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Woman with man in AChat / Re: Easiest Approach to Maximize your success with some of the ladies
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Share your creative ideas / Full Blown Profiles
« on: May 31, 2012, 03:48:15 AM »
I would like the ability to have full blown profiles we can customize. (like myspace profiles, IMVU etc) We would be able to make our presence much more defined.
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Woman with man in AChat / Easiest Approach to Maximize your success with some of the ladies
« on: March 28, 2012, 09:38:38 PM »
This is just my personal opinion of what works the best on me. I cannot speak for the other ladies on this site.
#1 Stay away from loaded room requests. A loaded room request is a non-specific request for cybersex:
"Want to come to my room and play?"
"Lets go to my room and fuck"
"Let go into a room and get nasty!"
These questions are loaded because of the non-specific nature. We would be going into a room for YOUR pleasure, not mine. The best way to get me into a room is to appeal to what I want or to attempt to get me interested in a certain fantasy you may have.
Non Loaded Room Requests that get a response:
"I would like to go private with you and talk about your fantasies" (super hot. I always want to talk about my fantasies)
"You are so hot. I would really like some alone time with you to talk about your secret desires" (Compliment ME followed by wanting to know MY interests)
Non Loaded specific sex request:
"Would you like to go private because I really want to lick your beautiful toes." (foot fetish. Specific interest stated I know what to expect if I go into a room with you removing awkwardness and making me hot with a compliment.)
The key really is to show interest in what SHE wants because people love talking about themselves. The problem with many men on here is they talk about sex from a very greedy perspective. "I love fucking girls in the ass and making them cum...I love (insert perversion here) until they cum....I..I..I.
The psychology makes the girl feel like a sex mule.
If you want success with girls like me...make it pleasurable and centered around our interests. Achat females get dozens of greedy messages everytime they log in hearing about what guys want. Make it about what we want and see your success rate soar.
Edit 1:
Remember:
#1. Always chat first, do not 'cold' invite to room. In chat you should be respectful. I never get turned on by ANYTHING said in the initial chat (this is just me personally) I need to build rapport before I start to get hot. So messages like "HEY BABY U WANNA BIG MANDINDO COCK?" typically gets ignored.
#2. Initial invite to private should ALWAYS be to get to "know eachother better." Sex happens naturally in real life..it is very rarely scripted and planned. It should be no different in the virtual space. "Wanna go to a room to play?" Turns me off due to the expectancy of being naked the second I walk in. "Lets go to a room and talk about our interests more" is so much more effective.
#3. I get turned on by emotes and actions. Not by questions. The roleplay is so critically important in cybersex. Instead of simply asking "Do you like it in the bum?" (Monster mood-killing, theme-slaying question) maybe emote and mix in the question Example:
*Rubs your ass gently while looking into your eyes.* I enjoy anal...I would love the opportunity to pleasure you with some, if the lady is willing.
The only thing we have virtually is creativity. If there is nothing creative in your mannerisms...its easy to lose the mood.
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EDIT 2: Great approach today. No dirty talk, just a firm sophisticated repectful approach. I blacked out the name for privacy
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****: Hi there, My name is Greg. Business owner from New York. How is your evening?
Kadanu: Great, I'm just hanging out, chatting and making new friends. I'm Kad from Cape Town.
****: Its a true pleasure meeting you Kad. I love your profile and based on your pic, you have a face to die for.
Kadanu: Thank you for the compliment! I'm glad you like it!
****: Listen Kad, I'm fairly new here but I have some very erotic interests and a sophisticated taste.
****: If you have a moment I would like to speak privately with you to see if theres a compatibility between us.
Kadanu: Sure, I'd love an invite.
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Home run for Greg!
#1 Stay away from loaded room requests. A loaded room request is a non-specific request for cybersex:
"Want to come to my room and play?"
"Lets go to my room and fuck"
"Let go into a room and get nasty!"
These questions are loaded because of the non-specific nature. We would be going into a room for YOUR pleasure, not mine. The best way to get me into a room is to appeal to what I want or to attempt to get me interested in a certain fantasy you may have.
Non Loaded Room Requests that get a response:
"I would like to go private with you and talk about your fantasies" (super hot. I always want to talk about my fantasies)
"You are so hot. I would really like some alone time with you to talk about your secret desires" (Compliment ME followed by wanting to know MY interests)
Non Loaded specific sex request:
"Would you like to go private because I really want to lick your beautiful toes." (foot fetish. Specific interest stated I know what to expect if I go into a room with you removing awkwardness and making me hot with a compliment.)
The key really is to show interest in what SHE wants because people love talking about themselves. The problem with many men on here is they talk about sex from a very greedy perspective. "I love fucking girls in the ass and making them cum...I love (insert perversion here) until they cum....I..I..I.
The psychology makes the girl feel like a sex mule.
If you want success with girls like me...make it pleasurable and centered around our interests. Achat females get dozens of greedy messages everytime they log in hearing about what guys want. Make it about what we want and see your success rate soar.
Edit 1:
Remember:
#1. Always chat first, do not 'cold' invite to room. In chat you should be respectful. I never get turned on by ANYTHING said in the initial chat (this is just me personally) I need to build rapport before I start to get hot. So messages like "HEY BABY U WANNA BIG MANDINDO COCK?" typically gets ignored.
#2. Initial invite to private should ALWAYS be to get to "know eachother better." Sex happens naturally in real life..it is very rarely scripted and planned. It should be no different in the virtual space. "Wanna go to a room to play?" Turns me off due to the expectancy of being naked the second I walk in. "Lets go to a room and talk about our interests more" is so much more effective.
#3. I get turned on by emotes and actions. Not by questions. The roleplay is so critically important in cybersex. Instead of simply asking "Do you like it in the bum?" (Monster mood-killing, theme-slaying question) maybe emote and mix in the question Example:
*Rubs your ass gently while looking into your eyes.* I enjoy anal...I would love the opportunity to pleasure you with some, if the lady is willing.
The only thing we have virtually is creativity. If there is nothing creative in your mannerisms...its easy to lose the mood.
--
EDIT 2: Great approach today. No dirty talk, just a firm sophisticated repectful approach. I blacked out the name for privacy
--
****: Hi there, My name is Greg. Business owner from New York. How is your evening?
Kadanu: Great, I'm just hanging out, chatting and making new friends. I'm Kad from Cape Town.
****: Its a true pleasure meeting you Kad. I love your profile and based on your pic, you have a face to die for.
Kadanu: Thank you for the compliment! I'm glad you like it!
****: Listen Kad, I'm fairly new here but I have some very erotic interests and a sophisticated taste.
****: If you have a moment I would like to speak privately with you to see if theres a compatibility between us.
Kadanu: Sure, I'd love an invite.
----
Home run for Greg!
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Everything about sex and love / More Social Positions in Rooms
« on: March 28, 2012, 06:35:48 PM »
I am new to the forum so excuse me if this has been covered.
I would like to see more social poses. Sitting, hugging, kissing etc in private rooms. A big part of the fantasy for me is building rapport with other people and the more social animations the better.
I would like to see more social poses. Sitting, hugging, kissing etc in private rooms. A big part of the fantasy for me is building rapport with other people and the more social animations the better.
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