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Discussions about sex => Everything about sex and love => Topic started by: MaxCraven on June 11, 2010, 09:02:25 AM

Title: Venting...
Post by: MaxCraven on June 11, 2010, 09:02:25 AM: Since this is a forum I need to get something off my chest, & of course feel free to agree/disagree with what I have to say, hell will be nice to know I'm not alone in this opinion. I've been part of AChat on & off for quite awhile now & everytime I come back I start to wonder why I did. At first I thought this was great, plenty of people to chat with, realistic (for the most part) animations ect. But now, now it's a miricle if one out of every dozen I try talking to responds with more than two words. I know this is a virtual world based around sex, but where's the content? where's the depth? If I just wanted to watch a couple of characters screw it'll be easier just watching porn. But maybe it's just me expecting too much to be treated as a living feeling male behind the pixels. I started on here as a kind of compensation for what I'm lacking in the real world & now it's becoming a copy of it. I've been to other virtual worlds but they aren't quite the same. Second Life there's more to do but its "cartoony", Red Light Center is ok if you don't mind constant glitches. Like I said maybe it's just me & expected a little too much realism in a virtual world instead of a game of one night stands & women whoring themselves out for new clothes. Anyways thats all I have to say, like it or not, let the praise/insults begin.....
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: sinnnn on June 11, 2010, 10:12:37 AM: Dude I understand where you coming from, but remember like life you have to filter out the assholes to find the diamonds. I have met plenty of really cool, good, funny as hell, an compassionate ppl here. I had to go threw alot of pain in the asses to find them, an the friends that I have made on here made it worth it. Its patients babes, patients.
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: Lover on June 11, 2010, 02:41:31 PM: Quote
you have to filter out the assholes to find the diamonds
;D wonderful Sinnnn!!!

I welcome everyone who wants more then just a short fuck. Though I also accept people who exactly want this. If they find the right partners, ok. As Sinnnn I also met some asses, but most of all I found very nice & friendly people. I had wonderful talks with deep content. Here are some members who are more then an Avatar for me. And I also found a great love, though I was not searching for this.
Give yourself some time. And go on being friendly and talking, I'm sure you also find people who want to do more then just...
Look at this forum. Many questions and discussions about chat rooms and so on.
Good luck MaxCraven and head up
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: bouli on June 11, 2010, 03:13:35 PM: I agree with the above posters. Putting in some effort you'll find quite a few nice people. Treating them the same way you want to be treated or even better to make a good first impression. I thrive on making others feel special, if only for a few minutes/hours.

Yea, I'm an addict...
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: sinnnn on June 11, 2010, 04:46:20 PM: Umm Wow Lover I didn't know I was your great love. Thanks kisses babes. Just joking, lol. Glad you found someone very special. Thats my point, you keep looking an you'll never know what you'll find around that corner. ;)

Venting is a good thing, really good way to let off alot of steam. I have something to vent but since this is suppose to be a site to have fun at. I'll just say this, yes I know teachers say there are no such thing as stupid questions, they are lying. There are, there really are. ;D :-\
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: Janine Dee on June 11, 2010, 06:21:08 PM: Max honey... it's not just guys... one of my favorite AChat stories is my first ignore.

A guy hailed me and I started talking (as long as I'm not busy I tend to, unless I'm logging on just to check messages) and when he started showing he wanted to go to a room I tried to explain I wasn't interested. When I tried to explain to him I was gay and didn't room with men he started insisting I fuck him with my toys.

He managed to get in this long, and frankly sort of upsettingly angry message to me while I figure out how that "ignore" thing worked.

If I let guys like him determine my feelings towards AChat I would have never been able to have Lover as a friend or Sinnnn as a lover (deliberate play on words there ;D).

