This all works fine unless you are an individual who decides to express their individuality and uniqueness by wearing absolutely nothing.. to which the Meeting Place "POLICE" promptly jump into action and bully them into leaving or getting dressed. :-\
We all have our own standards for dress that we like to impress upon people. Some of us like to solicit fashion advice to those who 'seem' to need a little help. It is ALWAYS up the individual whether or not to take that advice.. agree with it or disagree. No one can make anyone do anything without their permission.
Don't follow the crowd and wear things only because everyone else is doing it. There are looks that are sexy to some and not to others. There is nothing wrong with trying to catch the eye of someone you like by finding out what kinds of things they like. It's actually a very thoughtful gesture, just don't lose yourself in the process.
There seems to be a stigma here in Achat that comes with wearing the Newbie outfits. It's a standard "uniform" so to speak for all new people. My advice is to avoid it unless its something you absolutely love wearing.
There DOES seem to be a LOT of "cowboys" here on Achat as of late. It's an okay and sexy look for men who have limited imaginations, or for those who don't want to 'fuss' with their wardrobe. Personally I don't like the hats because they get in the way, and i don't like them poking at my head during a dance or a kiss. The 'poking' here in Achat should be done with something other than a HAT :P :D ;D
Best thing to do is find out what looks best while being true to yourself. After all, this IS a sex chat site, and attraction plays a part in the selection process. The eyes meet a person long before any other part of you does, and what a person wears and how they portray themselves to others say a lot about their personality.
The day I met Ecky.. he was parading around the Meeting Place in a Mankini. I instantly liked him before i met him .. not because i liked that horrible ugly green monstrosity (sorry dear).. but because i saw a guy loved to make others laugh, have a really good time, and not take himself so seriously. My kind of guy <3