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Announcements => Upgrades and newly added features => Topic started by: tom on December 14, 2009, 01:15:17 PM
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Please ask here regarding the relationship building functions.
Suggestions are also welcome.
Regards,
tom
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first of all, THANK YOU !!!!!! from my heart !
second, just one thing : how to promote someone from friend to lover ?
and third (the last) : how will it deal with the room ?
but, once again, THANK YOU !
Nicoquin
PS : is it normal that demands are not shown until you logout / login ?
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friend to lover: you have to cancel friendship and start the lover relationship
this has nothing to do with the room, if you have an idea please share with us!
ps.: ;D yes, demands will be checked after login only
tom
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good:
thank you for the different relationship options. that is good.
bad:
i do not think the member's friends, lovers & spouse(s) should be seen by the "public"...all of the other members. the list should be private to each member, just like the ignore list is.
i honestly don't care to see the friends, lovers & spouse(s) of the other members..at all.
and if a person has a relationship with another but shows it differently than what the other expects, i think it might cause problems.
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I agree with bobbler. Really nice work, but I really looked for a private list too.
I'd also like for a real practical use of it, being able to search for friends only or to somehow see when a friend comes online or at least seeing an icon next to their name or a different color on them in the search result list.
Right now it only seems like a way to boast to others and that's not what I was looking for at all.
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this has nothing to do with the room, if you have an idea please share with us!
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i think that it may be useful if you do the multi-people room (common friends can chat in a room or have 3some ... things like that - already talked about in a different thread)
or why not opening some scenes that need some $AChat (in a limited way, of course)
also, why not being able to give gifts to friends (some premium stuff sent to free friends)
a lot of things can be done !
it's a really great improvement for AChat !
Nicoquin.
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Thanks for it... greatful news!
a quickly problem... the arrows to change page disappear when you select a user and clik the buttons to view his/her lists... is impossible to view lists bigger than 7 users or change page of a search if the list is empty.
If I can propose something, make private the lovers and spouse lists only for the users present's in that lists... or add a ceck button in the request and in the accept form to make the name visible or unvisible to all...
Good work and go on!!!!
(now the multi room is more near than yesterday ;D ;D ;D)
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I agree. Make the list private ASAP. I don't want girls to go ignoring me or something because they saw some other woman in a different spot or higher than them on my list. I don't want trouble at all to be precise. I'm happy that the list is here finally but man... how did that slip past the board. lol. Its like saying, hey, come have access to everyone I know.
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a quickly problem... the arrows to change page disappear when you select a user and clik the buttons to view his/her lists... is impossible to view lists bigger than 7 users or change page of a search if the list is empty.
the arrows disappear only because the list is too short... if the list contains more than 7 rows the arrows will be there, or at least should be there ;D
tom
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I don't want girls to go ignoring me or something because they saw some other woman in a different spot or higher than them on my list. I don't want trouble at all to be precise.
Is not it possible then, that you don't put the girls on your list?
Or do you want to show to the girl that you are her lover without announcing that fact to others? An in the case, when you have more secret lovers, would you display the number of your lovers, or would you keep this number also private?
tom
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Hi, just want to say it's great that you guys take suggestions on board and this is a good addition but I agree that the lists should be private to the user.
the arrows disappear only because the list is too short... if the list contains more than 7 rows the arrows will be there, or at least should be there ;D
tom
I think maybe what Willyco is referring to is something I've come across (which would be unnecessary to fix if the lists are made private ;)). If I click to view a members friend, lover or spouse and they have none I get a message saying there was no search found and then the arrows have disappeared. I have to start a new search and go back to the beginning of the members list to change pages again.
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I think maybe what Willyco is referring to is something I've come across (which would be unnecessary to fix if the lists are made private Wink). If I click to view a members friend, lover or spouse and they have none I get a message saying there was no search found and then the arrows have disappeared. I have to start a new search and go back to the beginning of the members list to change pages again.
Yes is exactly that I mean...
to make the lists privates isn't possible to add a button in the profile editor to show or hidden the personal lists?
and why the friends lists are pubblic and the ignore list isn't it?
oh... another request... can be possible to use the new relationship-state corner to indicate when a use put us in the ignore list??? is boring discover it only saying something and receiv the ignore message... and to discover if we are removed from that list, we must repeat often a "test" message
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I don't want girls to go ignoring me or something because they saw some other woman in a different spot or higher than them on my list. I don't want trouble at all to be precise.
Is not it possible then, that you don't put the girls on your list?