For whatever my word is worth, it's worth it to find the diamonds.
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: bobbler on June 11, 2010, 07:22:48 PM: Quote from: sinnnn on June 11, 2010, 10:12:37 AM
Dude I understand where you coming from, but remember like life you have to filter out the assholes to find the diamonds. I have met plenty of really cool, good, funny as hell, an compassionate ppl here. I had to go threw alot of pain in the asses to find them, an the friends that I have made on here made it worth it. Its patients babes, patients.
It takes a lot of patience to weed the diamonds from the assholes.

patience...p-a-t-i-e-n-c-e...patience

:P :D :P

sorry sinnn, i couldn't resist. had to make you smile a bit more ;D
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: AZNLoverV on June 11, 2010, 08:24:59 PM: Well I think the format could be improved. Better chat features, common chat rooms that feature common interests would make it easier to find people to socialize with. For example I've met a few people who are ONLY into 3somes. Why not make a 3some room, then people interested in that activity will be in there. Same goes for same sex rooms, opposite sex rooms, etc. The idea is so simple why can't it be executed. Ateam are you working on this? That would make the game a LOT more enjoyable than just a few new poses.
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: sinnnn on June 12, 2010, 12:08:06 AM: I just new I spelled that wrong, LOL. Good looking out Bobby. ;D

oops, srry Bobby, meant to say Bob. ::)
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: apollo13nut on June 12, 2010, 01:05:27 AM: I have to say I agree with most people here: finding anything "meaningful" (in quotes cause my definition of meaningful may not match yours, screw Webster's dictionary :) ) takes time and effort.

I noticed in your post you say you are an "off again, on again" user.....I have found that logging a few hours a day, even with no results, makes finding a person you can talk to hours on end and not get bored/tired all the more sweet and savory.

I will admit, I have had several days where I'm on for 3+ hours with no conversations or invites....and there are other days where I have a 4 hour conversation within 15 min of logging on.

Hang in there man. I wish I could give you the "end all, be all" "quick fix", but I can't. Just try to have fun.
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: Lover on October 27, 2015, 07:21:02 PM: GRRRRR once more I was out of internet connection for more than an hour today. Has happened much too often lately and my connection is as lame as a duck. Good thing, I finally was told that I get a new provider this thursday. Then my connection will be fast as a flash, compared to the one I'm having since a few months.
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: zuzannah on October 28, 2015, 05:44:18 AM: Man, this is an old post. 2010. And I have just read it. :D Things haven't changed have they ? Actually might have got worse. :'(

Sarcasm in the Poker room directed not only at me but other beautiful people who play at being Shemales. (And other Genders for that matter) I'm Not going to go into details, it's not worth it. I just try to ignore it and carry on playing, or leave and log out. It's just people trying to be funny and failing massively. Sod it, I'm going to mention one comment. Laugh if you like. I'm not fully quoting, this happened a few days ago so I can't remember exactly what they said.

Is there any proper Gender People in here.

It was something like that anyway. I LOVE playing as a Shemale. I don't regret AT ALL choosing to be one when I first started here. I love how I look and love changing my outfits, and Love the people I play with who are Totally open minded and Amazing to be with. So, people who can't handle or have got something against Shemales. Two Words come to mind.........UP YOURS!!

As for people who just Message "hi" I say "Hi" back and see what happens. Nothing Usually. Or, they think I'm a Female. People who don't read my details eh ::) ::). That's another Story. Or when I Tell them I'm a Guy in RL. I get no response back. And these "Hi's" are From Hetero Males who know I'm a Shemale. Hehehe.

God, When I start "Venting" I can't seem to stop can I ? ;D Good Topic this. Nice one Lover for posting here or else I wouldn't have seen it. Oh and I hope your Connection Speeds Go through the Roof. (That's Good BTW). I'm getting 43.32 Mbps. (I ran a few tests and picked the fastest) ;D

So, there are Diamonds out there. I have found a few. They know who they are. Well I hope they do ::) And THEY are the reason why I am renewing my subscription today. :-* :-* :-*
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: FoxyRoxxy on October 28, 2015, 10:32:33 AM: Wow is right ...Old topic

Not much has changed Max

It do's not matter what game you play , this will always be in all virtual games
many hide their identity emotions behind a avatar, can you blame them this is a sex game they say porn ..

I dont know about others but I would not want any one to know from my real world that I am on a Sex Porn game :o

Achat is discreetly my secret fantasy ...

If it was me I would take the Porn word out of Achat and replace it with Adult Entertainment..
I feel it will draw in more people in
and open more door for Achat it can also bring in people with many other interest aside sex ..
As I see it, Many see the word sex and porn and that is what many see only ( you get what is expected on here )

Achat should say
Respecting your privacy and maintaining discretion is our business.

To me sex is good with my partner and I am one that only do it with genuine feeling s and ♥ Love ♥

you can fined many kind & friendly people any where it is up to you as to who you let in ....

