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Discussions about sex => Woman with man in AChat => Topic started by: Vitesse on January 20, 2014, 11:57:39 AM
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I'm not naming names, or giving away his secret, but I just had a great time with a new friend in AChat. As soon as I saw his first note to me in general chat, I didn't hesitate to invite him to my room. Without giving away the details, my sexy friend started telling me a story, and I knew immediately I wanted to play along.
This approach depends on a common language of course, but wit and imagination were also needed.
I like role-play and fantasy, so here's to the sex organ between our ears, and to great AChat players.
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I agree completely ,getting a interesting message always gets my interest rather than the normal Hi you want to fuck , so yes guys n girls exercise the grey matter a little bit and you never know what it may lead to :)
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I've begun to be much more creative with my openings. Gone are the days of just *handing her a red rose*. My intro's range from the absurd (a marching band suddenly pops in, playing loudly 'This girl is on Fire' by Alicia Keys, while spelling out your name on a huge green field.) to suave (I leisurely make my way over to you, while holding a glass of martini in each hand. I pass you one and take a seat right next to you without saying a word). It's fun and causes you to think up more ideas on how to next break the ice.
P.S welcome Miran! Good to see you dropping by the forum. Big hugs and kisses. Mwuuah.
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If this is meant to be advice topic, than i might suggest one thing:
Never forget that Achat is not about pennises, it's about brains :D
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like an rp opening? anyone have an example? I feel like id set up some creepy setting if i tried
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Here's some RP ideas -
Forum Homepage > Discussions about sex > Erotic Stories > RP-suggestions Database http://www.funnyadultgamesplay.com/forum/index.php/topic,1502.0.html
All you need is a little imagination.
You could also try Virtual dating, which is my favourite.
Pretend it is a real date, use a past experience or your imagination of a date you would like, and treat the lady / guy accordingly... ;D
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Brandybee,
Thank you for pointing out this roleplaying thread. I will be busy for quite a while thinking up sexy new scenarios to play with all this inspiration to work with :D
Of course, if anyone wants to start the story off first, then that's even better ...
Vi
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I've tried some of that, just kind of doing some prologue for a mini sex story to set up some rp... I guess we're in the women and men thread, but as someone who primarily goes for TGs I think its a waste of energy (unless i spam the same story to a handful of people?) because the majority of them don't like guys but are incredibly unclear about it. so I'll spend this time thinking up an idea and typing it out, and they'll reply "have gifts?", "no men" or wont reply most of the time.
"Hi, how are you?" or "Hi, I'm Nate, nice to meet you" is a lot easier to spam... What do you guys think? write something out in wordpad after I sign on and just copy and paste it until someone replies?
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Well, I might not be able to give you a full how-to, but I can tell you what doesn't work. I've only been here a couple of days, and I've already seen this kind of thing a lot.....
'Wanna fuck' or 'come suck my cock' or 'nice ass, want a dick in it?'. I've been bombarded by messages along those lines, and they don't work, we'll, at least on me. Those cold invites from people who can't be bothered to even say hi first, we'll, that doesn't work either.
And no, I don't need a passage right out of a romance novel either, though it would be interesting to see :). What has worked on me? Some pleasant conversation, which naturally leads to more. 'Hi, how are you doing today?' Can go a long way...unfortunately so many guys seem to message all at once, and it really is hard to have multiple conversations going on this program.
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'Wanna fuck' or 'come suck my cock' or 'nice ass, want a dick in it?'. I've been bombarded by messages along those lines, and they don't work, we'll, at least on me. Those cold invites from people who can't be bothered to even say hi first, we'll, that doesn't work either.
lol...Some of those would work on me.
At least it's direct, and shows that the guy knows what he wants.
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Then they wounder why women don't have sex with then . Not all women are cheep
some do like to be respected .I like a gentleman to respect me as a lady even if its a friendly chat.
And I am not looking .
