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Discussions about sex => Everything about sex and love => Topic started by: Chantall on May 23, 2014, 05:37:45 PM
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Hey there Achat
I doubt this is the right Place for this but well, better here than nowhere.
Since a 2 -3 weeks a user , calls himself the 'God/King' of AChat bothers me and My Spouse in a very bad way.
I saved all my Conversations with him, in case i have to Prove it. My Spouse, Cateyes999, gets horrible messages from him or his 'friends'.
She is already Scared to come online cuz she never knows what he will do next, she even thinks about leaving achat. I have tried to talk to him in a nice and polite way. But no chance, he always talks about Revange, i have no idea for what but well. He told me he enjoys to treat people bad and i guess that says enough about him. He called me several times a Whore, i laughed about it many times but now i reached a point where its just enough.
He told me i will get banned from Achat cuz he wants it, i have no idea whats coming next, so i decided to write about it here. I sent Two mails to achat support already to make sure they know whats going on. He says we all have to respect him here but well, i cant respect someone who is treating people this way for fun or crazy stuff in his head. If there is more, I'll write more about it. Just don't believe any crap of him, he's... well... as i said.. im polite... so he's a bit 'crazy'. I bet he will know about my post, so if i get banned you guys know why, lol.
We are all here for Fun and to meet nice people from all over the World, so i wont allow him to ruin this for anybody of us.
You all take care, have fun and enjoy your days :)
Kisses, Chantall.
Moderated by Brandybee. Players name removed to prevent embarrassment.
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Hello Chantelle,
Welcome to Forum.
I am sorry you are having such annoyances in the game. I do know of the player you speak of and have spoken to him several times.
If a player is harrassing you, then you have done the right thing in reporting it through Support. Your spouse needs to as well.
You need to copy all your chat logs and abusive messages, outline your complaints to Achat and forward them all to " Support" which can be accessed on the top bar above where " Forum" "Shop" etc...
Achat will investigate and deal with the member accordingly.
They will not tolerate on line bullying or harassment and it is against TOS.
Forum, however, is not the place to name and shame offenders, nor to seek revenge in this way.
The Moderators will not allow personal spats to overspill onto here.
It is only in exceptional circumstances do we allow users to be named, examples are :-
* when there has been a flood of multiple attacks on a mass of members, stating things that are clearly not true,
* warning people of scams that are circulating the game
This list is not exhaustive and we will judge every case on its merits.
This however, albeit annoying is not for publication. The correct procedure is outlined above and I urge anyone who is abused in this manner to report in the manner outlined above or to one of the Moderators who can assist in reporting it or trying to resolve the matter.
I strongly suggest , you put this player on ignore and any of his alternative accounts who contact you.
Report all of the accounts who abuse you.
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I am very sure this is the same guy I just made a post about. I have sent mail to AChat staff and also have pictures of his chat. But as it seems this guy does this all the time and gets away with it I doubt it will be helped now. AChat staff seems not to care about abusive members running around playing "king" on the game.
SO! Every player out there that has had this crazy "king" = "baby" try playing dom of the AChat jungle with them let's all get together and take care of him ourselves. AChat wont help, this guy knows it, and uses it to do as he pleases. I say it sounds like time to knock this little boy off his over sized ego butt.
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Good Morning,
New Day, New Trouble.
I just logged in this morning and he was already there talking to me. This time i'll show what was said, cuz im getting so tired of this Crap. Here...
THE KING: Did you talk with ( he told me a name i better not call here ) about me?
Chantall : no, i didn't. Why?
THE KING: Then cateyes999 did.
THE KING: Now i sent a message to brandybee about cateyes999.
THE KING: I want her banned.
Chantall : this will not happen
THE KING: She sent bad messages about me to my secrets spouses
Chantall : she did nothing
THE KING: She always send bad messages to people about me.
Chantall : no... she didnt... sasha does not care for you.. dont you understand that? She just wants to be left alone.
THE KING: Now i send a message to achat'staff because i want her banned from achat.
Chantall : you are crazy... lol... bye
THE KING: Crazy?
THE KING: Now i report it to achat staff.
Chantall : listen... i already have done that :) goodbye
THE KING: You and cateyes999 will be banned from achat as i did with x_rachel_x.
Chantall : goodbye
THE KING: Promise.
Chantall : goodbye
So.. if each day on achat has to start with this, well then i don't know.
Cateyes sent messages to his 'secret' spouses? She just wants to be left alone and enjoy achat! How shall she know about his spouses if they are SECRET!?!? Unbelievable.
And Btw. This is not my kind of 'Revange'... I've been told to wrote about it onto the Forum and as long as this keep to happen, i will do it. I just want him to stop, that's all.
MODERATED TO CHANGE THE NAME TO "THE KING" TO PREVENT ANY EMBARRASSMENT. Brandybee.
Please change the names if you publish here. Send the original chatlog and offending user name into "Support" Forum is not a platform for extending any personal spats here.
