@lover thanks for that
back to "he" or "she".... I polled three of my friends by email last night and....
1) .....depends who I am with...concerned if with a male and they talk to me as if I am male...my sarcasm level usually increases.
2) .... I have more things to worry about now than how someone refers to me but xxxx (
her fem tg partner) often uses masculine terms when talking to me if she is pissed off with me so I guess I tend to prefer feminine terms...outside of the home the situation has never really occurred except when I was a young kid and you know how mad I used to get (
I don't remember) when others referred to me as male
3)...I haven't really thought of it...but definitely "she"...
so, I guess generally, based on that I was wrong but it is hardly a large sample.