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Can anyone enlighten me how to bring critisism into a discussion without the thread being locked down or moderated. Ah, you say it is possible! You are right in some threads like Bitch Corner it seems possible, but when it comes to threads that are critizicing our moderators then the lockdown or moderation is imminently present. The moderators of this forum don't like to be critiziced. Who does? I don't. What if there are reasons to critizice? Still not allowed?
I remember a few years back when a moderator of this forum threw up her arms in the air and wrote an outcry: this is a witch hunt. They are attacking me and want my head. I resign. This caused a wave of supporters writing in and pleading her to come back wich she did a short time later. If there were reasons for the critisism then I don't know, but the situation turned after the outcry.
I think I remember something similar happened a year before that too. Same kind of situation same moderator. If there was reason for the critisism then I don't know. All I know is that there has been anger and people have left Achat. I have met a few of them who claim to have been involved in conflicts with the moderator, between 5 and 10 of them.
-This is outrageous. This is a witch hunt. You want my head!
Smiling here, no I don't want your head. I simply don't think that you are suited to be moderating. Scheming, bending the rules to your liking, silencing, changing subject, using desinformation and closing threads too close to the truth are not things that should be done by a moderator.
-How can you say that? You are wrong and a conniving mean person spreading false rumors.
I speak from my own and from others members first hand experiences. There has lately been talk about ip numbers and more, but that has only been a way to prove bad moral. I don't need to prove anything, I only want the right to speak my mind.
Is critisism allowed here in forum? Well yes but only as long it doesn't involve moderators.
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Tomh, Icebox
I tell you. Please stop flirting with me. If you are not careful, I swear you might cum in your pants !
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Anyone got cold water?
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You are such a tease
Tom
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I put your question to a big new machine and the answer is: 42
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I put your question to a big new machine and the answer is: 42
the mice said so
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MARTINUSSSSSSSSSS
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MARTIN !!!!!!!! :-*
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Lol, wow!!!!
Well I knew it from before. That doesn't surprise me but what surprises me is that you so blatantly admit it and that your fellow moderators accept to have a moraly disabled fellow moderator amongst them.
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Bises Rukya :-* comment va tu ?
Oh Kisses to all too :-*
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Lol, wow!!!!
Well I knew it from before. That doesn't surprise me but what surprises me is that you so blatantly admit it and that your fellow moderators accept to have a moraly disabled fellow moderator amongst them.
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Rukya, since you asked for a different kind of story. Here is one for you:
Once upon a time I didn't give a shit
Based on true events
Once upon a time there was xx, xxx and xxxx. They all had one thing secretly in common, well... they all were different names for the queen. Something that was useful, not only when scheming and ruling, but also in the matters of love, because a queen like her needed her own rat pack. Her husband xxxxx loved wasp very much and so did her second, xxxx husband xxxxx. xxxxx was her favourite lover, but most loyal to xx was her pet xxxxx.
A coincidence was that all of them happened to be moderators, sorry, except for xxxx ofcourse. He was just a jester in the threads. And to be honest, xxxx was not a moderator in the castle, he was the owner and moderator of the Circle. He was the idealist among her men, trying to create a place for ordinary people.
xxx, the untouchable queen, was laughing at her underlings while her husbands and lovers adored her. So strong was her power that the others would follow her into death. Her castle stood high with thick walls and a high ivory tower. Armed with lies, patronising and defences.
Sometimes it got a bit boring in the ivory tower and queen xxx stepped down from her throne, redressed to one of her personas and walked into the city, disguised just like any one of her subordinates. It was the abundance of sex and drama in the city that made her cheeks turn red and her heart beating faster. It allways was such a thrill to be able to throw off the stiffness of her title and wrestle in the mud just like any other pesant. Her world-weariness was pushed away for yet another day.
All this had been good and well, had it not been for the collateral damage she caused. People were stepped upon, lied to and used under her reign. When they became to troublesome they were either thrown to the dogs or made to leave. Strangely enough her husbands and admirers adopted an ignorant stand and refused to see her ruthless smirk. I guess admitting that you have lied to yourself and refused to see the truth during all this time was a hard pill to swallow.