NB x_Rachel_x was not banned by this user. She was banned for abusing other members in multiple messages.
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@Mrs_Wife: They are not the same guy.....
@Chantall: sorry for this......he is a guy who make trouble with several users from long time and we already know him. All i can suggest you, is to put him on ignore....as your spouse have to do too!
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Oh wow, this guy has the same deal. How insane, does this game have that many of these guys that AChat staff can do nothing about? Just let them go free?
But my statement is the same, any of you out there who has either of these guys or the alts trying to bully you speak out. We can stomp these people out. Since the staff is not able. No reason to let these kids get away with playing bully.
This is a game for us all to have fun, let's take it back from people like this.
MODERATED BY BRANDYBEE. Please do not name offenders here. Send your complaints to the Moderators or Support wuth copies of your offending logs and messages.
You are right. We all work together to stamp out this online bullying but The Moderators will not allow it to spill out on to Forum. Thank you.
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Ok awesome to hear Brandybee. So what is being done about these guys you know about and are watching? Anything? Or just watching them do what ever they please as they bully the games members? Not trying to sound mean asking that, completely just asking is all.
From the facts I have seen, these guys you know are being a bully to players. You are watching them. Reports about them, logs, screen captures, and even an off site web page trashing players by name with these guys names on it, have all been sent into staff. Yet nothing is being done and they are left free to keep doing what ever they please.
So if the AChat staff can not, or wont, do anything about it what are the players supposed to do to stop it? Please do not say ignore as they have many accounts to keep coming at us. And will keep making alts to keep harassing.
If we, the players are to take this on ourselves as no one else can. And we, the ones being harassed have to follow rules that these guys do not. How are we to stand up to this threat?
I am not trying to be disrespectful to any mods here, am very truly sorry if it sounds that way.
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Mrs_Wife, you are new so you can't know, but me, Brandy,Lover and Bear are not member of the AChat stuff, but users like you who had the chance to help with modding the forum.
After this, let me tell you we have reported this type of abuse to AChat and we do it almost everyday. Now, we are waiting for their answer to our messages. I promise, when we know something we tell you and to the others
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I have had my run in with this guys and a few others let me tell you that Achat will take care of it
as soon as they can they do give us a Ignore button and let me tell you it dose help as soon as you see trouble
ignore them all them every new acct they make, and also ignore new users that helps a lot they will get tired of it
and move on.There is no stopping fools from being fools but you can avoid there foolishness ..
Achat is fun you just will learn to ignore a lot ..The forum is a great place to have to have fun I love it in here
hope you give it a try
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I just posted this in another spot but will here too. The ignore does not always work. If someone does this often they know how to get around it. I kept getting messages from people on ignore and did not understand how. As it turns out if you ignore someone, they can ignore you too then take you off ignore and it takes them off your ignore as well. So just a heads up.
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Thank you for the info Mrs Wife
I had the same with this people you are talking about they will go away when they see that it don't bother you
I like you to know that its sad to let them bothers you Achat can do the best they can .
they cant control the actions of this fool's being fool's I know its hard being new
and its a pity you'r letting a few control your emotions ..
The forum is a great place to start I would say maybe you give it a try and post to make a difrentses
Don't expect a miracle overnight but you can hope
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I can certainly understand your frustration and anger with these very sick individuals (possibly one with multiple identities) but please don't judge all males here by the actions of the very few. I am a newbie here but have found all those I have had interactionms with to be nice and friendly not to mention "sharing".
These very sick individuals thrive only when you are paying attention to them and as hard as it is to do ignoring them works best if they cannot get the "attention" they seek from you they will move on and hopefully to some other site (hey we can hope)
I whish you and your friend catseye a happy and fun time here do it just to get up his skirt lol
see ya round the traps sometime *kiss
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Well I hope your right AusWoody. But again has not been a very few, has been many and most. I just posted this in another spot, but I think I am getting all this negative attention from not wanting to have sex with just anyone. I think since my profile had on it that I was here for my husband, most the nice guys do not message me out of respect. While all these not so nice guys message me to bash me for not being slutty.
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I am also exepriencing the same from, i assume, the same person/persons that you are referring to. I just wanted to know that you are not alone.
I have found the best way to deal with him is to not give him the attention that he is looking for. Ignore, ignore each new profile.Never respond to him and do not log into his blog. He can see when you do. This person needs to be isolated. I expect that I will appear once again on his blog, but he cant do anything to hurt me. No matter what he says, my true friends will understand and know me for who I am. He has threatened to post my private chat logs on his blog. But he edits then anyway so they are not a true reflection of anything.
I love Achat and I have made some realy good friends here. I have been here for almost a year and I refuse to let anyone spoil what I have gained.We all just have to tough it out for a little while. If we all stick together, we are much stronger than one individual. Good luck to us all. :-*
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Have yet to see any good in the game. But will see as the month goes. Right now not sure about putting money into a game that has no rules to keep this crazy stuff from going on. Other games out there like this we have tried with none of this silly stuff. One of those might be a better choice. One has much more to do, and another had a little more to do with amazing graphics, leaning towards that one.
