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Title: The Gift
Post by: HisGirlOnly on January 20, 2014, 06:39:11 AM
I'd like to know why a girl cant gift her guy on Achat.

I hear story after story of a girl taking a guy into a room.
very sexy and/or romantic then telling him to gift or go.
Listen ladies when u ask for a gift in this way then its not a gift.
Its payment for services.
If that's a service u are offering, I think u should let the guy know it before you enter the room.

I think it would be sweet if we could give and receive real gifts in Achat, not just money.
maybe clothes or jewelry that can only be gotten as a gift.
or flowers u can use as scene extras. I don't know, but I'm sure we can personalize this gift idea
and hopefully make it less one sided
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Tom_Hardy on January 20, 2014, 07:18:40 AM
I agree that gifting as it is now is root for a bad culture here. It is kind of one sided and not really thought through I believe.
Your idea about beeing able to buy special achat gift items is very nice and maybe would help getting rid of the bad side of gifting here.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Tomi85 on January 20, 2014, 07:47:21 AM
Very good idea I agree with that, think it's much better if you can gift  jewelry and flower. ( don't forget the candy )  :)
This way you can make a girl feel more special.
But gifting not have to be the most important thing its nice but you have to know how you can make your girl special!  ;)
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: hentaiboy69 on January 20, 2014, 07:57:13 AM
First, let me give you all a big welcome, then let's answer you

We are asking for a different gifting system since the time i join AChat, in the far september of 2011 and at last we all know this sistem will never change (sooooo bad!) but it's nice too see new friends asking for it, cause it's a clear sign our idea was right and needed.
To explain why the actual sistem don't allow boys to have gifts: it's to prevent men to create a fake girl or shemale acount and then send money to their account! this is all.....

And at last, yes, here we don't support request of A$ for room......it really ruins the mood, specially when someone ask them to you after you enter room!
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: HisGirlOnly on January 20, 2014, 08:09:34 AM
ooo i see :)

but what about non A$ gifts
then guys can send them to their fake girl accounts and it wouldn't matter.

candy, flowers, teddies, balloons.... like the scene extras but only available as gifts?
or clothes that have to be gifted to you. you cant buy for yourself.

Then girls could buy special things for their male lovers to.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: ily1990 on January 20, 2014, 08:42:31 AM
Once again I'll bring up a PSHome system...There was a machine called Lockwood Gift Machine. Users bought "LkWd" tokens (W/ real currency) and then selected from a list of exclusive gifts. The gifted then received their item as if they bought it themselves. This would be good because then girls could send gifts to males.

Maybe make a separate currency for these items, have A$ and Gift$. Gift$ could only be used for buying gifts and couldnt be shared, the only way to obtain it is to buy it yourself. so its impossible for people to make fake F/S accs and gift themselves.

Yes I know i just confused EVERYONE >.< so here's a quick recap

A$
Stays the same as it is now. Can't be sent to males.
similar to sending someone an envelope with cash in it

"Gift$"
Can only be obtained with real world currency
Non-giftable
Used to purchase a specific item (possibly exclusive item) for another user, without sending them the actual currency.
Similar to sending someone a wrapped gift you bought them.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Lover on January 20, 2014, 11:11:57 AM
This question is an old one and hentaiboy answered the reason why its not changed. We have a long discussion here
Adult Game AChat > Discussions about AChat > Share your creative ideas  > Gifting - Poll Open
http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,2267.0.html

Also we asked for gifting items instead of just money. Flowers, candy, sweets, teddy bears... Perhaps least this we will get one day if we never get tired to ask.

@ ily: Your idea is new. There also is a difference in using A$, as for example profile pics just can be bought with real money, not A$ you have got as gift. I think we should tell A-Team about your idea.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Vaelene on January 20, 2014, 11:56:03 AM
Very good idea ily1990.  In fact Gift$ should be the only way to gift people.  Take gifting A$ completely out of the game.  Gifting Gift$ would still bring in extra money for the game like A$ does, and would stop all the sneaky little things people do with gifting A$. 
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: HisGirlOnly on January 20, 2014, 12:21:49 PM
Love your idea.
My only concern though would be the elitism that may cause.
Not all in Achat have the same financial resources and it is the diversity
of personalities here that makes the chats so interesting.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Vaelene on January 20, 2014, 01:56:50 PM
You have a point HisGirlOnly.  But it could be said at the same time that it should not be up to the guys to pay the premium fees of the girls and shemales.  All the guys have to pay for their own premiums, not really fair that they have to pay for the girls and shemales too.  This is one big thing that leads to all those girls begging and demanding gifts in the game.  Making others pay for their premiums. 

