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Sorry Azrielle, they are great songs - and I love that film too.

2 more for the list   

Lady in red -    Chris De Burgh
Love Serenade - Barry White  ( Theres just something about this guy's voice mmm mmm )

1) A nice profile, where a player has been inventive with his words - tagline  and look, even free players should try and make the effort
2) An unusual chat up - not dirty on first contact - but suggestive and respectful or even just plain friendly which could lead to an interesting rp
3) Hate it when a conversation has started or in mid flow and suddenly the other person has roomed without telling you .. its just plain rude.
4) Like confidence and a little bit of arrogance, keeps the conversation fun and interesting
5) A sense of humour and play on words
6) Descriptive narrative - like rl rp dating
7) Begging, really hate begging in first contact chat ( Beggings ok, after a lot of teasing in the room lol .. or even better if my man goes caveman on me hehe)
VAVA VOOM - chemistry mmmmmmm
9) A refusal is a refusal - take it in good humour and move on ... its not personal - I could be busy or just not have the same tastes.
10) Hate a person being rude because I havent answered right away - I usually have a good reason and do try and answer as soon as
11) What actually turns me on ... mmm thats the fun part finding out  and vice versa  hehe

Definitely an ALL for me too. Knowing my partners reaching this point  and exploding makes feel fabulous and empowered. Love him shooting his load, if its inside its good and if its outside and reachable, I love massaging it slowly into my skin so he knows he has marked his territory with his scent and then licking my fingers seductively  afterwards while he watches mmmm mmmm - delicious - keep eating that fruit boys
Where I cum? .. mmm I really dont care when I've reached that point - I am lost in my own little world

At some point , you'll always meet someone here and ask this particular question.. What if we met in real life... ?

I agree with all the safety net advice that other members have posted.

 Always meet in public.
 Always tell someone where you are going with a code call     but remember this too

Putting all the emotional turmoil aside and getting down to the bare bones ...this is an erotic fantasy sex site , not a dating site and is not perhaps the best place to meet a potential partner. If you are looking for love ... look elsewhere ... if you are looking for hot brain sex .. then kiddo you have hit gold

Enjoy your game and all that goes with it 

You got my vote , mmmm , bring on the glistening wetness ... mmmm. More the better.

How could I not add to this one...  Yes we need more kissing and cuddling. I'd particularly like a (1)  snog ( deep kissing ) (2) a lighter kiss  and (3) a cuddle added to the " Foreplay " pose lying on the bed. Its a good pose for foreplay , afterplay and general chatting.
I've bought it up before in another thread  but never say never and I will keep plugging it.
I'm sure I'm not the only one who feels the same.  Nothing better than feeling strong arms around you, holding you safe. mmm.
Come on Achat, make my heart smile more

Hiya,   I can identify with these phases and have travelled up and down 1 to 4 a few times hehe ...  I guess it depends how you view and play the game. I like to virtual date, with a lot of descriptive narrative and of course hot talk when the date ends in a promise mmm.  So, i guess, therefore ,by the very nature of such play .. you tend to get close to like minded players. I can hit phases 3 & 4 quite easily
I like this way of playing as you can get the poses to fit your date and can be extremely hot and satisfying. Less is definitely more at times in regard to pose hopping. Dates can be as long or as short as you want or even running on in episodes. Its great when you find a partner who can ad lib like you and inspire each other. 
By the way, the log cabin has opened up a realm of possibilites to players like me - really like the homely fireplace and location in the mountains , the imaginative kitchen, decking... lol. Walks in the woods, walks / horse riding around a mountain lake, boat rides under the stars ... it just fires the imagination... can you tell I'm a romantic soul?  lol. 
I doubt if phase 5 will ever be on the cards for me though.
No matter what phase you are in though, or how you play your game - enjoying it, being respectful to other players and meeting new people is whats important The fantasies know no end ..hehe