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Discussions about AChat => Share your creative ideas => Topic started by: Kiara_Conach on October 24, 2010, 07:50:04 AM
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Oke serious now, a friend told me about Achat so i went to look into it and downloaded the whole bunch when i saw its looked really nice. now here it comes, i know you have to be logged in to get new clothes things and all that but the minute i did i got swarmed with invites, chats etcetc.. here i was trying to explain some this and getting myself to look "decent" and figuring this program out.
guys really.. if i write i like older guys. look at my age and safe yourself the trouble when youre like 20 years of age to message me. and really there is no need to get all pissed at me when i try to get on the website, get myself premium and dress up incl all the poses you supposely to have or not.
i dont want to look like the basic avatar and i might be a sub but that doesnt mean that im submissive to everything that has a cock... and hetero means NO invites from girls no matter how cute you look.
Alright now i did chat with a few nice ones too but you really expect me to talk to all at the same time ? im not an octopus or an 8 arms creature and if so i still have only one keyboard ::)
soooo.. dont get all upset with me if i dont answer right away it means either im already talking with someone, could mean first days i am shopping around *grins* or the simple fact i am not behind my keboard at that moment.
Would you really want to wait for an answer when chatting for minutes ? or like to have all the attention that very moment knowing i dont try to multitaskchat with like 5 others ?
Now i got this off my chest i hope to meet a few of you soon inthere , either in chat or room ... kisses Kiara :-* 8)
* not here to piss off people but hoping to have a good time so both are happy*
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Kiara,
Welcome to AChat. What you are complaining about has been complained about by pretty much all of us here before you ;)
I was laughing while reading your post. All new people go through it...girls more so than guys with the unending cold invites and chats and wanting to talk with you the minute you log in. There's no stopping the cold invites, people don't really pay attention to what you say in your profile, you're just going to have to pick and choose who you chat with and be polite to the others (or piss them off like someone i know ;) ) and concentrate on the guys you have a good time with
See...I refrained. I saw that you were a new face but I didn't jump right in and start pestering you :D
Bob
ps so what are you shopping for ;D
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Im fairly sure many had the same but really it helped already to write it down hahahahaha.. at least they can't say i never said anything about it + the fact this MAYBE gives others a clue about realising this should be fun for all.
Not really helping to call me a c%& and $#%$&#$#& because i don't answer fast enough.
Glad you had a good time reading it ;D
oh shopping... now there are some nice things outthere on the website so i might going to spend some time trying them all out.
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actually i thought you might be "shopping" for something else ;)
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Sweetie, I'm gay and I still get the guys doing the Cold Invites, even with the profile message. As Bobbler has said, it's just part of the package here at AChat.
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And don't be surprised if people doesn't understand that your just online to chat at times. You can look up "The rude, the crude and the downright nasty." thread if your interested in what you might encounter here.
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Welcome Kiara :D Have a lot of good times and much fun!
Don't get angry, just because some idiots are around here. Just care for the nice guys ;)
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And there are many nice guys on here. The guys that wrote to this post before you, all are. Sohave fun and try to develop elephant skin for the insults and cold invites. The thread Adera suggested does give a good overview of what to expect. But above all: have fun and treat others the way you want to be treated yourself. There will be someone that is nice... :)
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@ Bob.....Had to laugh, while you didn't 'pester' her as a new face ...it Sure didn't take long for you to reply to her post here... Too funny. :D You know I'm just messing with ya... :P
@ Kiara....Welcome and hope you have fun 'shopping.' With such a wide variety of people...there's something for everyone here. Enjoy!
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Never log in when you first wake up.
The ignore button becomes very tempting then when you're half asleep and partly grumpy...