Or do you want to show to the girl that you are her lover without announcing that fact to others? An in the case, when you have more secret lovers, would you display the number of your lovers, or would you keep this number also private?
tom
yes. all people on the list, friends, lovers & spouses, should be private to the members involved only.
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Tom, what person wants their other lovers shown to others? This should be kept private period. Just like how messengers and other places allow you to keep friends private, this should also be private. Its not a matter of being ashamed to let some know that she's my lover but doesn't mean you can go around saying you have 6 different lovers and they clash because they didn't know. Maybe you would tell your spouse or lover that you have various lovers but I'm sure a good amount of us would definitely not do that. Not irl, not online, and certainly, not on AChat.
That shouldn't have left the board... Make lists private with the next update or at least the option ASAP. ;)
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Ok, I see that I am the first girl to say anything about this list, so here goes. I don't mind people being able to see who my friends are. I do not like people seeing who my lovers are. If there was some way of putting the list as hidden that would be a very good thing in my opinion. I can see people getting their feelings hurt....and really this is supposed to be a fun game, not drama over where you are on a list :)
You guys do a great job, thanks for that.
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I completly agree with Brandy. The list is great and a good tool. And its ok that anyone can see who my friends are, but please not my lovers!
A girl should be able to have secrets (and guys too). So please do the lover and spouse list in private. The other option would be to ignore the lover and spouse option totally and ad all to your friends list. But this wouldnt have been the intention of tom and rab....
Ninni
(second girl, following bobblers request)
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thank u ninni
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Ninni....thanks i was feeling pretty outnumbered being here all alone :) and yes we all need our secrets, i was just going to add friends and all to lovers :D
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+1 girls, relationship must be private
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Ok, first sorry for being another male :P
I'll join in with Brandy's and Ninni's opinion. I'm not the kind of person who'll get hurt because someone else is on my friends' lovers list, but I can imagine some people who would. I support the idea of having different levels of relationships (even if I don't understand the need for "spouse" here), but I also support the fact that info such as lovers should be kept private and available only to the people concerned.
Let me still thank you for listening to our rantings guys, and try to implement them as best you can. ;D
P.S. Personal message to the girls: it's quality that matters, not quantity ;)
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I completly agree with Brandy. The list is great and a good tool. And its ok that anyone can see who my friends are, but please not my lovers!
A girl should be able to have secrets (and guys too). So please do the lover and spouse list in private. The other option would be to ignore the lover and spouse option totally and ad all to your friends list. But this wouldnt have been the intention of tom and rab....
Ninni
(second girl, following bobblers request)
*sign this 100%*
and because of the public view for this list -> i only add people to "friends" to keep it a bit more private
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Ok, first sorry for being another male :P
I'll join in with Brandy's and Ninni's opinion. I'm not the kind of person who'll get hurt because someone else is on my friends' lovers list, but I can imagine some people who would. I support the idea of having different levels of relationships (even if I don't understand the need for "spouse" here), but I also support the fact that info such as lovers should be kept private and available only to the people concerned.
Let me still thank you for listening to our rantings guys, and try to implement them as best you can. ;D
P.S. Personal message to the girls: it's quality that matters, not quantity ;)
I agree totally with the quality time ... more men should understand THAT rule :D
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Maybe you all skipped over me? I was the 1st to agree with bobbler and was dead set against my list being shown. I even replied Tom which I've yet to get a reply back to but it really doesn't need one. lol. I just would love my list hidden or the option to hide it. I love the addition nonetheless. Now if only I can get notification of when ppl come online oh and sounds for when I get msgs then I'd be pretty much set. lol
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Hi all,
I also think that it would be a great feature if all the lists remain hidden for other users. These lists could be a help for the users himself to overview his or her contacts and they could make it easier to keep in touch with someone.
So as I said before it would be great to make these lists private with one of the next updates (if possible).
Have a nice day!
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Hi there...
I would welcome the hidden friends lists too.
It is enough that i feel like a nymphomaniac, when i skip through it.
But i dont want to give the wrong impression to anybody ;D
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well it seems to be unanimous. make the lists private.
:)
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Wow you guys were fast!
Good job on the secret relationship option!
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Where is this option? I don't even see it...
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Master....when you add a new friend you have a box to tic to make it private ....so if you want people to be private you have to kick them off and re-add as private, but that works for me....i have one on my list i would gladly kick, i think he knows who im talking about :D
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Good job on the secret relationship option!
If you like it, we will keep it in this form. This way you can decide for each relationship if you want to keep it private or not.
tom
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May i ask if you could modify it so, that the existing list even can be modified?