And as LOVER said he found his greats love ;D he had to go though some :o to find his true Diamond
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: zuzannah on October 28, 2015, 12:52:19 PM: Yes, You hide your identity BUT, it doesn't mean that people can be nasty/sarcastic to you does it ?

There has to be some sort of etiquette. I can't see how some people actually get any action here when they act as they do. It might turn some people on been called a Slut, Bitch or Whore. Not ME. (Not Anymore, I've Changed. And I have been called a Snob). There are days that I don't get any action because of this. But hey, that's my decision to room or not. The last few days have been a trial really.

Re-branding from Porn to Adult Entertainment is a good idea. We all know what Adult Entertainment is. So, yeah, Why not change it. But I suppose it's like re-branding Comics to Graphic Novels. :D
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: Peeka on October 28, 2015, 01:27:51 PM: I guess we all hide behind a screen somehow. Who really looks like his avi anyways???

Once again, when things get real between ppl,either it really is and it remains like this when truth gets revealed (just ask nicely for it, don't be a moron), either it even wasn't real at all.

Ppl talking about mind connexion and getting scared once they see the real other (true girl or shem or male) are just plain stupid and don't deserve to be taken care of.
With chat, you can only show your mind, not your body. And maybe it is better for some of us. Because rl, maybe ppl wouldn't even approach you.
We all say love is blind... so stand for it !!!!

It is easy to talk about lies when you have a spouse that loves you as you really are. And as Zu said : whatever the avi, we all are people behind it. Living out fantasies here doesn't mean we lie or are not sensible to what ppl say. I know real love can happen here, but the ones who confuse fantasy and rl are the ones who lie to themselves. And the ones not tolerating difference are the worst ones.

So since it is a venting topic : F**K Them!!!!
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: Lover on October 28, 2015, 05:00:23 PM: Quote
Who really looks like his avi anyways???
You don't believe I look like my avi??? :o ok, you're right - I look much better ::)

Zu, I thought it was time to bring the topic back - and it seems I was not wrong lol. Thanks for your wishes for my net, I really need it. Today, again I was without connection for more than one hour. I'm counting the hours now to get the new one. It is so bad, I hardly can open youtube at the moment and topics full with pics take an eternity to load ???

My opinion, those who can't be nice or least show some respect here, also don't do it in RL. They're stupid idiots and a wannabe, hiding behind the screen, playing the strong man (or woman). There is a big ignore-button for them. More they don't deserve!
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: FoxyRoxxy on October 28, 2015, 07:11:04 PM: Quote from: zuzannah on October 28, 2015, 12:52:19 PM
Yes, You hide your identity BUT, it doesn't mean that people can be nasty/sarcastic toyou does it ?

Quote: Lover

My opinion, those who can't be nice or least show some respect here, also don't do it in RL.
They're stupid idiots and a wannabe, hiding behind the screen

Try telling the idiots that ! their is a reason they are idiots :D
we really can't change other of their behavior actions we should all know this by now ..
But we can change how we reacted ..

some times its hard some times its easy best is to ignore them ..for me its how they come at me and how i want to treat them back

and Zu I been called all that and more to me they can all kiss my ;D I am sure they love to , to bad they can't touch this! :o

Re-branding from Porn to Adult Entertainment is a good idea. We all know what Adult Entertainment is. So, yeah, Why not change it. But I suppose it's like re-branding Comics to Graphic Novels. :D

can open many other doors ( like facebook , Paypal ) here in the USA the word Porn well not to many see it Welcoming ;D

And NO one looks like theIr Avis we are not pixels ...

I My self love how I look with out the little Belly :D
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: zuzannah on November 05, 2015, 06:41:33 AM: Don't know if I should write this or not. I'm going to anyway.

I've got Passive and Submissive on my profile. This doesn't mean that I'm into, what I call weird and basically just gross RP.

I'm taking about people who like to be called or call themselves daddy. (E.G. Daddy is going to F$%K you now). This has totally freaked me out by the way, especially when you aren't expecting it and after a good start. I am not over reacting either.

Another thing while I'm here. Submissive doesn't mean that I'm Your Slut, Whore or Bitch. Being Submissive to me is about been able to trust my partner, to be controlled by them, (I am in their hands) so, we both enjoy ourselves completely, as it should be. Yes, it may get rough sometimes ;) but, there is always understanding between what is right and acceptable. One certain person can call me a slut. No one else.

