I understand, I'm in the same case.
I'll go in room with Lucie in SF or MFS then when I am invited.
And I never invite it's a principle.
It's my choice
MS: a lot, daily
SF: rarely
SS: rarely with my mistress for the fun.
SSS: never
SSF: never
SSM: never
SMM: rarely because very poor
SFF: never
And I have all the poses lol