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Discussions about AChat => Share your creative ideas => Topic started by: HawkRoyce on October 19, 2010, 10:49:56 PM
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I don't know how others feel, but sometimes I think it would be nice to have a little after sex cuddle or caress with your partner,
okay often it is a quick wham bam affair!, but many a time I like to chat a bit to my partner afterwards and it is a little distracting watching the avatars going at it when you have just finished and just want a contented chat with your lover, also good for people who are romantics at heart and/or have deeper feelings for their lover (I.E long distance relationships.)
The foreplay move is often used. but lacks the intimacy of a cuddle.
Suggestions would be:
1.) A spoons type cuddle, no penetration, either partner behind (Swap button maybe) shoulder kisses, neck nibbles.
2.) The girl lies on top with no penetration, just face stroking, stroking sides, kissing nibbling.
3.) Woman lying close with arm draped across the man's chest as he lies on his back.
4.) Just looking into each others eyes, as in foreplay, but in each others arms not at a distance.
5.) Standing, like the show me how you feel, but naked and both from behind or facing each other.
I am a straight guy, so sorry if I offended anyone by saying girl and man as there is no good reason this couldn't also be possible for gay/shemale lovers (Maybe even a group sandwich style cuddle for threesomes! lol)
I would like to know how others feel about this, if they would use it (Romantics like me!) and from the designer's point of view, if there would be any chance of adding such a feature?
ThanX 4 listening to my rambling, comments would be very welcome!
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I completely agree with Hawk. While Achat seems to be for the majority a quick sex fix, for others (myself included) i've formed some very in depth relationships. and would love to have aftersex cuddles to curl up with and talk. I like the suggestions for poses that Hawk made. And I really hope that someone creates them soon.
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I regularly use the FF 69 position kiss as a sort of afterglow position, but yes it is most definitely needed, and needed across the board for all the possibilities.
But then again foreplay is still needed across the board...
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As more often, our wishes exceed the progress the A-team is making. But I am sure they recognize our needs for afterplay are as big as our needs for foreplay. For the majority of users, the other actions are primarily used, for us "nutcases" who want the full experience, there will never be enough positions! lol
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We never will stop asking and fighting for fore- and afterplay. And never forget, a nice afterplay is a good foreplay, too ;)
I agree, I can't understand people seeing in a room for less than 10 minutes, asking the next one. But I don't have to. I wanna take my time, talking, exploring each other, having fun. So foreplay is a must and afterplay would be a perfect end - or a great new beginning :P
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Yes and yes and yes... This is sooo needed. The varying kissing options and the lying foreplay are ok, but far from awesome. Some more intimacy options when it comes to poses would make afterplay and chat even sweeter than it already is.
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Needs something. I honestly feel awkward every time I have to finish playing with someone. The best I can do is just go back to standing in your underwear, have a little chat and then go "whoops, gotta go! Kitchen's on fire!" and bolt.
Of course I then have to log off and might miss on catching up with someone I actually do want to talk to.
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Though I want to have afterplay I think it's ok to leave after sex - it's usual, just like turning and sleeping.
Ok, just kidding. But honestly, both know about finishing. So it's ok to leave without alarm ;) And almost I have to log off, as I have to go to the bathroom ;D So I don't wanna chat at once.
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i think id rather just get the fuck out of there when im finished and realize the chick isnt that attractive
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I voted yes, but I use the laying down naked "foreplay" for after...the only complaint i have is that it does not allow for fingering the pussy, hand jobs, or KISSING...if they add these 3 things, then the naked foreplay can work either way (and i do use it for after sex). I could see them making a spooning version too!
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the other modification I would like to see in some poses is a full penetration "stop" coupled with the ability to play with the breasts, grind,...perhaps kiss. That option to plow in deep, hold it while performing other actions can be hot, intimate or a post actively sensuous,...
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Agree Bear, we talked about in another thread. I want to change speed from fast to stop all movements inside and outside. That would be great :)
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@Lover yes it is the one action that pretty much have to lead to the imagination here,...and we did address this in a buried thread, but I don't think we talked of the second action while performing it, a caress,..kiss clit/breast play or ...clearly the team has the ability to incorporate that and would be such a hot addition to some existing poses
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No, we didn't talk about the second action. Just about stopping action and the speed slider. As we are talking now about this and also talk in another thread about new positions I would love to expand the existing ones.
More actions like you suggested.
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i think id rather just get the fuck out of there when im finished and realize the chick isnt that attractive
So that's why you never room with me anymore?
