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Discussions about AChat => Share your creative ideas => Topic started by: hiyapie on April 04, 2011, 01:00:01 AM
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So i understand people get turned on by seeing real pics of their sex partner but I think it gets a little weird and I even get freaked out when people ask for my pics. I come online for the fun and fantasy of the sex. In real life, I am a virgin mormon girl in a small town but I got curious so Ive come here. What I want to know is how you guys feel about swapping pics
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It is not a necessity,...but I don't see it as weird. I had a young friend who was pushed hard for pic swapping bu an older guy... honestly I'll tell you the same as I told her.
Do what feels right, stick to your guns. If you feel uncomfortable, then say no. If they are a good friend, they will accept that answer, if they don't then move on. There are plenty of nice guys out there who will respect those wishes. But mind you, there are plenty of jerks who don't.
No way to immediately sort that out. I can't state it enough, do what you are comfortable with and ignore the pressure of giving in, just to make a so called friend.
You start doing things you don't like doing, or feel uncomfortable about, you'll lose the enjoyment of the experiences here.
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Bear as usual sums it up very well. Swapping pics should be done out of free will. If you don't feel comfortable with it, then don't do it.
AChat in my eyes is a place to live out fantasies and as long as you don't damage anyone else with your fantasies, anyting goes. Yet, as it works in rl, there should be respect for the wishes and boundaries of others. Crossing boundaries will diminish the experience and will leave scars.
Follow your own rules and guard them. If anyone tries to make you do something in heart you don't want, they don't have the respect they should have and they should be ignored. Which can be hard at times..
I wish you strength to hold on to your own believes!
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active mormon on this game? theres a lot to talk to your bishop about
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Ok I had bad experience w the married guy ! W my social wall > I learned my lesson < I`m more careful who I invite ! And Bear is right , dont do anything that makes you uncomfortable ! But I do like to show people my real smile > especially ones I like ! Not like I do naked pic`s > back side is far as I go !
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I share what I chose to share when I chose to share it, and if someone pushes then I feel they are NOT the ones to share it with.
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Oh I had a bad expiriance here..well not bad ...bout swapping pics....fell for it in the first week I joined AChat....anyways I got crappy pics back...I sworn never do that again...THANK GOD I sended her a portrait photo lol
So no go for me since that day hehehe
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I rather not share pictures with people here, good thing many understands when I tell them so. :)
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I have a few friends on my social wall , I dont mind showing my smile . I respect others opinions ! ;) Ok I did have to show my X- mass tree w the angle holding crown royal bottle in 1 hand and a fake blunt in the other ! heheehe !
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active mormon on this game? theres a lot to talk to your bishop about
no problem with the bishop, i got him in high heels, hosery and suspenders, ball gagged in my closet. so Hiyapie just play away bb, have fun *giggle*
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haha gross...
I only assume she's active because she referred to herself as a mormon, I used to be one myself but I'm not active lol
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::) Bishop ?
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A pic can be nice ! But bear is right, stick to your guns !
and a little personal plea ! Im no prude and Im quite uninhibited, but gawd
a little more decorum in some of the pics would be refreshing ! Style wins my heart !
Love and Hugs XXX
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Joining the choir here, just think and feel, then do what you feel comfortable with. Anyone who DEMANDS pics is not worth your time, as easy as that.
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I`m picky ;D ;D
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awwww, thanks guys! As for the bishop thing ( he's like my pastor or something) I havent physically lost my virginity and Im not obsessed with sex, just curious, so I think there is nothing wrong with it. again, thanks. I feel so much better
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Curiosity is very natural and very human. I know for my part I just wanted to make sure you were comfortable with that, but happily you are.
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lol you should dump the mormon business, I know eventually I had a giant wall of lies. I actually developed a mormon alter-ego after a while just to talk to my dad and all of these mormon guys who couldnt turn their preaching switch off.
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If you feel you wanna send a pic, ask your partner. But be sure, this is the intnernet - and you never know the other one good enough. If the other one is asking you once and you disagree... and he is asking on and on, just tell him "no" and then forget him.
It's very simple, as the other told you: Do, what you wanna do and do not, what you don't wanna do. A real nice partner always will accept this.