Now I have to defend free users. Not all of them are... sorry for words "stupid young boys" sending cold invites. Most time on Achat I was free member and sometimes I was upset couse I have many problems with normal exsisting on chat. I started this discussion to create fair way to all users. Now I have a luck and Im Prem member, but truly I wonder if I can still use forum when I will lost this prem. But its another idea which I will tell later.
First of all most of You dont like idea to be informed that Your friend is waiting for You. I try to explain again my idea. I try to do it in points:
1. Message - should be sent by person, not automaticly when person log on chat. So there is no possibility to get 2,3, or 50 msg. It should be only one chance to sent msg.
2. Content of message - should be automatic for example "MRXYZ want to see You" or "MRXYZ is waiting for You". Content of message CANT be individual cause some of people could write unnecessary poems

3. Getting msg after room - all of You know that there is something wrong with system. Info about left msg should appear after leaving room not after "log out and on"
Some of You never agree with 2 first points cause You dont want to be disturb, but my idea appear when I was attacked by cold invites. We have to escape to room with my friend. And in the moment when we were in room our friend log on chat. We could speak in group, but we didnt know that she is online (...to some of You: Yes I use sometimes room just to talk, especially in group


...). So thats the reason of my idea.
You probably say: block free user, and You wont have problem anymore. So I ask: who tell that cold invites sent only free members?
Maybe there should be another use for busy-button: block all except friends/lovers/spouses from Your list?