I'm sorry Rukya, but I don't think your negative approach will get things happening any sooner. You might want to try and explain what you mean, bring in details of the poses you expect and propose them with a glare of positivism.. just my humble opinion
With that out of the weay, I would like to add my support to the suggestion as well. And wanting to add something that was mentioned before in another theread (if Lover was here, the link would follow shortly), and that is gentle foreplay for Fm, instead of just Mf.. As West has stated, not all men look for a rough adventure, some have a gentler touch (this remark will come as a surprise to some, if they read the forum at all).Kissing, holding, caressing, a lap pose where the girl sits on the guys knees or sideways.. stroking through hair, touching cheeks, the line of her neck.. fingers sliding all over her body.. Or vice versa in the same pose, the girl caressing the man, his chest, his face his hair..In so many posts there is the desire for sensuality and erotica.. Thanks Cazzy for bumping the subject..