AChat Forum
Off-Topic => Quizz, Fav TV, Fav Music, Fav Films, Books... => Topic started by: AusWoody on September 11, 2016, 07:08:53 AM
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Samantha97 asked me to post this on their behalf. i am just the reporter not part of it in any way
Well everyone I have something to say... jeff66 / samantha97 is both me... I never wanted to hurt anyone was not my goal...
I made Sam for a reason... if you would like to ask me about it sometime feel free to do so... but also keep in mind 90% of the women on here are men...
90% of the people on here have multiple avatars... some people play 2 and 3 at a time i never did when i play me i focused on the person i was with they were always worth my time.. Did I have real feelings YES...?
When I was with someone gender of the other was never asked by me and never will be...
I think it’s the person not the gender that makes your avatar...
So I will stay away from group see who Jeff / Sams friends are drop me off your list if you never want to see me again...
i'll understand... will i change names NO will I play Sam / Jeff YES for now...
If you’re looking for a real woman / man it's simple as to skype they can’t hide it doesn’t trust phone calls...
My children have apps to disguise your voice... if it true loves you looking for here good luck i wish you all the best
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When I joined this place I was male, I was a newbie just like all the others.
I couldn’t get a girl, I didn’t know why, I was learning
Was I not doing it right? Was I saying wrong things? I didn’t know
So I made a female, I needed to hear how other played
I needed to learn, I began to understand it
In the meantime I met some amazing people
I made great friends with both male / female
I couldn’t find it possible to drop Sam without losing my friends
So I kept her I dropped all my lovers//spouses and just kept friends
So sadly that’s how Sam came to be
People always connected with Sam not Jeff
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It's not the avatar, It's the person behind them I love. sammi / jeff.. still love you both. :) :)
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Wow...
not a single sorry, no nothing. You destroyed someone completely, we found her crying out her beautiful eyes, and she is leaving, and all you mention is YOURSELF, what YOU did, why YOU did it and dozens of lame excuses and explainations for doing it? You lied to all of those who considered you friend, even hurt more people being samantha, and you think having someone forwarding a post is all you need to make it forgiven and forgotten?
Are you serious?
And then you don't even have the balls to come up by yourself and speak forward? Do you really think adjusting your profile and telling the world what poses you own is all what's necessary?
"Hey, i just destroyed the one who loved me to death. But i got oh so many poses, i just move on, as long as i can have fun, i feel great. Oh boy, i'm such a great guy"
I cannot believe i considered you friend once...i'd love to use many words to describe you now, but that would collide with the forum rules. I saw her logs, i know what you said to her, saw what you did to her, how deep you hurt her, not even caring at all. You selfish $%&%&$%
Please never cross my way again in here.
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Hi everyone, since we're confessing, and all will so know, I will post this myself.
I too have an alt account. some of you know him well. so I tell you now as I slip back into hell!
TKnight5 and I are one in the same. I did not come with intent to deceive or hurt anyone, if I have I am truly sorry!
many of you i hold so dear, but no worries cause now I will disappear.
BYE ALL!
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Hi all I have to agree with Laura not one sorry and then gets someone to post it for him, then says 90% of girls are guys, did you just pick this figure out of the sky. I have be on this site 6 years not all as Lydiarose I once had other account but meet someone like jeff/sam and he hurt me a lot so I give away that account and left the game for a few months. then when I came back I made Lydiarose and do not have any other account. I play with 1 account and 1 account only and I like to ask the people who have more then one WHY....
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As I usually do, I miss so much of what goes on in this "GAME"?