And also leads to so many women and shemales profiles with gift this, gift that, gift gift gift all over their profiles.  As well as selling pictures and videos, and all the fraud that leads to.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Tomi85 on January 20, 2014, 03:34:17 PM
Same things happens with me too, whan I got a messag " Hi gift " sound like an order or thay ask after whan I go in room and if I give a gift than thay are gone and dont see them no more.
It feels like you been robbed  :(
Happens with me a few time so thats why I dont like to gift only who I know
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Vaelene on January 20, 2014, 04:18:11 PM
Yes Tomi85 that can happen sadly.  Sorry to hear you had some troubles. 
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: ily1990 on January 20, 2014, 09:07:28 PM
Quote from: Vaelene on January 20, 2014, 01:56:50 PM
You have a point HisGirlOnly.  But it could be said at the same time that it should not be up to the guys to pay the premium fees of the girls and shemales.  All the guys have to pay for their own premiums, not really fair that they have to pay for the girls and shemales too.  This is one big thing that leads to all those girls begging and demanding gifts in the game.  Making others pay for their premiums. 

And also leads to so many women and shemales profiles with gift this, gift that, gift gift gift all over their profiles.  As well as selling pictures and videos, and all the fraud that leads to.

It's pathetic, and anyone who does this is foolish. They're free on Google (which is probably where the majority get these images)! "Big titty blonde" BOOM! 9999999999999999999999999999999 results! Why pay for something when it's free? Sure I get that it may feel rewarding and all...but its not like this is your girlfriend sending you these like "Get home already, I'm waiting :) " Its some bimbo (or guy, possibly) trying to play you.

Although it is nice to receive a gift from a lover, I do feel the game would benefit from removing it and replacing it with my Gift$ idea. Less guys would make a second account for shits and giggles, and all the crummy people that do that stuff would disappear. However, I doubt that they'll do that, as it would probably hurt profitability.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: ily1990 on January 20, 2014, 09:09:00 PM
Heck, it would be even nicer to receive a gift they specifically picked out. Who ever heard of a guy winning a girl over by bringing her CASH on valentines day?
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Vaelene on January 21, 2014, 01:38:53 AM
I agree Ily, on both points.  But as you said they will probably not remove it for gift$ do to profits for the game.  Greed will win out every time. 

Though they would still have to buy gift$ with money, so that would still put money into the game.  And those who scam guys into gifting A$ for pictures and videos would then have to pay for their own premium.  So that would bring more money in as well.  As well as cutting down on a great deal of scams on AChat. 

These all seem like good things for both players, and the game gods.  Players deal with less scamming, and the game gods still make extra money.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: hukk on January 21, 2014, 08:16:41 AM
So they won't change it..because achat is greedy. *thinks*

Well, if you can't beat em...join em'. Make a girl or shemale avatar and just room with girls. You'll get yours for free now. Only issue I see is another guy also pretending to be a girl/s in disguise in order to have free sex like you. Talk about an awkward moment. Other then that, problem solved.

(http://i.imgur.com/sg017lt.gif)
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Lover on January 21, 2014, 09:02:12 AM
@ Ily: I have added your idea to our "Collated Ideas" topic

Adult Game AChat > Discussions about AChat > Share your creative ideas  > Collated Ideas For Improving the Game
http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,2129.0.html
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Covems on January 21, 2014, 09:21:59 AM



Personally, I get a gift everytime I meet Amy.  It's not a monetary or material gift, it's better than that.  It's a spiritual connection... the Cheyenne have a word for it "k' hes' ma" which I've corrupted into "Kharma"...   I'm not saying that it wouldn't be nice to receive a material gift from her, I'm just saying that even only chatting with her is gift enough for me.

I can understand AChat's business model with the status quo, and I'm okay with it.  In fact, I used it a couple of times when I was very new to AChat and not many would give me the time of the day, let alone room.  It grew cold though once I realized that it was my A$ they wanted... and not me, I found more fun with Robot Girl.

So... if others want to gift and receive gifts in exchange for services, that's okay with me... it's that money that goes into development which give us more poses and, of course, the elf costumes.




Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: ily1990 on January 21, 2014, 09:25:25 AM
Quote from: Lover on January 21, 2014, 09:02:12 AM
@ Ily: I have added your idea to our "Collated Ideas" topic

Adult Game AChat > Discussions about AChat > Share your creative ideas  > Collated Ideas For Improving the Game
http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,2129.0.html

Glad to hear, thanks. I hope they seriously consider it!
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Vaelene on January 21, 2014, 08:19:41 PM
*Slaps forehead and walks off.*
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: HisGirlOnly on January 22, 2014, 01:14:53 AM
gets a crush on amy's guy. sooooooooo sweet, lucky girl  :)
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: TG_Chaser on February 22, 2014, 05:57:19 PM
I think the problem is that it's a little to convenient for someone to make a girl avatar and live off gifts. Ideally we'd want every premium paying money, and I think some would if they lost the option to live off gifts. The real benefit IMO is that the "clutter" on the F/S search lists would be gone, the paying males would have an easier time enjoying the game if 3/5 girls weren't trying to trick them.
Aside from that they can pay 50A$ and gift a rose or something if they just want to show affection like that
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Lover on February 22, 2014, 06:43:40 PM
I have hope that ilys idea (and similar ones we had) will be implemented. Giving flowers, drinks, sweets, toys... as gift would reduce chances for whores. Also it would increase member experience. Always waiting for a new dress just to give A$ as gift is boring, but a "real" gift for a special reason or just because you like it will be wonderful.
Though as long as we can give A$ (and this never will change) there always will be a market for whores.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: TG_Chaser on February 24, 2014, 08:11:55 PM
but the fact that theres so many fake premiums out there (i call them fake because they stay premium for 3 days and then ask for gifts all week) is a problem
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: FoxyRoxxy on February 24, 2014, 09:46:06 PM
I  have a easy solution  IGNORE ! ..Why get upset over  others   when you cant   change them  or there behaviors.  To me  on the gift   the giver  should send the gift  to  the  person   what ever  it   clothing  or flowers  easy and  simple . 

We can not control others  for there  action's  but we can find peace  every easy  just  ignoring.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Abraxis on April 30, 2014, 06:13:46 PM
I have seen a few who say "what is the problem with gifts?"  they need to be directed here.  I agree that ut is one sided, and the way it is implemented, it is even directly discriminatory.  I also see some who say men=gift.  Truly shocking behaviors well and generally embarrassing to have a monetary value placed on life
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: TG_Chaser on April 30, 2014, 10:54:44 PM
Quote from: Abraxis on April 30, 2014, 06:13:46 PM
I have seen a few who say "what is the problem with gifts?"  they need to be directed here.  I agree that ut is one sided, and the way it is implemented, it is even directly discriminatory.  I also see some who say men=gift.  Truly shocking behaviors well and generally embarrassing to have a monetary value placed on life
you get scammed many times if you fall for it too... my advice is to never gift a girl you're meeting for the first time, just long term friends who ask nicely
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Abraxis on May 01, 2014, 01:21:36 AM
Quote from: TG_Chaser on April 30, 2014, 10:54:44 PM
Quote from: Abraxis on April 30, 2014, 06:13:46 PM
I have seen a few who say "what is the problem with gifts?"  they need to be directed here.  I agree that ut is one sided, and the way it is implemented, it is even directly discriminatory.  I also see some who say men=gift.  Truly shocking behaviors well and generally embarrassing to have a monetary value placed on life
you get scammed many times if you fall for it too... my advice is to never gift a girl you're meeting for the first time, just long term friends who ask nicely

Always sound advice!  I had already decided to ignore them. as well as those who expect to have their premiums payed for them by others. plenty of room on my ignore list for people such as these.  ;D
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: FoxyRoxxy on May 01, 2014, 07:50:36 PM
The meaning of the  gift to me.



