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A submissive should not have such control...
just saying...

However for those who enjoy spankings and such the idea has merit.

in a game , its the sub who have true power  . I mean , for exemple , if i'm in room with hmmm blue (pure hazard  ) and give her a spank , if she dont réact , where is the pleasure . The only true power the Dom have in a game like achat or others , is chantage  . like : Oh you dont want play , ok , so i stop to come  .

Quote from: Bear on February 21, 2012, 07:52:50 PM

A submissive should not have such control...
just saying...

However for those who enjoy spankings and such the idea has merit.

in a game , its the sub who have true power  . I mean , for exemple , if i'm in room with hmmm blue (pure hazard  ) and give her a spank ,

Oh Rukya, how I wish it were so!   

Rukya there is a difference between power and control... please look at Janine's statement.

I have not said anything about where the power lay,... my comments went to the control matter,... that is the element that the submissive surrenders. In the VR community a submissive's power remains, she may either accept what is being done or exit.

Janine has said it all, quite clearly. Once a submissive yields control it is "all or nothing, otherwise we can't function"...