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Discussions about AChat => Share your creative ideas => Topic started by: Adera on April 25, 2011, 05:57:20 PM
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Sorry about this but I have to vent a little.
The thing is that a lot of girls will only play with guys for gifts while they almost beg me to fuck them, if they're so damn horny for cock I think they should play with guys... that's what I do at least.
Feels like the general belief is that guys must pay for sex, if there's no guy around to pay for it (even if your damn horny) you ask a shemale (because they are the obvious top) to fuck you. Well there are of course shemales that like to do it like that and are fine just playing the top but for me its a real turn off because I like a more girly time and sometimes I really want to be the bottom.
Anyway I hope females have a better time with them.
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Guess you could give them a taste of their own medicine and post you only fuck oirls for scrip.
If I am made to feel that I have to pay then I move on... good riddance.
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Awwwwww sweety *HUGS TIGHT* I know lots of whoring here :'( , cause gifts should come from the heart.
I never begged for one..just met someone that spoiled me rotten lol.
But I have to admit I,v never been with a shemale...dunno why though :-\, guess I'm open for that. ;)
Anyways your to sweet to be ignored. :-*
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Vent away Sweetie. You're among friends. Not surprising what you are encountering though. Before it was "Girls free, guys for A$." Now after the shemale implement it's "Girls and shemales free, guys for A$." Same crowd really.
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@Bear: Ehehe naaah, I don't think I'll write that. :P
@Sandra88: *hugs back* If its from the heart I think its okay if they spoil you. ;)
@Janine: I'm curious to how they approach things with another female, have you ever played with them?
The girls I feel a little bad about is the ones that should have "bi curious" in their profile rather than "bisexual" (if the option was there).
When some of these girls wants to explore their sexuality they seem to go for shemales first when they should in my opinion try a lesbian. Its quite obvious that many of them have only been with guys before and for some reason they think I'll be happy as long as I get to push my cock into something like some horny teenage boy.
If they played with a lesbian first they might get a little enlightened and understand that for example my breasts aren't just there for display. As it is now I'm I've taken to declining most girls since I don't want to be their guy when there are real guys around already.
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well you know I say that tongue in cheek with sarcasm... :P
I have a couple of friends who definitely work the system, and because I rarely gift, I know they come to me because they appreciate me as an individual and my style of play. Ante' hated gifts, as she put it she did not like the sense of obligation. The corruption and use of scrip for buying attention polluted motive behind the gift in her mind.
Which is kind of the issue, the women you enjoy playing with are those who see you, who take that moment to pierce labels and find the soul. :-*
When you speak of the "bi curious" you are hitting the nail on the head. The lack of experience, probably too a lack of exposure and interaction in RL of those who live the life of a shemale. I hope you take that moment , (which isn't always available) to breach and and teach, let them understand the spectrum of attitudes.
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Honestly I don't really let them approach too close. I get a "Hi" or a "Hello Sexy" or sometimes maybe something a little elaborate, but whenever I first talk to a person the first thing I do is bring up their profile, and if I see the Girls and shemales free, guys for A$. I tend to either ignore entirely or brush them off.
I'm sure some are sincere, but knowing their are selling their virtual ass is just too big of a turn off.
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I don't pay for sex and as I have become very picky in my partners and hardly ever look for new contacts (keeping up with the current ones takes me enough energy ;D), I skip the profiles Janine mentioned too. I am looking for a real contact, as real as it gets in here. That is not what most of the members are looking for. Found out that someone who fits to my style, is hard to find. And the ones that do, I cherish and take care of. With attention that is, because I hardly ever gift friends/lovers or spouses.
For the girls that only room for scrip (btw, what's the origin of that word?) with guys, I feel a bit sorry for them, they are missing out on some cool dudes..
Adera, though it can be nice to be a guide, I can so imagine you sometimes want to be spoiled, pampered. The way you like best..
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I guess I could teach but then it would have to be someone I find genuinely interesting and I'm afraid most are blinded about the fact that I have a cock... that's why I'd like to see the bi curious girls play with another female first.
I just think its nice to look around a little at times and quite often I try to converse with the people that try to get in touch with me even if its just takes a few sentences to find out what they're after.
