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Who are you? Read below, and see where you fit in the pattern. This is meant usually for heterosexual couples, but I'm sure it can apply in other ways.

It would be fascinating to see who see's themselves as what, so please put below your response to this as follows:

Name: Jensen
Who am I: Soldier
Who is my best match?: Maiden
Who do I want to be?: None other than I am, a Soldier.
Who do I usually pursue?: Princess's. Gawd, this needs to stop.

I hope everyone has fun!

Soldier, Hero, Maiden, Princess...

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The Hero is a rusher; someone who breaks down barriers (violently when necessary), scales the walls, and kills captors and tormentors to get to what or whom he wants.

When the Hero is done, the castle is stormed and the dragon slain, and the girl falls hard for him. Once his task is done, he has no other purpose, but to be the Hero again. If the girl he rescues doesn’t put herself back in the tower, and wall herself back in, he looses interest. He has a shallow perspective. He wants what he wants, and when he’s done, he’s done. This can be applied to any aspect of a relationship, mentally, emotionally, or physically.

The Soldier is backup; one who fights behind the Hero, is supporting to him in his efforts, and all the while wishing he were in front. The soldier is stronger, can endure longer, takes more behind the scenes risks, and is loyal to a fault. He pursues what or whom he wants at a distance. The soldier is never satisfied that he never took the hero's place. He is always fighting. He never pauses. Problem is, the soldier is too afraid to accept when the one he wants comes to them. They push away, and cause them to run back to the Hero.

Most friendships between guys, especially those which are Best Friend-ships, are usually a pair of both a Hero and a Soldier. Some group friendships are mostly Soldiers, with Heroes at the forefront of the group. The same applies to women, as explained a little later

There comes a time when the Soldier needs to be the Hero. He'll need to step up when the time is right. And sometimes the time is never right.

There are two cases where the Soldier needs to step up.

The first: When a Hero becomes a Villain. It is up to the Soldier to take him out. When that happens, if there is still Hero in the Villain, he will take the defeat, recognize his failing, learn from it, and move on. Or he will complete his transition, and go berserk on the Soldier, and what or who was being fought over.

The second: When it is time for the Soldier to get the Girl. Step up, take action, and win Her heart, no matter the cost.

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Just like there are two kinds of Men, there are two kinds of Women.

Some are the Princesses, and others are Maidens.

Princesses love to be in the castle, love to put themselves at risk, in the path of danger, and often intentionally return to a place of “captivity”. They are perfect for the Hero, because they never tire of being rescued, and the Hero never tires of being a rescuer. They also, however, must ALLOW their Hero to rescue them, or there will be no lasting relationship.

Then there are the Maidens. They long to be fought over, but never put themselves in a situation that needs to be won. They sit idly by and watch. Crushes, loves, and desires come and go. These are good match for the Soldier, but they both sit by and let it all slip by. They too, must at some point, put themselves into the path of those who they wish to capture their heart. If they are interested in a Soldier, but never do anything to let them know, the soldier will most likely NEVER GET THE HINT! (We are kinda dumb you know...)

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No Soldier can ever maintain a relationship with a Princess, unless they recondition themselves to meet her needs. This usually causes the Soldier to become virtually unable to meet the emotional, mental, and spiritual Needs of their partner.

Nor can a Maiden can satisfy a Hero, unless they do the same, change who they are, and begin to purposefully put themselves in harms way (either mentally, emotionally, spiritually, or physically).

This, is settling.

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Now. Yet another side to this little section of information. Some who are Heroes, Soldiers, Princesses or Maidens, are not truly themselves. Some, through trauma, past events and relationships, parental influences, or just by the way they were raised, are not who they were meant to be.

Because of this FACT, whoever you TRULY are inside, you need to take into account the other persons past, their hurts, their emotional trauma, and current and future desires.

It is up to you to correctly evaluate your partners standing, who they are, and what they need from you. At some point, you may need to ask them what they think they are, and whom they see you as. This would help in the evaluation process for a continuing romantic relationship.

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Nice story Jensen
I am a Princesses

I'm actually pretty surprised not more people commented, or replied to this. Still very relevant tho.

I like to read all that  is posted on the  forum 

Hi JEN *hugs* , Like FOXY, I too read EVERYTHING posted to forum so I was quite surprised to read your comment and was wondering how I missed your original post until I looked at it's posting date.   JEN ..... you silly boy, you posted this before I met you, before I discovered this wacky world ...... you posted this all the way back in MAY 2014.

I suggest you give your original post a bump to present times, then maybe more of us "newbies" will read and comment.  I am not one who believes people can be sorted and placed in different baskets like fruits or vegetables. We are all so unique, different shaped by so many things in our lives. I am more inclined to agree with one of your passages:

"Because of this FACT, whoever you TRULY are inside, you need to take into account the other persons past, their hurts, their emotional trauma, and current and future desires."

And when it comes to RELATIONSHIPS, between two souls looking for a connection, finding their "chemistry" ....... that is more like magic than a process to me. Each so different.

"It is up to you to correctly evaluate your partners standing, who they are, and what they need from you. At some point, you may need to ask them what they think they are, and whom they see you as. This would help in the evaluation process for a continuing romantic relationship."

Just my opine. I see individuals, each of us our own. The cover of our book does not tell our story, for that the reader must open the book and take the time to read what's inside.

Thanks for posting and sharing JEN, it is good to hear your voice in the forum.

*hugs n Tickles* to you JEN

Your friend Kaitlyn

Some ight have thought it's "just" a story, have missed it or just don't find themselves in it.
To speak about myself, I don't see me in any role. I'm just me and I love who I am.

It might fit for some or even many though. At least could give them an idea to think about what they are, how they wanna be or why they (always) get into the same situations. And for some it must ne more modern lol... talking about Star Wars figures and other role models