I have My Gentleman that I know respects me and loves me so Blessed :)
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Here is the right way to have a woman in your bed on here :
STEP 1 : Présentation
Hello YYYY , i'm XXXX how are you ...... ( feel free to implement any compliment that come in your mind , avoid "babe" "baby" "bb" because some women dont like be called like this )
STEP 2 : Chatting
You should try to talk with her in a way she like ( just say "Hello , want to fuck" have few chances to work with many women )
STEP 3 : Invitation
Go to the profile page of the targeted woman and select "invit" , wait few seconds . If you dont enter the room no need to insist , it mean she dont want .
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It has always been within my nature to treat women who i meet on achat with respect and try to get to know them first. In my experiance, the best sex comes from someone you are compatable with. Not just the odd flirt and fumble. As advice I would say really get to know the woman you're interested in. They are humans too, not pieces of meat for our pleasure!
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Guys, telling us you're horny doesn't help. First of all it's redundant (you're a guy, so I already know you're probably horny). But when you're talking to me, you shouldn't just be looking for someone random to fuck. I'm smart, funny, beautiful and sexy. If you're chatting with me it should be because you want to fuck me, not just because I'm there so I'll do.
I know most guys are just on because they're turned on, but most girls are here to be turned on, so put some effort in!
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$$$$$ Give her a million dollars $$$$$
I like people who make me laugh,
good humor gives me laughter.
Please keep telling more on how to get women in to bed ;D
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lol, Roxy......if you give her a million dollars, be sure to do it after you have an hot date with her or she probably run away with the money!
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Hmmm ... you can give me any millions you like , its not what will make me in your bed ;D . If you give me 1 million , i will probably buy a better computer and be very busy on internet lol ;D
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I think, it is not so hard to get us to bed if you are creative and funny.. Just do something unexpected for a good warm up (I am really tired of seeing things from Worst Pick up Lines Ever) //sometimes million dollars works too :P
(Sharing good songs would work on me also ::) )
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There is also the muscular method, man must use only poses where the girl is attached and/or handcuffed :D
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I find being open and honest helps allot. and even sometimes waiting, I have had a few women who have just asked me directly, no long chat, just right to the point. I suppose it is all down to the individual and their needs at the time in some cases. I appreciate both the directness and just being asked personally. :)
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lol, Roxy......if you give her a million dollars, be sure to do it after you have an hot date with her or she probably run away with the money!
that will never happen HB I am Hetro hehehe but I am sure it will help some men on here
;) did you hear that guys pay after :P
thinking on opening a new topic men learn to talk to lady's
some of your pick up are not so good .
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Last night I got a completely random room invite. She was someone I had seen but never engaged. So I accepted it. We had a great time together. After while we were in Lover's Siesta cuddling I asked her why I was chosen. She said she liked my pic on my profile as well as what I had written, "This girl could be you. All you need to do is invite me."
She saw it as a challenge. She was expecting someone who was boring and wouldn't engage with her. Two things I am not. She was happy I proved her wrong and said she will be looking for me again.
It's just that simple.
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I believe that the best is love easy way romance and passion help but if you have love
that is the best ..
then you have the one nights Sexual chemistry that comes and go's
I stick with love that has Sexual chemistry passion , lust , Sexual pleasure, seduction, desire ,satisfaction,
Romantic and has more meaning my preference ...I get this and so much more with my love ;D I am a lucky girl
I want it all and I have it with the man I love .... I feel Blessed to have it and love my man.
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Humour, wit and being in the same phase of the game...
As to the rest, I guess you make it up as you go along...
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Greetings to all
I'm not used to write on here often, but some threads are intriguing, so here I am.
My first thought is about the reason we all connect in a place like that: basicly, we want to make our sexual fantasy virtually alive.
I's sexual, since it's about erotism and sex, but not always leads to genital stimulation: sometimes I've been in room just enjoying the mind's travel, no need for else.
There is such a wide variety of attitudes, wishes, fantasies among males and females that it's hard to make statements about standard males or females, like "males are always horny" or "females love seduction".
I'm in AChat since years so far, I've seen many changes into the women's approach to the game: from straight-to-the-point, to romance, from RP to gift-seekers.
Every person urges for a different approach and the bigger challenge is to find out the most effective for that particular individual, also considering what are my personal needs and wishes at the moment.
