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Discussions about AChat => Share your creative ideas => Topic started by: Mistress_N on March 06, 2011, 07:53:33 AM
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Today i connected and this was in my message box:
(http://img231.imageshack.us/img231/1690/amenazas.jpg)
I think some people take this game so seriously ::)
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Seeing who it's from, glad you aren't taking it seriously...
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I think the first part of the message doesnt appear in the screenshot. The fact is, a girl offered herself to be my slave and i accepted. After that, this user began his threats. So, this is a relationship of two parts and nobody can force another person, in game, to do that. So, if she accepted is because she wants. And thats all, anyone has to say anything about a relationship in where the two parts agree...
I posted this because I want to share with the rest of the community the fact that despite our darkest fantasies, everyone should talk others with respect. We are all adults and this kind of blames, insults and threats are much more than immature.
Seeing who it's from, glad you aren't taking it seriously...
Well... This is a game, so i never would take this much more seriously than it actually is. Appart from that, i think it is pathetic to say things like that.
Thanks for posting ;)
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The sad part is that some do not fully understand the nature of that relationship. Some though equate gifting with an obligation to serve and/or provide attention on demand, and in the end just get upset after being used as a scrip source.
To repeat Tight', i too knowing the source of the messages I hope you can take whatever stirring of things arises from this with a grain of salt. Hopefully it wilt of its own accord.
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As you may have already guessed the persons name has come up before and it was in a long discussion on servitude in the game and they were mentioned as someone who did NOT get it. It is refreshing to see another who does. :)
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As you may have already guessed the persons name has come up before and it was in a long discussion on servitude in the game and they were mentioned as someone who did NOT get it. It is refreshing to see another who does. :)
Yes. In fact, they doesn't respect the other person. They think that someone offers himself as a slave and treats them as rubbish or objects. They are persons, so they MUST be respected despite what you do, in game, with them.
So, this guy is convinced that he can do whatever he wants with that girl, he doesn't want to know the opinion of the other person, because for him, that girl is just a toy, a furniture, without desires, opinion or wills. And that is insane.
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I'm not really into the owning thing myself, I want to be free and play around but as long as its consensual I think its fine.
Btw I think fighter is in fact violating AChat's TOS by sending you those messages Mistress_N, he should really take it easier or someone will report him.
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@ Mistress_N to be honest, the less time and attention spent on this person, the better it is, a lesson I learned recently from a friend (;)). This person is not worth waisting yor time on..
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Fighter?-rolls eyes- He gives real Doms a bad name so please dont take him seriously and yes it is a violation of the TOS so you got the evidence report him. it would do us all a favor ;)
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Ignore list updated ! ;D
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Pfff who doesn`t know this supposed human being. I join the opinion from Tight and Bear, i would ignore him and don`t get crazy he is not worth it ;)
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:o
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Finally i got answer from support. They just say "add him to your ignore list".
;D
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That wasn't much help... too bad he can continue to backtalk you. :-\
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Better question is, ... is he following through, or was this a moment of wounded pride speaking?
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That is the issue really. All that I can think of however is to keep the messages/screencaps, and if he follows through give them to any and all who ask.
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Better question is, ... is he following through, or was this a moment of wounded pride speaking?
He always have blaming other people in his profile.
And two or three girls have told me that this guy is telling lies and rumours about me.
So it was not a moment of pride speaking.
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The unfortunate truth is that gossip will always be with us, digital format or not.
I would suggest either directing them to this thread or if emailing itself is an option sending them the screencaps directly.
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I really hope that gossip started by him doesn't get much leverage.
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eh,...like stated he always posts something negative in the banner,... but indeed such gossip and is going to be always around. However most will always consider the source of things. and those that believe such? Not certain if you are Bi if not does it matter what the guys think? If so, would you play with anyone who actually plays with him?
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eh,...like stated he always posts something negative in the banner,... but indeed such gossip and is going to be always around. However most will always consider the source of things. and those that believe such? Not certain if you are Bi if not does it matter what the guys think? If so, would you play with anyone who actually plays with him?
It is funny. I check his profile to see who is his next victim for blaming XD
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well bring on ! me i`LL HANDLE IT ! WHAT TH E , F--K sorry agressive girl here !
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Note to self.... never piss off sunny
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@ hatcher sorry my bark is worst then my bite ! Unless you want me to bite you hahahaha !
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Oh please sunny dogs who bark don`t bite :D :P bite me ;) :P catch me i you can :D
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@ Hatcher She handles guns.. and her bark is worse as her bite?
note to self... never piss off Sunny... ;D
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@ You Guy`s come on making me sound like a shrew ! lol ! A little hard headed maybe ! I don`t like to be pushed , bullied in real or cyber ! Only time I ever want to be pushed against a wall ! Better be for passionate attention ! hehehehee ! ;) There is a soft side too ! you know ! ;D have a good day and smile ! Signing off wild filly ! hahahaha
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Really ? hmm.. let me think...sunny...soft side..what happened that you transformed yourself from a recalcitrant mare into a little sweet filly ;D :P no just kidding we all know your soft side ...i guess ;D
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@ Sunny.. I was sure you could take a joke. Still know you do... Have seen your soft side... Love your passion for happiness.. ;)
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Thanks ! I try to stay positive ! Have a good day every one ! SMILE ! It makes the world better ! ;D
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so the word on the street is that fighter is into men
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Hmm I tend to read his description at times... didn't he write there that triton32 was into men? I guess its payback or something now.