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@Tight from an American English language speaker (distincting that since The American version often has it's own adoption and bastardization of certain words...) source of the word is rather blurred. I do like looking at word sources.. best I can come up with is that it derives from a Dutch source... in it's rawest form meaning "subscription receipt" a form of currency used in the early days of the Dutch stock market. Probably in it's roots a deviation of the latin word of "scibe". I think the french translation is "script" , which may have influenced the initial words source if indeed it is of Dutch origin.
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@Bear, though it is a coincidence that I picked this word to ask about it's origin, it's astounding to read that it might have dutch roots. I don't know, a coincidence sticking out...lol Thanks for the explanation!
Adera, though I only go in search of a new contact if I feel like it, I never turn down a conversation. It's for play that I tend to stick with my friends. I'd never deny a nice chat, though most talks are about one thing and I have no judgement on that. It's what the game is for ;D It's dictated by my mood. And as far is teaching is concerned.. someone has to out they want to be taught as well...
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@ Adera you were niceenogh to answer some of my questions > I thank you for that >Thats why I just think of you as my female friend : Damn girl we have fun giggling and teasing the guys ! hehehe ! >Tight < can`t wait for our next victim ! lol
@ Tight I`m picky as well ,and is hard to keep friends happy , some times ! I try ! :D
@ Bear hahaha ! Damn man you just gave me a brian freeze !
As far as experimenting with same sex wont happen with me ! ilove the male species WAY TOO MUCH !
SOME GET MAD IF I DON`T ANSWER !> Not possible all the time !
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I totally understand Adera`s frustration...a lesbian girl wanted sex with me only to make her spouse jealous oh yeah this make sence.....and then after the sixth time as one of the girls offers me sex for gift or A$ i decided to have a lil conversation with one of them,she was also a lesbian btw, i said i checked your profile and there stands you`re a lesbian ,right? she said yes,i said so what you wanna do with me in the room i mean you like it to fuck with guys? she said only for A$ or gifts if i wanna have fun i go with my girls and when i need a cock i go to shemales , i said so you understand why i don`t wanna go with you in the room , she said no why you don`t like sex, okay at this point i decided to teach her a lil lesson , i asked her how much you wanna for a ride? she said 400A$ ,okay i give you 10A$ we have a lil foreplay so you can show me a little bit and then i give you the rest, after 5 minutes she came back and agreed , so we went into the room and after 1 minute of boring touching i said well that doesn`t work so i`m goin' to leave the room oh and btw you owe me 10 A$.....and damn after that she wrote me i`m on her ignore list what a shame i wanted to ask her for a 3some with her girlfriend,no I´m jk::) ;D
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This can be frustrating ! I want what I want , don`t have time or time zones suck !
And most here play as a game , ya I know a game ?
Give me a break ! I have trouble with that !
I vented so bad >lost it on a guy < wanted to borrow my mouth for 5 minutes >I asked him < are you double jointed ? > him < no why <me < To bad then cause you can just suck yourself off !
Hell I feel frustrated for the lack of education , I have in this big cyber world ! Not ashame to admit it !
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@ sunny Mmm,... (brian freeze? another Canadian term? ;D) jkn ... there is only so much time... a reason why I don't press too deep...either a person likes you and makes time for you, or has a full table and the matter is nothing personal.
@Alstott pretty much hit it on the head regarding why I don't play with that type... they aren't interested and it shows in the play.
@Adera I understand your viewpoint, as much as you are a free spirit at play here, there is still a a perception that you want of others to hold of you. The treatment of this group towards you is just as bad as their stance and viewpoint of the male hetero. In both cases shortsighted and extremely selfish.
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Like to make a short comparison with another game. Let's say monopoly.
1. Both games gave personalised figures to play with.
2. in both games you are rewarded when being ruthless to your fellow players
3. There is a singular goal in each game. IN AChat it's sex, and monopoly it's money.
I know the comparison is short and open for debate, the point I want to make is that maybe these are the rules of the game, as they are carried and performed by the majority of players. That combined with the biggest asset/downfall of AChat, the (relative) anonimity you have here. Call yourself "GodofAchat" and be really rude to people, and everyone will know you as godofachat. Get a new profile and you can be the nicest guy/gal/shemale in the world. The anonimity gives people the opportunity to be rude, thoughtless, selfish, without having to consider actual consequences. You just get a new profile..