It would be a lot of work for me to clean my friend list completly and then invite all off my friends again....
I really appreciate your new solution for this....but it is not enough for me....yeah i know....im not easy to please sometimes ;D
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May i ask if you could modify it so, that the existing list even can be modified?
It would be a lot of work for me to clean my friend list completly and then invite all off my friends again....
I really appreciate your new solution for this....but it is not enough for me....yeah i know....im not easy to please sometimes ;D
i agree with susanne on this
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I 2nd this notion. I dont want to have to do all that work again. An option to choose private by clicking on the person on your list would definitely be appreciated.
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May i ask if you could modify it so, that the existing list even can be modified?
sorry, I am afraid you will have to delete the existing relationships and build them again if you want to change their properties... ::)
tom
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how do i create a charictor in here?
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Hi rediver
you started AChat? In the middle you of the top you have a button "charackter editor"
If you are a non-premium user only some things are free.
Lover
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I just read the private/public discussion and its solution, but I'm actually curious about a different question: what makes someone your lover?
I'm pretty clear (for me) about the friends thing, also about the spouse (in my opinion: your life partner), but the lovers thing has me puzzled. I certainly don''t want everyone I have sex with here on my lovers list (oh boy no :)), but what should be the criterium then?
Yes I know: all the wise people here are gonna say that it depends on your own taste/judgement, and I agree. I'm just looking for ideas about it to answer the question for me as a person ;)
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Hi Carli,
you say, you don't want everyone you have sey with on your lovers list. You know, they even must not be on your friends list.
And actually this is the way: You have to find your own criteria.
But I would not make a big deaol of the difference between lover/friend. I tried to make a difference, using the number of dates. But, for me, that doesn't work. I had lots of fun with people of my friends' list and do not change them. I also had only one wonderful night and accepted to be a lover at once or asked my partner to be a lover.
And there is no difference here in AChat if somebody is your friend or your lover.
I don't know if I could really help you. Maybe you find your own criteria or you listen to your instinct in this special moment.
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Thanks Lover,
I know they don't have to be on my friends list. I only put people on my friends list that make me have a good time, sex or no, so I think we're on the same page there ;)
For now, I'll leave the lover thing open for the future until I figure out what (if anything) to do with it.
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@ Carli:
How about choosing someone as a lover if you *click* with them...both in chatting and sex. I think you will know the difference between a friend and a lover when that happens ;)
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What do the Blue Stars in the profile boxes mean?
Is it possible to add some BDSM features - cuffs, ropes, riding crops, etc?
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A blue star means this person is a premium member.
For your wishes and suggestions we have several threads here in this forum.
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I want to promote someone from friend to lover ... I cancelled our friendship to start beeing lovers but it says cancelling relation ... what should we do ? Thanks
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Both of you log out and back in. That's when it updates your status and does the actual canceling.
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We both did it ... But it's not working ... ????
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Have you checked your messages upon checking back in? There should be one where you acknowledge they ended the friendship or they acknowledge you did. Then you can resend.
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mmmh, hidden lovers and spouse.........it's good if don't u wann to make other peoples know about it and looks like it work good!
what i'll gonna suggest is about spouse relationship: what about something to celebrate it!? something like a special dress or room, ecc.... just for the first spouse meeting. plus, what about adding some stuff only for spouse!? this make people wanna have a good relationship and make thingh more interessing!
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Not sure whether this has been suggested but how about showing if your friends/lovers/spouses are on-line?
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Welcome AndreaJ :)
Don't know what you mean exactly. You can see if they are online if you click "Show your friends/lovers...."
Or do you mean something like a table when you login?
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Not sure whether this has been suggested but how about showing if your friends/lovers/spouses are on-line?
Welcome to the forum AndreaJ Hugs, kisses and a hearty welcome
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The sectioning of relationship types is wonderful. Having the options for it to be public or private per each one in the list is bothersome. Why not just give us a option in preferences for the following :
- Keep Relationships Private
And this would work on a global scale rather than a singular scale. As it functions now.
And all it would show to others is something like "This users relationships are private sorry"
- Refuse Lover & Spouse Requests
Which would only allow others to add you only as a friend. A Lover or spouse connection would have to be done by that user themselves.