God has  give gifts to us  way before  our time  they are  from him  so he buts it  in the  hearts of
 other's  and at that right time  he knows when to give it.   A gift  should be given  when it comes  from
the heart   and when that  gift is given it is  from him  giving it to you ...
     ;D
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: TG_Chaser on May 03, 2014, 08:46:49 PM
Wow roxy... it was completely unnecessary to bring religion into this. :D

I'm sure Thor and Odin have their own opinions on wenches who want gifts just for being special little snowflakes.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: FoxyRoxxy on May 03, 2014, 09:14:58 PM
It is my opine TG   why  do you want to  dictate my opine now

Don't  I have a  right  to give my own opine Tg

And what makes them wenches   just  because you say they are

It really is very simple Ignore Them   ;)


And  if you open a topic  its open for discussion I am sure you understand this .
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: TG_Chaser on May 04, 2014, 08:25:48 AM
you have a right to your opinion, you do not have the right to not be criticized on your opinion.

wench was probably a polite term for them, where I come from if you have sex for money you're a whore. the problem is that whores on here are absolutely not worth anything they charge, as sex is free and kind of the point on achat. its basically a scam that achat lets go on because it makes them more money (men buy more A$ to send as gifts)

I was trying to advise Abraxas not to bother with the hookers and only gift friends who ask nicely. I don't see why you needed to input god in that convo, especially after the convo we had before.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: maron211177 on May 04, 2014, 11:40:22 AM
Fact is, we are all adults.
If someone demands something for sex and the other participant is willing to give it, its called a business deal not whoring.
Both parties are legal and in their right minds, means well aware of what they are doing.
It´s none of our business what ppl agree on and to judge them because of it.
Just a little reminder.... it´s the oldest business that exists and thank GOD for that because our world would be an even worse place as it is now.
I have a lot of respect for women who can actually do it and keep our planet a bit safer with it.


Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: TG_Chaser on May 04, 2014, 05:19:55 PM
also worth noting that without a credit card payment on premium the admin has no easy way of verifying the players age...
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: hentaiboy69 on May 05, 2014, 01:52:13 AM
We can talk about what a gift is for days, it's not that the point here.......

What we need to talk about gift is about to find an alternate way who can reduce drastically (well, we can hope it do!) the amount of girls and shemales who bother us in AChat begging for A$ just to room with you. And i think the best solution is to have the choise to send flowers, chocolate and other similar stuff to our friends, lovers or spouse......
how to do it!? we can simply buy them with A$, of course, but we need a "Send gift" menù or something similar!


Aaaanyway, no metter what.......i got three big gifts here in AChat:

At least, this is what's really important for us, here in AChat......find good friends and lovers! and the best place to find them is here in the forum!
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Brandybee on May 05, 2014, 02:42:06 AM
quote from HB   

"At least, this is what's really important for us, here in AChat......find good friends and lovers! and the best place to find them is here in the forum!"



Hear  hear, my friend.     Drinks all round -   Cheers.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: sylque on July 03, 2014, 06:29:15 AM
I agree that gifts should be able to be items.  If they are worried about men abusing the system, then only make items giftable, rather than A$.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: Rakas on November 20, 2016, 02:30:11 PM
It is very nice idea HisGirlOnly
Send flowers as gifts is great idea , i agree, hope achat do it

(http://i.imgur.com/Tpv86IH.png)
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: FoxyRoxxy on May 04, 2017, 10:18:50 AM
A gift is a gift  should gifts be taken back  bec to me when  you get a gft  iit belongs to  the person 

You  should not give  gifts and  then be taken away  ...   

the  this system is all   fucked up!>:( >:( >:(
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: BillyBlueeye on May 04, 2017, 01:00:27 PM


We discussed this theme already several times

for example look here:
http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,4296.0.html
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: FoxyRoxxy on May 05, 2017, 08:42:03 AM
thanks for the link Billy

I  am saying  it should not be taken away or back or in my case removed from me ..
for whatever  reason with  out a good   explanation... there is more to  this
 talking about  gift   system Ethics
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: SugarMan123 on April 22, 2019, 05:31:42 AM
Could someone please clarify, would it be Ok, if a mature woman, which is my lover, send A$ "gifts" to other girls from her account to pay for my sex with these girls? Can I be banned for that? She doesn’t like threesomes. So I’m talking about my sex with these girls.

Sorry, probably, this is an old topic. Thanks in advance.
Title: Re: The Gift
Post by: zuzannah on April 23, 2019, 04:14:55 AM
 
  Wow, this is an old thread.

  Do what you like Sugarman.  It's no one elses business but your own, your Lovers and the ones she gifts.  I must say though, that your Lover in question is Very understanding about your needs for threesomes.

  As for getting banned for it.  If people were banned for gifting then this place would be almost empty.  Whether it be for these girls or just gifting a friend for a new outfit, for example.  The Achat team thrives on this, which is what it is all about.  Of course this is just my opinion of this subject.

  And don't worry for starting this thread up again.  It's what the forum is for.