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and :P :P :P to you too Ante. i was just being the nice helpful guy that i am. so what if i flirted a bit ;D
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Oh please, nice helpful guy. Thats like saying Satan helps lil old ladies across the street because it makes him feel good inside. :P :P :P LOL
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Welcome to the Fam .Kiara_Conach and like they all says, it happens to us all. More girls than guys. Most ppl won't read your comments, some just don't care, just decide to pick with you because of it, and some just don't understand english very well. So good luck. ;D
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A "Warm-up" or "Cool down" time could be nice.
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sinnnderella...you're just upset that i singled you out as the one who pi$$es off the guys :P
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now dont get pissed .. pull a number .. found my warming up for sure :) a nice cooling down animation is no where to find though ;D
thanks all for answering me . hahaha almost feel at home now
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Actually, this could also be a good place to tell you that you may log on to find friend requests from people you don't remember talking to. It's not that you forgot talking to them, it's that some seem to just go through the offline lists and send the requests. It baffles me why people would spend their time on such a project, but there you go.
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I thought they just sent it while I was busy online and then I would see it next time, still never heard of most people requesting to be friends with me.
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Maybe I read it wrong, but either way people I've never talked to have sent me friend requests out of the blue without anything resembling an explanation.
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K, Ummm when the hell did you single me out for that? I could care less if I pissed them off, obviously they are doing something WRG if I have to tell them off, lol. :P ::) ;D
Yeah get mad invites for friendship and I NEVER talked to them. There are a few that will send a message with the invite saying, "Hello, I would like to talk and get to know you better. Maybe we can get together sometime." So I'll send a message, talk first then friendship. I just hate adding someone I never talked to(no matter how nice there message is) and find out they are dicks later. :-\
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I did some mistakes in the beginning and added some. If you add them they will most likely ask you to a room and add the word "friend" all the time, its like they're trying to push you by the fact that you have in fact accepted their friendship.
Leaning back I wait for bobblers reply to sinnnns last post. Its so fun to watch you bicker abit :P
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in my first post in this thread ::) come out of that drunken stupor...if you can :P
yes i know you could care less, that's why you have so few friends here :P :P you and your confrontational personality :D
(how's that adera? :) )
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WOW, that was so cruel. You cut deep Bob :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
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@bobbler: Your so in trouble now, I shouldn't have said anything.
@sinnnn: *hug*
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oh stop with the fake tears...i know you better than that
:-*
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Maybe Sinnn"n and Bobbler should start a new thread: "How we bash eachother and still like eachother more...
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Foreplay... ;)
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T bring it back to topic (sorry sinnnn & bobbler, but you have to start your own "old couple thread" :D)
There are free members looking for a relationship with premium members. I also get them; I believe, they hope to get money (gifts) and of course they are searching for a member with all poses & possibilities.
It's better to deny this at once. I'm not sure, but even some of my "friends" are totally unknown to me.
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group hug
*put my arms around your shoulders, giving sinnn a kiss on the right cheek :-* and adera a kiss on the left :-* *
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joins in too asking " where is my kiss ? " and lifts her chin up in expectations. ;)
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well...i know you're not into girls, and you are into older guys, and since i'm too young for you...who exactly would you like to kiss you? ;)
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friendly kiss on my cheek ? she asks ...i promise i behave. :-X
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*place my lips softly on your cheek...soft kiss*
"ladies, i think kiara would like a friendly kiss from both of you"
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"sorry kiara the girls are being shy. thats never happened before trust me ;) i'll have to see if i can loosen them up."
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@ Lover: who says we have to keep this on topic :P
the thread starter asked for a kiss ;D
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No bobbler, the kiss Kiara asked for is ok. I talked about you and sinnnn and your behaviour like an old married couple :D
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I turn my head to Kiara and places a small kiss on her cheek.
Not only group hug, there are also kisses :-*
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Kiara, there are lots of kisses if you look in the right places (not hard to find here though!) And thanks for a nice chat last night. Het was heel gezellig ;)
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Please don't make me vomit when I am about to offer up a friendly peck on the cheek Lover. ;D
:-* there you go K.
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sinnnn, I always love a friendly peck on the cheek - or two, or three, or four....