By all means, I don't mean to debate complaining about it, that's what the forum is for. And the more people read it, the more hopefully become aware. Wishing for a friendlier AChat at times..
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Bear... ever eat ice cream or another frozen food too quickly and get a resulting headache? That's brain freeze.
Adera... honey, the sad truth is that stereotypes exist because it's easier then getting to know someone. Real world or digital people tend to make up a good deal of their mind before having any experience with the subject.
Tight... While I won't argue your game analogy I feel it's a simple truth of the net that people will say and do things that they otherwise wouldn't because they are sitting behind a comp. In the better cases it can be like us here making friends in countries we will likely never visit, and being able to express ourselves sexually in ways that would have WAY too many complications in the flesh.
In the worse cases you have those who say and do things like we're talking about.
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@Sunny: Ehehe let's tease lots. :P
I wonder if they actually have a good time playing AChat? Feels like its just going to be a short thrill for them without meeting any really interesting people... but then again, maybe they don't even want to open up themselves.
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@Janine I know what a Brain freeze is... not certain if brian freeze is the same... (just teasing her spelling snafu)
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LOL sorry
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Adera, I think they have as much fun as watching porn at home and getting off. When I started I saw AChat as an intercative porn movie. Much more interesting as porn (find porn interesting for a few minutes and then... ;) ). Once I started meeting sweet, caring, interesting people, (some blew me away), the game got more dimensions and my preferences got more specific, much more interesting.
Most people see the game as an interactive porn movie. Interesting for a few minutes a day, with never having the intention to communicate anything else but oooo's and aahhh's..
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Well I am not going to make a short sighted assumption of their play, they may find extensive satisfying action in their realm, and look only to guys as a means of supporting their activities here, though I might take offense to their approach it might just arise due to the vast numbers of guys whose approach is a turn off to them.
*shrugs* no concern of mine..., disturbing though that Adera is looked on that way as simply a "cock" for the moment.rather then recognizinfg the fun play she can also offer.
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Don't get angry bout whores. They are not worth it. I only casn repeat myself: There are enough nice girls around (just take a look at this forum ;)) , you don't have to pay any silly sluts.
PS: I've seen some guys with "I love Achat" in their banner. I think they really have written this and not AChat? Or do they wanna get paid, lol.
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If I were to hazard a guess they are offering to pay, and managing to trip the moderate.
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If you'd really like to know, look up the profile on the member's pages on the website. The moderate doesn't work there...
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Sherlock Tight, well done!
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Tight is quite the smarty pants !
you contribute alot > crunching huggs > deep wet kisses !!!
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@Tight....the term means....(courtesy of wikipedia)Scrip is an American term for any substitute for currency which is not legal tender and is often a form of credit. Scrips were created as company payment of employees and also as a means of payment in times where regular money is unavailable, such as remote coal towns, military bases, ships on long voyages, or occupied countries in war time. Other forms of scrip include subway tokens, arcade tokens and tickets, and "points" on some websites.
was ''money'' for the company store.....
....as to the topic...I put the whore on ignore....I am completely blown away by the misuse of the word bisexual....honey you your tagline says no males...you aint bi...be honest if youre bi in real but only playing with women...call yourself a lez....cuz it aint right you sendin messages to your friends gigglin cuz a guy just hit on you...a bisexual woman in a sex based chat...my my isnt he foolish hittin on you?
I dont like men but if the man has tits I'll love her to death....no offense to the shemales....but some of the profiles n taglines I read...only bodily fluid achat helps me drain is piss....from laughin
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Actually it wasn't me that discovered it. I'd feel bad flaunting with the discovery of someone else.. I'll find the post and quote it here...
@Tigershark. Thanks for the answer. And welcome to the forum...
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Thanks Apollo :)
Okay, I was reading some posts and I read one about the "I Love AChat" filter they've been doing to our profiles IN CLIENT!