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well i just been on the recieving end of this fighter guys warped little mind.
All i can say is what a fool ! and advise anyone approached by this idiot to take real care and use your ignore list !
Love to all except fighter
some people just need to grow up and behave like normal decent respectfull human beings like 99% of achatters !
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Oh yes, this guy just shows how NOT to act on here. He is a lose cannon and a jerk. I have ignored him. I did it a long time ago....he threatened me because he wanted the girl that was my spouse and I told him he couldn't have her, but he wouldn't stop harassing me or her....but we both put him on ignore. Too bad AChat can't log his IP address and do a permanent IP/Credit Card block on him and then cancel his account, but just as all have said, just use the ignore list!
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Omg tried only once w me !
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Well maybe he has no life outside the web..i join the majority and say ignore list!! and pssst...Sunny calm down tiger calm down :-*
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i agree alstott calm down everyone and just be aware of the idiot and use your igores !
Hugs xx
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Pffff He`s opposite in real > and just trying to power trip here , he`s getting tripped just reading about himself ! He lax `s attention in real life ! Kinda sad really !
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i find the best approach is just to ignore them. these insecure persons thrive on attentions and response, just dont give it to them but always report them ;)
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Doesn't seem like they care much for us shemales so we don't have to worry much about them.
I tend to read fighters description at times to see who he's upset with at the moment and then who that person might be... seems like it can get quite dramatic.
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Sad to see matters like this arise, and I am not one to openly call out someone here if they are unlikely to post, let alone read matters here.
Cazzy and others have clearly brought the matter up of the nature of the player.
Honestly, if people are going to play the Dom/Sub role my best advice is to ask around a bit before you get yourself too involved with a supposed Dom. Maybe that's too much to ask of peeps who are here under the assumption of play and fantasy. We tend to forget about the 1% who just don't get it. They can make matters rather uncomfortable if you get tangled in their weave.
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@Bear You can say that again !
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Bear, the sad truth is that it's often too much to ask of those engaging in D/s in real life. So on here we can talk it up, but the realistic expectation will be that idiots like fighter will never lack the next one willing to listen to him.
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Oh boy, reading all this guy have done to others am i happy i have one rule : i know all my partners ;) no coldies, strangers or quickies either unless part of a RP and this "filters" away all the really impatient players from me.Like i sometimes say: "im not a quick fix for ur itch but i have aspirations to be ur remedy" *giggles* and to be a remedy takes insight and knowledge. Any idiot can "click-and-fuck" in this game but few can truly fuck ur mind and thts really the only personal part of us we can, and have to work with. I rather go with one really great experiance a week then 3 mediocre ones per day ;D
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That's it in a nutshell *humbily bows*
This game is big enough for this guy (that has gotten too much attention as it is) to get what he needs, no matter how many adversaris he makes. Remember, most members last less than 6 months then disappear. He stays so there will always be a next victim. As far as I am concerned, the ignore button is a very handy tool to block anyone with a connection approaching me.
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@bear and tightfit and all others !
AGREE TOTALLY.
Ignore and move on !
And bear is totally right !
All friends of mine, who he has goaded into provoking responses, please calm down and use your ignore ! Be discriminating in your choices!
Hugs XXX
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Hmm they dont aproach me ! Maybe I`m too hard head female ! he tried once told him step in line ! hahahaha !
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@sunny
Hes never approached me either ! I just tell em to BOG OFF !
My involvement was purely indirect !
hahahahaha
big kiss X
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Hmmm i miss the good ole`times where guys steppin`outside of a bar and handle this like man ;D ;D no really there will always be guys like this..so do a click and forget him...what was his name again ;) :D
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Settle down weasel ! hahaha ! Those kind usually pick on women < just power tripping > intimadation < does`nt work on me ! Something I`ve over come at a very young age ! sorry if i mispell :D
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lmao he doesnt like when people post shit about him in their description eh.... go figure :o
seriously though, I hear he takes men in his mouth 2 at a time and gargles their think manseed like listerine before cumswapping them both in a 3waykiss dealy...
whats the word for the 3 way kissing by the way? they need to add it but like with like MFF FFF And all the S variations
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no MMM thought, fighter doesnt deserve to get what he wants
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Lol. ::)
Hmm would love to cumswap with Pse. :P
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@Adera ::) hehehe hmmm ;D girly you call me naughty !