Was not till the wee hours of the morning that I saw all the "PAIN"
I can see this dilemma, as confessed, from both sides
As clearly as the damage it leaves when truth reveals lies
I understand it's a game, a place of fantasy n fun
But no matter where WE go, OURSELVES always come
We humans all have feelings. with those more sensitive then some
What may begin innocently, unintentionally, might soon turn glum
So take me to Church, I too have a confession to make
Let me be honest with all and see if I make the same mistake
Although I play with no other avatar, no other identity
I started as someone else, I was not always me you see
A special friend in RL, she came first, before me
She chose to be a she-male, not herself, but fantasy
One "Buzz" fueled night, "Let's PLAY a GAME" she says offhand
and then she introduced me to this strange and addicting land
We spent the night FUCKING all that would have US
No chatting, no gossip, no TIME for such business
I had fun, it was harmless, for I brought no feelings along
I made no connections, no promises, I could do no wrong
But my friend soon became bored as she so often does
and asked if I wanted her premium account for the my next "Buzz"
I told her I would but not as SHE-MALE, I wanted to be female, be me
I do not know what my friend did, but she gave life to ME you see
I was simply told I could choose n create my own identity
A gift from my friend, is how Kaitlyn, yes ME, came to be.
To my friends, I want to share everything I can
for TRUST is so important in here, it is all that I am
Although I know her password and check for messages
I do not play with her avatar, no interest in more appendages
I have my friends, a lover, and few others special to me
But there is ONE above all that is my HOME, all can see
And when it is all over and we have had our fun
I want to be honest with each other, accept it is done
Whether we decide to stay friends or part and say bye
I hope we do it together, with respect, a hug and a cry
Then take all our feelings and memories we shared
and keep them in our hearts until grey haired
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Hi all I have to agree with Laura not one sorry and then gets someone to post it for him, then says 90% of girls are guys, did you just pick this figure out of the sky. I have be on this site 6 years not all as Lydiarose I once had other account but meet someone like jeff/sam and he hurt me a lot so I give away that account and left the game for a few months. then when I came back I made Lydiarose and do not have any other account. I play with 1 account and 1 account only and I like to ask the people who have more then one WHY....
Yes Lydia,
that's my question also, i get into enough trouble playing just the single avatar, to me there is only one reason to create another 'person' here is to 'deceive', and whatever reason or excuse you choose to believe in the end dishonesty and deception will ruin any 'friendship / relationship' you have found and create pain and hurt to those you have deceived.
Relationships whether friendship,lover or spouse are built on trust and honesty and held together with communication. Think about that when you are tempted to create another avatar / personality here.
just my 2cents worth
It's a LOSE LOSE gambit with no winners at all.
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The real problem is not having more than one avatar.
As one of the first confessions in here says, it is a fantasy world and I don't think it is bad to want to experience sex and life from a different perspective.
Is it wrong to want to be a guy being a girl, or a girl being a guy or even a she-male being either a guy or a girl?
Behind each avatar there is a soul, dosen't matter of which gender, dosen't matter if it is the same as the avatar or not.
I have not been here for a long time, not even a year yet, but I have met lots of people.
I don't care the gender they really are, and why they choose to be a different gender than in RL.
Each one must have their own reasons to do that, and it's ok, IF the reasons are genuine.
What really matters is what you do, if you hurt ppl just because you can, if you enjoy destroying other's life, but you play as your real gender and have just one avatar then you are better than someone that care about his/her friends, and try to just enjoy even when he/she have more than one avatar or his/her avatar's gender is different from his/her real gender?
People are bad or good, not based in how many avatars they have or if the gender of the avatar is the same as the gender of the player, but based upon their actions and noone in this life is pure evil or pure good. This life is full of greys, there is no pure black nor pure white.
This is just my way of seeing this game and the life, virtual or real, I don't own the truth, I'm just a simple human being trying to enjoy this life as much as I can, because there is just one.
Kisses
Zoë
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As usual, it's all a question of the perspective. Eidamir said many things I second. And so did Woody, Kaitlyn, Lydia...
AChat is a game. AChat is fantasy. AChat is fun. If you play it this way, it doesn't matter who you are and with whom you room and what you're doing then.
But sex and friendship often come along with real, deep feelings. Wanted or not, it may happen. If you reach this point, you will hurt someone if you still just play it as a game.
Looking from this view, the best is to be honest from the beginning or never have any spouses, even no lovers. Never go further than being friends here, never go exclusive.
I also don't see a reason, to have more avis with same gender. For some reasons I do understand to have a different one, but I don't see to have many avis. This alone is suspicious.
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hoodwinked
To be deceived.
It actually derives from the practice of placing a hood over the head of a falcon in the Middle Ages when engaged in the sport of falconry.