That is all. :'(
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: Chitown175 on June 09, 2016, 03:19:34 AM: As a guy I usually try to show some passion but many times I get simple one worded replies or not even full words, like a simple "ty" for a compliment. I've been on this game for only a few days but I already click with somebody here because this person does not make me do all the typing and the responses I get are simply phenomenal and turn me on. I understand if the other person does not speak English well and for that reason I don't really play much past 3 am my local time since it's mostly Europeans on and I can tell from their responses they probably barely understand what I'm typing.
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: Honeybatcher on June 10, 2016, 12:06:18 AM: To be really honest with you all i really don't even know what that all means.......
I don't care if your Submissive, have fetish, slave or BDSM (whateva that is)......
Fucking as we all call it is something you share with someone, if you know that person or not!
Fucking is a scene in your fantasy that you want to try, explore or even share with someone!
Fucking is when either you stick something into someone or you let someone stick something inside you!
Fucking is when you like someone and the only why to show that person is to fuck him/her!

So now that i know what fucking is, I also Understand why they actually call it "Making LOVE"......

Cause at that stage of your relationship, if its a friend, lover spouse or even someone random, you are knowingly or unknowingly making love to a person!!!

And if that person doesn't feel the same, that's there choice....move on, forget about it!!!

So all i want to say is, doesn't matter if your exploring or living out a fantasy their still is real people out there!!!

So let's get Fucking.............
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: Hardbody on June 11, 2016, 05:27:07 PM: did not know were to put this but rather than start a new thread I though I would stick it in here ( so to speak ) ... Not been on here for nearly 5 years so thought I would give it another go and I see nothing much has changed.... Anyone that speaks to you or you speak to them start coming out with all kinds of pay me this for that and this that and the other... Now forgive me but I have paid premium bought postions,clothes etc etc yet you get quite trying to charge you more /........ rant over :-) ::)
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: GsCougar on July 14, 2016, 02:28:18 AM: ;D ;D ;D
Its funny to see since over the past 5 years not much has changed.

You enter a virtual world and you get told BE AWARE ;)

Are we ? NOPE ;) we still trust wrong People and we will find out and get the scares or even worst leave the game , waist all the money and go on in another ,to find out later ,nothing changed.

You make your own rules and stick to them is the only way to not getting to deep hurt in the so called social world .

I found this treat and some how i smiled. To see .................it will be always the same.

How we "play" or comunicate with others is up to each indevidium. We cant change others.

LOVE IT - CHANGE IT - LEAVE IT
So if you cant love the situation,neither can change it , just turn and leave. Many roads are open.

Now i do my shouting ,venting and shake turn and feel better :)

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Love you all - Ppl who hurt me even more cuz the deserve my mercy :)

♥Gs♥Cougar♥
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: Lover on July 14, 2016, 03:10:27 PM: lol Cougar, you're right - some things never change. But leaving in AChat can also mean, just leave those people, not the game :D
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: Honeybatcher on July 14, 2016, 09:36:07 PM: If you make more drama than the people that causes drama, believe me they would rather leave.....that's why I'm the Drama King :)

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Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: GsCougar on July 21, 2016, 02:08:24 PM: (http://imageshack.com/a/img921/3618/ABGSUt.jpg)

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Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: FoxyRoxxy on September 05, 2016, 07:09:12 PM: Quote from: Hardbody on June 11, 2016, 05:27:07 PM
did not know were to put this but rather than start a new thread I though I would stick it in here ( so to speak ) ... Not been on here for nearly 5 years so thought I would give it another go and I see nothing much has changed.... Anyone that speaks to you or you speak to them start coming out with all kinds of pay me this for that and this that and the other... Now forgive me but I have paid premium bought postions,clothes etc etc yet you get quite trying to charge you more /........ rant over :-) ::)

NOTHING WILL CHANGE ! it is only self that can make the change that you allowed to revolve in your own world.

no one can change a another person so it is up to yourself what you want and shut all other out they ask for gift or sex . its every easy X ignore block ,
this makes me think its funny you can buy poses prem but you cant buy others to talk to you have your sex, dates or talk to you....
I think charm a good conversation and a courtship and defaulty chemistry can get you places ..then babe I have all the poses lets F *** lol
Title: Re: Venting...
Post by: GsCougar on November 28, 2016, 06:26:44 PM: You know the words :" if the shoe fits wear it " :)

It will not make diffrent , but it feels good sometimes to know sign language :)

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