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Hmm would love to cumswap with Pse. :P
awww :-* *mouth full of cum* C(v)ome ov(v)er he(v)re bb, k(v)iss m(v)e :P
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Enjoy your juices...but be careful Ladies...don`t talk with your mouth full ;D you could swallowed something the wrong way :P
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Pout * I have to behave myself this afternoon and to night 1 of my brothers is coming over ! hahaha he`ll ask if i learned any thing new on my computer ! lol ;D ::) He`ll know i`m up to something by the look on my face . :)
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Lol... I remember my daughter popping into my office one one day on me when I was roomed luckily only chatting with a friend. She caught a quick glance of the screen before I could minimize, but accepted my rather embarrassed explanation that she caught me playing a SIM module.
Perils of the secret sunny, best you rationalize it as a social chat scene,.which it is...
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@Bear haahaha ! I almost got caught with my pants down last summer ! ;D By one of my cottagers, I was so embarrassed ;D
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My mom has a key to my house and walked in unannounced. I just had time to button up my pants, but she got a full view of "forced doggy' luckily she just smiled but I was as red as a tomatoe...
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who gives their mom a key?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EOzoaM0v3w
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EOzoaM0v3w
now u got me laughing, for the first time ;) good boy ;D
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@Tight hahahaha ! ;D
Needless to say ! The guy is coming back , w his wife this season ! Hmm did I stumble across a new marketing plan ? lol :D ;)
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Tss Tss Tss...i raise my fingers and say bad bad Girl ;) ;D ;D
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I was just joking ! ;D Bite me big weasel ! When I work in the gardens ,I always have a cover up near me ! Some of these male cottagers ( MARRIED ONE `S ) They seem to have a need to talk , or ask if I need help ! I think it`s the bathing suit I`m wearing 1 LOL ::) Not going down that road again ! hahaha !
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well a duck tape isn`t a cover up ,hehehe ;D oh and don`t forget to trim the bush(es) in your garden :P ;D
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Funny 1 of my friend's was banned for saying less..than what fight said..but i see he's still on..and she's not..
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Banning seems severe... no warning shot across the bow to tone it down?
He provokes others with his behavior... some will react harshly and emotionally to his behavior. There is no other out there who constantly banners BY NAME his feelings towards others.. Clearly this thread is filled with many references... and the numbers out there not posting here which would multiply that immensely.
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I haven't run into this guy either. I think he doe spick his fights carefully, picking only those that are vulnerable enough in their descriptions.
On the other hand, I've had subs offering themselves to me... :o I didn't take them up on their offer, mainly because I'm not up to that kind of responsibility and for me, being only mildly into it and a switch, it's very uncomfortable to be the presence they require all the time.
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I've also had a few subs offering themselves to me and like Ardeur I don't feel that I'm really up for it... for me its more of a kinky play that can be used at times. I don't think they have any idea whom they're offering themselves to when they ask me... seems crazy from my perspective. :P
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It is primarily kinky play here, I seriously doubt that many fully immerse themselves into that role. Though guys tend to do so with a alpha mentality of creating harems ::), but miss the point of the true relationship of the play TPE requires time commitment and dedication on both sides to appreciate the relationship of the rp, something not as prevalent here as on other sites. "free sub" mentality is the dominate play here.
For that I have avoided taking a "sub" due to that (Up to this point that is ;D ) though I have been told my style of play suggests otherwise. As one lover said, when she has that "subby" need come across her, she knows who to go to. ;)
Blind offers are should be taken with a grain of salt, really they are just searching at that point for partners to test and experience the play with an individual.
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Funny....I have a friend... Magic who was banned for saying less than what fighter has said..and he has called me everything in the book..but he is still here..just cuz he's from the EU..guess it make's him better ..keep it up..and u will lose..me and other's...
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I'm just glad I don't get bothered by those guys... only request I've had from them was to participate in a 3some, other than that I don't think they're interested in transsexuals at all.
Btw... have anyone reported him?
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Seeing what you all are writting, this guy seems lke an Internet Tough Guy to me...what I don't understand is why hasn't he been banned yet. The forum, at least, looks like a bit of a carebear community (if you'll excuse an old troll) so I kind of supposed that the game would be just the same.
I've dealt with an awful lot of ITGs in my e-life, so my best advice would be to use that handy ignore button and move on. The guy doesn't even have a blog or a page where he could harass you, so ignoring him would be the end of the story.
Otherwise, you could bait him into having a really funny meltdown...then report him. That's the comedy option but it's usually oh so satisfying.
Oh, well...I've only met nice people in here until now, but there are idiots everywhere.
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Pffff He`s opposite in real > and just trying to power trip here , he`s getting tripped just reading about himself ! He lax `s attention in real life ! Kinda sad really !
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sad to say...that was said on page 3 of the thread...quick someone telll me who to be a dick to so everyone will talk about me for 5 pages and I can wallow in the attention....ya know its like the say about publicity...there's no such thing as bad publicity and attention isnt any different...I knew fighter was a piece of shit before I ever looked at the forum...too many taglines spent feeding his ego.