This was done in order to trick the falcon into believing it was nighttime, thus calming the bird down so that one could recover the prey from the bird's talons.
(https://www.searchlock.com/mirror/p?e=1&h=1J4lHu59b0WOZy9XD8C3Hw96kpd3MvH7tqPlzdrBoxujdCfnud21qp5zPVt1Q9cxlhtXzD50iFFfmXX5BwXi+My+IlYOHFnh1A6vQTdufMfGlSaoIV/ng5Ph5zMuP90y&u=http://animalsneedkisses.files.wordpress.com/2009/01/falconryhood.jpg) (https://wallpaperscraft.com/image/falcon_bird_talons_predator_108604_1600x900.jpg)
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Hello all just a few word's from me
First I do have a second account here most of you know it X_TKB_X AKA The Knicker Bandit
It is a shemale account and was only made for the Bar & Grill and the NSPD threads in the forum and just every now and then I use it it the meeting places but I never room with it and like I said most of my friends know how is behind the avatar.
And on the topic of being hurt but people playing with emotions a few well remember Sonawolf & Danielwolf so I won't dig that back up but that was well covered in the forum.
So what I say is just be yourself and that way no one will get hurt and just maybe you will find the one for you.
So on that note I say to all my friends I've made over the years here if I have upset you at some point I'm sorry but there are bigger and harder problems in real life to stay mad at people here
So ((((((((((((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))))))) to everyone let's draw a line under it and move on
Your originally Cowboy Tango MMMWWAAHHHHHH
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[(http://)for those of you that never had a 2nd account or have never hurt anyoneone on here cheers .this is a game and yes i know real feelings get involved but forgiveness for those who have done wrong is a higher post than whinning that you were butt hurt by a toon ,get to know the person not the avi
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Feeling more and more I don't belong... oh well.. *hugs all..
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you will always have friends here Ana but like you fed up with the shit that's going on in here with vikkee and think the time has come to move on from this game
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As I see it any one can have more then one account
I agree with Shewolf this is a online fantasy game
not just that it's a porn fantasy game,
Yes we all have feeling
but we are responsible adults , we are receiver or giver anywhere be it , here online or in the real world
we are in control of our lives we are in control of who affect us in our emotions and who comes in to
our lives we have to be receiving to let us effect us.
it is Very Risky any relationship online Lucky are the one that find a good one .
after being hurt over and over online I now profile a lot from online , And I know that many many have
other accounts we cant stop it we cant control others from having doing this action and we dont know there
actions ,,We have to be wise we have be smart as to be careful who we choose to come into our path of our lives..
For me I don't care how many account people make have ,or their gender but
I only ask if you reach me that you please let me know your gender, many say its a just a game
but that to me should be my choice
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Thats not easy never. I am here for almost 5 years, and i only had and have one account, i needent more, this is a game, a fantasy game, a sexual game, yes... thats true, but i needent to be someone else, but its ok people who do it because is nothing wrong if you do with respect, i know some of them, and they have been always honest to me, so i have nothing to say about how people want to enjoy the time if do with respect for other persons, because like i have readed here, important is not the avi, is the person behind, and i am 200% agree with that.
In 5 years i have had all kind of experiences, people i miss, people who dissapoint me, people who was honest and from a first moment say what they are, people that i trust then and they were fake.... is like real world when you see that never is all so nice and never is all so bad... it just nice persons and bad persons, and thats the only difference here or outside, persons who deserve your respect and admiration and persons that doesnt deserve, so i just ignore...
I know whos jeff, but i dont know him personaly, i dont know either samantha, and in my opinion is nothing wrong in have 2 accounts, world is free, so why achat cant be free?, but the problem is when another person is involve, with real feelings, and the doble identity hurt someone... thats the sad part.
If you decide to do a second account, if you play as a male / female / shemale and its not your gender, have the bravery to say that, before someone is hurts.
I dont know the story... but i can imagine, and some people can be hurts because they trust you, now you hurt then because you wasnt honest, thats the point of the wrong things, not to have one, 2, 3 or 20 avatars.
Cheers all.
Z