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Hey...
I want to thank Mrs_Wife... jingerbird... FoxyRoxxy and AusWoody for your posts and your support and also want to thank the mods
I seriously appreciate it and it helps to know that im not alone with this :)
Thanks Alot!! :-*
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You are not alone in this. What you experience is bad and i'm sorry to hear about it. I'm ashamed over that kind of behaviour here.
:-)
Tom
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It's a real shame when some idiots try to spoil the game for others.
My advice is simple. Don't let them.
I too am in an exclusive relationship and have had comments directed at me for choosing to play that way.
One dip stick even tried to impersonate my spouse !! As if anyone could take the place of my Jayc.
The majority of people are really nice in this game and you will find them here in Forum. The Dip sticks luckily are in the minority.
I am glad you have joined Forum and also would encourage you to look in on The Square. The Dip Sticks do not tend to visit there, probably because they would show out and in their spiteful, nasty nature.
Use your ignore button, they cant send messages or contact you then.
I know some players also ban all freeusers from contacting them which will also solve the problems you face.
That is a double edged sword though because its a shame for free users who are actually interested in the game and who are trying it out and may move on to become premium.
I would also advise to think very carefully before you give out any other means of contact, such as email, yahoo etc.. outside of here. The forum messaging and messaging in Achat game is quite adequate. Don't be too trusting to people until you really get to know them. Ask yourself this, if they can pester me , can I stop it swiftly? If you cant, don't give it out.
From what I've heard, it seems to be two members at the moment with multiple accounts who are special ( special needs) that is causing all this upset.
I know the Moderators are trying to contain it all and are working hard behind the scenes and do not wish to name the people involved on Forum. I understand this reasoning as it is a good community we have and this could open the flood gates to disputes being aired here.
No one wants that kind of rubbish published. It would drive away the good people we are all trying to encourage to be apart of our community.
If the ones making this trouble, actually read this, then you need to look at your behaviour. It's not big or clever to harass people. It's not big or clever to insult them or call them names. It's not big or clever to send nasty or insulting messages to people over and over.
And for those who have made blogs to air their silly grievances instead of going through the proper channels , that's real brave of you ... not.
That's the cowards way, because no one can correct your inaccuracies. And a lot of it is lies and inaccurate. You clearly don't check your facts.
And to publish peoples profiles without their permission is morally wrong, no matter how hard you try to convince yourself that you are right, everyone else is wrong.
Where is your honour and self respect? Grow up and take your medication.
And Achat, you need to ban these people as a message, it will not be tolerated here. At least until they apologise for their behaviour and agree to the TOS they actually agreed to when they became members.
We all do so I think its reasonable to expect that they do too.
Just my 2p worth. LOL.
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I love what Stone said she is so right.
I Know some times you can use humor and laugh about it ;D Like I do
I have been harassed bullied online not just here but in other games to gets easy
to ignore them after some time they are just seeking attention the more you are upset the more they
love it . I joined the Forum for the same reason
well kind of my story was different but I felt harassed I am so glad I did come here
I have met some Amazing, wonderful , Beautiful with kind souls , and My love with him I am happy to
just be with him in a exclusive relationship with his love his all that I need .
Every one is so different and unique special in there own way
we are Silly , Wacky , Fun Sexy Great Humor
Don't let this attention special needs people ruin your fun here
Or use Humor Like me and tell them this ;D
(http://www.autostraddle.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/tumblr_mqkvdgkUQ11svtljbo1_500.gif)
Have fun and Enjoy it with your partner the poses are are great here ;D
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Well stated Stone, I dis agree about the naming tho forewarned is forearmed post these creeps names so no one will hook up with them anymore and have to suffer what these girls have had to go through (and still do).
I love 10 minutes with them in a locked room (I don't run anymore) just 10 minutes not a lot to ask is it??
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Stone had a lot of good to say. Nice to see. Though AChat is doing nothing on these problems. No behind the scenes or any such thing. That would be why these guys keep doing what ever they want and trying to harass others. They know they can get away with it. I reported this a few times to AChat support, have screen captures of the chats and all that has gone on. All support had to say was sorry, nothing we can do.
Any way, the game seems interesting, lots of poses and a ton of actions. But the total lack of any and all support makes paying for it very iffy.
I will say now that I have a better grasp on things I can do I am able to laugh at all of this as a really bad joke. And laugh at "support" as well. When I say support I do not mean you mods here on the forums. I can take two seconds and see you mods here do help as best you can.
On another side note, there seems to be a good number of males who don't like it when a female stands up for herself. In their minds any females on the game are sluts and nothing more. So when they read my profile or talk to me they get all pissy. This gives me a good giggle. Also sorry to say this has been most the guys who have talked to me. Gives a rather bad view of the games community.
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lmao now he's claiming he's working WITH achat again? funny because his blog constantly talks about going rogue and trying to take achat down... I think it takes time for them to investigate him but his ass is grass...