If you live your life as if everything is about you... you will be left with just that. Just you.
Motto of xxxx
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Well you live in a fantasy world that’s very twisted. Now let’s have another story and this one is based on true events, unlike your twisted fantasy.
Bad Attitude.
Once upon a time, a member, let’s call him after the actor …xxxx joined a sex game and enjoyed it very much. He was pleasant enough and he met a really nice girl but didn’t like the fact she had an ex. Strange really as that is what happens with most people here. We all have ex’s!
Sometimes he would chat in a chat group open to all the sex site.
One person he would chat to was a Moderator and they got on really well.
This one day this Moderator was waiting to go into a meeting and as was usual had several chats on.
One was with the Ex and she invited him to chat in The Square. It made sense really, rather than flipping between the game and chat room. Plus, all of the Moderators and hosts encouraged members to join both places. This was after all, pre poker and meeting place times and the chat room encouraged our members to mix more.
Now unknown to The Moderator, xxxx was too immature to cope with his feelings for this Ex male partner of his girl, but why would The Moderator know this. We are all adults of course. The site and group chat was for 18+ after all.
In addition to this, xxxxx was not in the chat room at the time in question and she had no reason to believe he would arrive. Why would she, she’s not a mind reader and certainly did not know xxxx’s routine or times when he appeared in the chat room.
She chatted pleasantly with the Ex and then said her good byes and went into the meeting. She was away from the chat room and busy and did not see the comings and goings there.
The meeting lasted a while and by the time she had come out and returned to the chat room, The Ex had gone and xxxx was in the room.
xxxx suddenly and without warning and in a totally un-provoked way, he verbally attacked the Moderator and accused her of bringing the Ex to the chat room on purpose and it was to upset him and cause trouble. WTF!
Obviously the Moderator had little time for such a silly and twisted attack, especially after an intense mod meeting, and even though patiently explained several times – xxxx would not see it except from his point of view.
He felt The Ex was not allowed in the Square, The Ex was not allowed to chat in his domain, The Moderator took him there on purpose to cause him problems!
The Moderator wasn’t even there when he had arrived in The Square and this happened !!
Dohhh!
Of course The Moderator asked, If xxxxx felt so strongly, when he saw the Ex there, why didn’t he just leave or wait till the coast was clear? xxxxx of course couldn’t answer that and huffed and puffed and eventually left Achat after a while and went to another site. Of course, it suited him to blame the Moderator!
Two years later, still twisted and harbouring his little bruised ego, he has a conversation with a mutual acquaintance at the other site and rubbed his hands in glee when he heard what was said. It didn’t matter whether it was true or not or that he could hurt innocent people. It fitted in his need to hate and cause trouble.
He could not wait to return to post nasty little snide posts to annoy The Moderator who dared tell him to grow up 2 years ago and behave like the adult he should be. It didn’t matter if he hurt innocent third parties.
No, to hurt and harass the Moderator and insult her in public at every opportunity was his goal. That was what was important. Nothing else mattered.
He could not believe his luck, that Achat had changed their joining rules and he could access Forum for free! So he changes his name slightly and shows his nasty, spiteful side and keeps posting about things that do not concern him, things he knows very little about and actually provides more evidence that yet another person outside the Moderator circle has had private information disclosed to them and thinks its ok to act on it and publish it and thinks changing the names in a very immature and silly way that somehow that protects him.
But WRONG it doesn’t. When you show a pattern of behaviour and you keep acting in a certain way towards a member, Moderator or not, that’s actually harassment. And of course that would be against TOS.
Maybe xxx should change his attitude and join in nicely with other members now.
Or of course if he’s not happy with the Moderators or Forum, he could always return to the site where he was obviously very happy and more at peace.
And of course live happily ever after.
The End.
TOPIC LOCKED BY MODERATOR.
IT IS CLEAR IT IS SERVING NO PURPOSE BUT TO GIVE A CERTAIN MEMBER A PLATFORM TO INSULT MEMBERS, NOT JUST MODERATORS. AS FOR THE OPENING TITLE, I THINK THE MODERATORS HAVE BEEN MORE THAN TOLERANT IN THE THREE (NOW TWO) TOPICS TO SHOW WE DO.