, just to satisfy someone else's preconception of what a man should be.As long as no one is an completely asshole he does not have to change his attitude. People are different, that's ok - some like apples, some like oranges. Nothing is good and bad, it just IS. You will find girls loving your attitude and you will fit together.
I can only repeat, you buy the subscription, not other people. It's a product you buy, not other people! :D See it like a club. You pay to be allowed to enter it, but inside it's up to you and your communication skills :D
As for achat money, when someone is buying a subscription for a month or more, achat money is given. I say that if it's all about the money, than one can always find willing partners for some achats. Players list is always full of 'men only for gift' and 'I'll be yours for a gift' :D
Sometimes I receive coldinvitation from premium users. Or rude invitations. Or just plain stupid ones. So what? He bought the subscription, but he didn't buy me! I do not feel guilty when I do not respond or even blacklist stupid or rude subscribers :D
As far as I can tell, being free male user is bad, but not the worst. Being a free shemale is worser, because shemales do not have any free poses while men (and women) have two :D
When I talk to free males, I always suggest them to buy a subscription, because the game is made that way. I explain them that most women with blue star are not premium themselves, and that's why they want premium partners. But let's face the truth - it's a free-to-play videogame, so if one do not want to pay, he/she should be happy with what he/she has. Speaking of money, 10 usd per month is not much, and it won't kill anyone who can download the game client. At least, one can buy 1-month subscription and see if he/she would like the full game or not.
A lot don't read, before on my game page I put this:
I don't need GIFTS, I need COCKS...
But the girls asked me to go in room!
So I concluded that girls don't read ::)
Now I put this:
No answers: Busy or not interrested ...
But people still insist, so I conclude that men and women don't read :(
After a year of successful use of this game, I think it's easier in life than here, I know it's strange but it's like that :)
You have one here that read profiles ;D
You have one here that read profiles ;D
Dont forget ladies and gentlemen that you are not alone in the world :'(
Here I just disconnect me because it's really not possible.
Too many people and when I answer: " no, thank you I'm speaking to a friend" they cry! pffffff
That's why you have not answers too.
And I don't want new friends, if I want one... I ask.
They annoyed me well tonight :-[
10 guidelines to get Susan's attention (or not), not necessarily in this order.
1) Don't talk dirty. At least not right away. I don't respond to crudities (apart from the edible kind), well, not until at least one orifice has been penetrated (yours or mine, it doesn't matter).
2) Introduce yourself. You're who from where? I don't care how fake it is (well, not too obvious, I don't think Brad Pitt plays Achat). I might look dipsy but I have travelled and I might know that McDonalds on the corner of 9th and Maine.
3) Say something flattering. e.g. "Oh, I like your hair"; "I love how you do your makeup" (oh shit, I've now given away my pickup lines). There is nothing better to get my conceited attention.
5) Don't mention your dick size. First of all, I know you're lying. Secondly, I know you're lying. Third, mine will always be smaller and it hurts my feelings.
6) You're not my boyfriend/girlfriend, yet. I detest "darling", "babe", etc. and any reference to pleasuring parts of my anatomy. I get the idea of the game and, for me, sex with strangers can be better than with friends.
I've been trying for the past couple hours with breaks in between without any success, and I'm thinking of quitting already. There ought to be some system that penalizes people for ignoring messages (-A$10) unless they're legitimately busy. Trying to keep an open mind about AChat here, but it's difficult to remain interested at this point.
I suggest that Hukk performs a stand-up show occasionally in the AB&G, he really does make one laugh
Well Lucian, i am agree with you that is not so good when people dont answer messages, but think that this would be penalized i think is out of order.
*warps arms around Lucian*
Ah, my new friend...looks like you discovered that the achat seas are not so kind to new swimmers.
Alright, lemme give you some Pro Hukk Tips. These are guaranteed to get you doing the 'no pants dance' in no time.
Step 1) Include babe in every pm you make. Including Babe is essential. It says to them "This guy is a douche...but he carries himself with such confidence that he must be good in the sack. I'll sleep with him."