So, I don't trust any formulas into getting a woman in room: even the shamed brutal approaches every now and then could work, with the right kind of lady, if you are that kind of man, and I figure that many guy still try the "suck my cock" line just because sometimes it works.
The point is to syntonize with the person you aim to: which means reading her profile, trying to collect hints by the suit she choose to wear, the way she shows her AV or the pic she posts and then roll your dices trying to match with the resources of your brain, senses and mood.
Last, but not least, it gets hard when 90% of the ladies post gift requests... which - for me- is the most clever turn off for any sexual arousal I could feel.
Kisses to the ladies.
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I would say it begins with respect. there are only so many ladies online at a time, and only so many of them share the same language with the men. I have been told by women on here that they are constantly being bombarded by messages from men and invites as well. If I send a message to someone, I try to say more than just "hello" but that's not always possible. sometimes the woman's profile is so blank there doesn't seem to be anything to start a conversation going other than "hello, how are you?" or some variation of that. But, I am learning that those are the profiles to avoid, as are the ones where we don't share the same language. That said, once a conversation has begun, respect more than anything seems to impress. There are so many rude men on here, that when the ladies meet a gentleman such as myself they seem to enjoy my ability to carry on an actual conversation, and magically my simple jokes seem to take on a bonus effectiveness. More than a few times a woman has asked me to come to her room just because she is tired of being harassed by a rude guy but still wants to continue talking with me. And sometimes they just want to talk in the room, and that's fine too. But other times they want to go to bed ... and yeah, those are the best times.
So my advice, be kind, be polite, show respect, and if the lady doesn't respond then don't bother her. She is either A) busy, B) under attack by many jerks and so in a bad mood and you really don't want to feel her wraith, or C) she doesn't have enough personality to be worth your time or have fun in the room (which is what all those blank profiles are about I think).
Other than that, have fun.
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So my advice, be kind, be polite, show respect, and if the lady doesn't respond then don't bother her. She is either A) busy, B) under attack by many jerks and so in a bad mood and you really don't want to feel her wraith, or C) she doesn't have enough personality to be worth your time or have fun in the room (which is what all those blank profiles are about I think).
Other than that, have fun.
I couldn't agree more to this. I my limited experience, respect and don't pester them. If they want to talk they will if not then move on to someone who will talk or can speak the language.
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For sure, your post is interessing, Roxxy.......but you know.....it can't be done on ACHat! We are talking about here, not real life...anyway, thanks for the nice advice you give us!
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Imaginative role play
You're Welcome
hentaiboy69
I was thinking Role play
this is what we can only do here imagen how to get some one to bed
maybe I am in the wrong place to post this so sorry..
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maybe I am in the wrong place to post this so sorry..
not the wrong place, Foxxy......you just need to explain you are talking about an RP when you write it, that's all
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Honestly, the thing that works best for anybody approaching me is ready? They Read my Profile. Shocking yes? I cant count how many times somebody asks me a question and I thought "Well if you read my profile you would already know that" Also a greeting that goes beyond Hi or Hey. Tell me you are interested in forming a bridge and not just rapid firing hellos into the night hoping for a response. Just my 2 cents.
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I've only been here a little more than a week, but I think it's safe to say I've already had my share of 'hello - wanna fuck's. A particularly stingy one was a guy who I agreed to go to a room with, to see what he was like, and when he just wanted me to blow him instantly and I asked him to slow down a bit, he just left. But hey ... there are so many horny guys out there, it seems, who just wanna get off immediately and who's apparently able to without much foreplay or anything. Fine. I believe it's just what it is in a game like this ... and sometimes in realspace, too, hehe - in fact more often than not perhaps? Okay, maybe the guys I meet when I go out are a little more polite but if they just want to get into my pants, it can quickly devolve into some 'worst pick-up-lines' ever stuff bc they are so needy or whatever.
Anyway, I think we just have to accept that that's how the 'A-discoteque' is, in general, and then do our best to be patient and open for partners who actually want to chat a bit first and warm up, if that's what we want (sometimes it isn't, right? ;-). I guess that's my strategy at least. I dunno if it's too ... well, timid? I guess time will have to tell.