Now in the case where both may have this option enabled. Telling the other to disable this so a connection can be made. Resolves it =)
And also for those of additional flavors. Subs/slaves would be nice to have their own category. I know I wouldn't consider myself simply as someones lover as a sub. Nor would I consider me a spouse. Simply for myself, speaking, I would be more than a lover but less than a spouse. And don't you dare put me in friends because of me not feeling I'm either -lol- So yes I'm suggesting a additional category for women like me =) Please and thanks! =)
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First time i read someone ask to add a sub/slave category! not sure, but maybe it's better add it into "Favourite games", like we ask for RP and.....uhhmmmmm....don't remember what it was! and u can just bluild a friend relationship. my opinion.......so, let's see what the others think of it!
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Welcome AndreaJ :)
Don't know what you mean exactly. You can see if they are online if you click "Show your friends/lovers...."
Or do you mean something like a table when you login?
Yes ( that sounds very good )or have them at the front of the search
Thank you for the welcome xx
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it could be nice if when we build friendship (friend/lover/spouse) , it dont need to logoff then relog to valid the friendship :)
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The sectioning of relationship types is wonderful. Having the options for it to be public or private per each one in the list is bothersome. Why not just give us a option in preferences for the following :
- Keep Relationships Private
And this would work on a global scale rather than a singular scale. As it functions now.
And all it would show to others is something like "This users relationships are private sorry"
- Refuse Lover & Spouse Requests
Which would only allow others to add you only as a friend. A Lover or spouse connection would have to be done by that user themselves.
Now in the case where both may have this option enabled. Telling the other to disable this so a connection can be made. Resolves it =)
And also for those of additional flavors. Subs/slaves would be nice to have their own category. I know I wouldn't consider myself simply as someones lover as a sub. Nor would I consider me a spouse. Simply for myself, speaking, I would be more than a lover but less than a spouse. And don't you dare put me in friends because of me not feeling I'm either -lol- So yes I'm suggesting a additional category for women like me =) Please and thanks! =)
Angelic, welcome to the forum and I hope you will post here lots!
I'm sure one of the older guardians of this forum will be able to put it better Angelic, but I am confused as to what you are asking for against what we already have.
- Keep relationships private... We already can, I can choose whether a friend is shown only to me or whether they are on my public "friends" list for all to see and that goes for lovers too........ Do you really need to advertise that you have friends and lovers that no-one else is allowed to know about?
- Refuse Lover & Spouse requests...... again I don't understand, no-one has to accept any friendship/lover/spouse requests, it has to be by mutual agreement. If you want to add someone as a friend, then tell them so and click the "start relationship" and tick (private in your case) friend. they have to accept it when it comes through and the same is true in reverse. If they are asking you to be a friend and you want it to be private, then you must tell them so, or make the first move yourself.
Regarding subs:
Currently we label ourselves on our profile. this is good because it should (it doesn't always) stop predators from trying to steal you as you are visibly belonging to someone. To have a separate category where our owners have a sub, means that we would have to have a category where they were our Mistress or Master and this sounds too complicated for the DEV team to be interested I think.
We could always start a "sub-club" where we could meet & discuss our lot.
That I would like.
xx
Blu
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Hi,
a few things that are bothering in the relationship system.
* You need to unfriend someone to "promote' him/her to Lover or spouse.
I would really prefer to be able to do that directly without uufriending him/her first....
* If you haven't add him with the private option, but want the private option to be activated, you need to delete him/her from the list then request relationshp again.
I would prefer to be able to change that without changing the relationsip.
It would be great if that could be implemented. To make it more dynamic. more easy to handle and manage.
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I think the reason is simple. If you ask for a relationship, the other person has to accept. If you now could change from friend to lover/spouse just by clicking a button, the other person would not be asked.
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@Lover
I didn't mean I want to change without letting te other user acknoledge it.
Just I think it's not user friendly to have first to remove it, then to re-add it....
I think that if you change the relationshipt status, you should not need to remove it first....
When you change, the request for the new status would be send to the other player, something like this
Patosh842 asked to change relationship from friends to lover, do you accept?
If the user accept, the relationship status is updated, else, the relationship status keep the same.
I just think we should not need to go through the deletion of friendship to go to lover status....
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It would be easier your way. I just think, it's not possible with the software they are using right now. Question is, how often do you change friends to lovers and spouses? I don't think it happens every day, so is it really important? IMHO, at the moment are other things to change and I know they are working on the next update
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It would be easier your way. I just think, it's not possible with the software they are using right now. Question is, how often do you change friends to lovers and spouses? I don't think it happens every day, so is it really important? IMHO, at the moment are other things to change and I know they are working on the next update
You make a good point. It's not that often. So this might not be the most urgent things.
It's just, when you first meet someone, i tend to add them as friends... then if we discuss, play,...I want to change to lovers...
There is definitely more urgent matters to be solved.
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I agree :)