I put the "in client" part because if you come to the website and search for the person and read their profile here, IT SHOWS THEIR REAL DESCRIPTION. Yes, I realize it is a lot of work, but if you really want to know what they are trying to say, it helps.
@Sunny I'll keep you to those kisses... ;)
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I like guys lean ! Sorry when Im in the room I`m the only female there ! ::)
Shemale here are fine w me < I said sorry to me > I told her > hey its ok , no prop , it`s nice just to say hello , and have a nice day !
@ tiger shark is really a pussy cat ! :-*
@Tight :-*
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well another weird experience tonight...a girl asked me for room...i said get me interested...so yep she get me...and then in the room after a couple of minutes foreplay and teasing...she left the room and send me a message....500A$...what the f****ck...i prefer to blow my money outta the smokestack before i give 'em...so go on search for hustlers but not me...biatch
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It gets eerie at times:
her: what kinda rp?
me: usually, romantic, location-based rp's. you?
her: i like incest lol
me: that is not my thing.. too close for comfort as I have a daughter
her: its okay
me: each their own taste ;)
her: lol, im okay with incest because me and my dad actually do have sex on occasion
wtf?????
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Okay I twitched when I read that one Tight.
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Not dismissing anyone's fantasy. Whatever turns you on, but a comment like that...
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Oh god... Thight, I know you lost everything that moment.
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Stomach turned. Thank god for the ignore button....
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theyre all guys with female avatars, theres only 2 chicks on achat and theyre old and fat like blacksea lmao
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blacksea is a whore on there who manages to be on the front page every day somehow
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People certainly have a right to their fantasies, but admitting to an incestuous relationship would be fall under over share IMHO.
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Mmhm... that's one of the comments that makes me walk away wide eyed.
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Mmhm... that's one of the comments that makes me walk away wide eyed.
come sweetie, walk right into my loving bossom. i will comfort you and take all your worries away *lovingly embracing u while softly kissing ur forehead comforting* :-*
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I guess there are girls blessed/cursed with fathers that fit the mold of "little girl's hero" too well. I'd draw the line between girl seduces her hero and daddy takes the love for his little girl too far (and too early).
A man stands little chance when a cute/pretty young woman locks in on his heat-signature.
After all that, it still is not my cup of tea, but I can imagine how such a relationship can develop without any further issues (abuse, mental problems, three eyed babies) ;)
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Well it's okay when someone's adore or praise his mom or dad but if they start to think about havin' a physical relationship with 'em and try to make it real...this is the point for me when they crosses the line and parents who take advantage of it...that's wicked an absolutely no go for me.
Oh btw i had one of those experiences..well it was more a lolita thing..as i hooked up with an 5 year older woman as i am..her daughter was 15 almost 16 first she only searches for closeness and the feeling of secutity but then she tried to seduce me all the time but i never took advantage of it..to make a long story short..i split up with her mother cause i couldn't handle the whole situation at this time.
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@Pse: Mmm... can I have ice cream too? :P :-*
@Ardeur: Your probably right and I don't really know how that could be avoided... determined dad and a long talk with the girl maybe.
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@Pse: Mmm... can I have ice cream too? :P :-*
but ofcourse sweetie. which part of me do u wanna lick it off from? ;) :P
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Oh wherever I can, though someplace which makes you gasp and breath more heavily would be fun. ;)
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Let's just dip her in it and lick it of from everywhere. We hang her by the hands and start at the toes. ;D
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oh god yes girls :P my fridge is fully stocked, when r u cummin?
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Might push one up her ass slowly and see how she'll react. Don't worry though dear, I will clean you up *licking my lips*. :P
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hmmm and there are so much things u can do with breast gently kiss them swirl with ur tung over them bite in the nipple and pull but id love to tease them by kissin lickin and nibblin my way round the breast slowly go towards the nipple but avoid it for awile and then gently start to suck on it mmm and at the same time u sometimes go back towards the neck place some kisses all the way till u are behind the ear and then slowly down again to the breast yummyyyyyy :P :-* ;D
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Hehe, I've put in my profile for cold inviters to pay a ridiculous amount of A$ for cold inviting me (obviously a bluff I don't want their money) and I haven't gotten as many colds as I have been.