*sniff*
Bastard.
:P
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Oooh Jenny, if you're all alone now...
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Absolutly ..... After being here awhile i have made a few freinds and very much would like somthing to just cuddle(Yes some men do cuddle)relax and just chat without our avis still getting it on so anything that is cuddleing would be great.
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They could take the missionary position for afterplay. No sex, just kissing, fondling, looking and the possibility to turn around, so the girl is on top. If girl is on top, she can lay the head on man's chest.
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Some of these could be easy modifications to existing poses though Lover. I believe Cowgirl has a nice halting kissing sequence,..which can give a minor pause,...likewise,..Fuck the tits...but there are too few ...
Spoons is another,...caresses...kisses,..to so many parts of her body possible,..F could reach behind,..use her feet to rub along his leg.. I perfer to have that image of intimacy and closeness there,..in the minority perhaps,...but that shared moment can be wonderful in te quiet moments while you recover, catch your breath.
A good partner will share that with you,..too many rush on,..
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With females we can kiss in both poses where we ride each other, with males I have foreplay and the lying side by side pose so some after sex cuddling is kinda possible. With shemales there is nothing like that available as of yet.
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As an after sex pose, I would actually like a pose while sitting down, on the bed or (to introduce) a couch. Either sit next to eachother, cuddle, hold hands and kiss!!!, or have the girl/shemale in my lap. Where stroking a thigh, cupping a breast, kissing neck or just cuddling might be options..
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Sitting on a couch/chair also can be a great foreplay. And a hot sex position, sitting face-to-face and also turned, face-to-back... hmmm, I love it ;D
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I would like poses for sitting in a lap and straddling the lap :P.
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i think id rather just get the fuck out of there when im finished and realize the chick isnt that attractive
So that's why you never room with me anymore?
*sniff*
Bastard.
:P
:S you left the first time after like 1 minute and then removed me from friends
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I would like poses for sitting in a lap and straddling the lap :P.
mmmmmmmmmmmmmhmmmmmmmmmm i sooooooo agree girl besides a quick bang and move on is so over rated i myself would prefer snuggling and kissing(reapeat from other posts lol)
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Ehehe, but its kinda sexy starting the fun in the lap too. :P
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OH YES ! Stop and start button !!!!!!!!! but keep penetration the spoons too just out there ! slowly action can be good ! And again laying on top pose stop lean slowly down towards my face , staring into each others eyes ! Deeply > lips coming closer hmmm the kiss :D
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Laying on top, with the option for the woman to put her legs around him and pull him closer, keeping him in one place maybe.. The male either being able to prop up on his hands, or put his hands under her shoulders for a better hold..
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There`s nothing better then a man`s arms wrapped around me ! With my arms wrapped around his neck , 1 hand touching back of his head , while he lean down to kiss me ! yes I miss embracing ! very much ! I hate this wham , bamm , thank you mamm ! actings !
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sunny likes to choke guys
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@ Unhealer NO ! lol I didn`t word it right > ok I`LL try again > trail my fingers up the back of his neck , rake my fingers through his hair , bring my hand down to softly touching behind his ear , to the touch of his cheek ! NO CHOKING ! LOL I explained better this time ! hahaha ! cause phew ! getting hot in here !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;)
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well that kind of gave me a boner.... just sayin'
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@ Unhealer LOL there we go back to the pole dancing thing again ! ;D
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by pole you mean....?
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Wham bam thank you ma'am is underrated...í'd rather dot i over and over and over again... preferably driving my partner crazy doing it...
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Ehehe, but its kinda sexy starting the fun in the lap too. :P
finishing there too :P
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@ Unhealer LOL what ;D ;D ;D you think I meant > jack and the bean pole ? oh hehehe played that w my friend my Giant . ...........................@ Bear meaning ?
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@sunny....needs explaining? <Mght have to swing by the office sometime and I'll show you...fm version of course
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@Bear ;D Sorry Blond moment > I got it ! hehehehe
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@Bear: Well yes. :P
@Sunny: Good thing your keeping the image of blonds alive, then I don't have to do it in a while. ;D
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Rolling over on your side ! and going to sleep ! LoL > If your wondering why you can`t breath , I`m holding a pillow hard down over your head !.......... ;D
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Or stand in the corner and hold your breath in ssexy blonde ;D
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Rolling over and going to sleep > Punishment making you go another round ! LOL I have my ways >GRIN< ;D