Step 2) Opening line should have some sort of compliment aimed at her anatomy. Because, you need to stick out somehow right? Nice boobs, and nice ass works fine, but try if you can to write a poem before hand describing her buttocks before you message her.
I.E ~ "Roses are red. Violets are blue. You have a nice ass. Sleep with me."
what i have see a lot of lately with some guy is to send a message and when i go to answer them they have logout..
so Lucian after you have shot half the women on here can i have a lend of your Remington so i can shoot half the Achat Guys
what i have see a lot of lately with some guy is to send a message and when i go to answer them they have logout..
so Lucian after you have shot half the women on here can i have a lend of your Remington so i can shoot half the Achat Guys
Is it just me or is it just that people in this community are too stuck-up? I got curious about 6 hours ago and signed up, got premium and all that and tried chatting people up. Out of 10 people I messaged, only 2 bothered to respond. Even though I'm a legitimate newbie and have no idea what the heck is going on, most of the people who even responded to me laughed at me and sneered, "Nice try," before ignoring me. :/I've been trying for the past couple hours with breaks in between without any success, and I'm thinking of quitting already. There ought to be some system that penalizes people for ignoring messages (-A$10) unless they're legitimately busy. Trying to keep an open mind about AChat here, but it's difficult to remain interested at this point.
Hi lucian87,
Strong words for someone who’s only tried out the game for 6 hours and then a further 2.
I tried it out for 10 weeks before I joined up and it took me 4 weeks to figure out how to get the Santa hat off and the glasses LMAO. And let me tell you, I met my fair share of Cookie Monsters.
3 1/2 years later, I still do. Go check out some of the Worst chat Ups Topic to see what some have to put up with.
There are several reasons why people don’t respond. Don’t take it personal. They could be in several conversations at once. There are more guys here than girls so there is competition out there whether you like it or not. Check out the guys profiles and make sure yours is up there to catch attention.
Some may even be away from keyboard, at work :o, or here in forum.
Some may not like your approach. So try something different. A romantic type message can work or at least be an ice breaker. Don’t expect to room. Some like to chat first to see if there is any chemistry and some are in long term Achat relationships and choose to room with their spouse or special lover only. Some may play but give priority to their special lover first if they are on line at the same time or it may even be an arranged date.
There are people from all over the world here. Some don’t speak good English, some not at all. People’s humour is different and “Nice Try” may seem offensive to you but to the other person, it may have been an opener to start a conversation, you could try answering …
“I thought so too, took me an age to think of it. I’m new, any pointers to improve it?” and if they answer, the start is a good one.
If not leave it awhile and try elsewhere. They may be in chat.
Then after a reasonable time. “I take it you are busy, thank you for replying. Have fun and a great evening”
The thing is, don’t presume, they are ignoring you, presume they are busy. A bad attitude won’t make you attractive to girls on here. Most are here to enjoy themselves and someone who moans can soon be replaced with a more pleasant conversation.
You can’t fine someone for not talking to you, it’s a bit like stamping your foot in a tantrum. Best thing to do is try, try, and try again. Don’t give up but be pleasant and don’t judge people.
This game is what you make it. Give it a chance.
You did the right thing joining the forum village. The residents here are the best in the world and are not stuck up at all. That is quite a sweeping statement you made there and you could offend people. You could even get a virtual punch in the nose. ;D ;D ;D
Try introducing yourself in the below topic. You will no doubt meet more of us and may make new friends.
Forum Homepage / Organisations & Events / Introduce yourself
http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/board,22.0.html
Good Luck and I hope your efforts are rewarded in kind.
oh yeah,
As a veteran of Second Life, the options in AChat are appallingly limited. It also appears that lots of women don't put in a smidgin of effort into making their avatars look like they weren't run over by an 18-wheeler truck and put back together by a child with cerebral palsy using super-glue. It's a bit difficult to compliment on anything in their anatomy that stands out when limited effort has been put in by the women.
That's rude, When in Rome ... and all that. You are getting a virtual punch in the nose.
;D ;D ;D ;D